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Why 'MAP'?

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JellySlice · 17/08/2020 00:08

Why has 'Minor Attracted Person' replaced 'paedophile'?

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Alabamawhirly1 · 17/08/2020 22:15

I'm rather suspicious of the accounts claiming to be child MAP allies or even asking for contact.

From what I've seen a big objective for the MAP movement seems to be lowering the age of concent based on the fact that children want to have sex not only with each other but also with adults. They are pushing the idea that with the right education and some sort of exam, children as young as 5 should be able to earn the right to concent.

Now as I, you and any other person that has spent more than a few seconds with a child knows, children do not want to have sex. Teenagers maybe, but they only really want to have sex with each other and that is already legal from what 13?

So the MAP's need child allies to prove their point that children actually want to get into relationships with adults. That's never going to happen. So I think they've probably made up a load of false accounts saying their child MAP allies.

I also fear that these child MAP allie accounts could also be fronts for the trade of CSA images that are traded from twitter.

DryHeave · 17/08/2020 21:13

Thought this was going to be a thread about the new Cardi B song.

Skyliner001 · 17/08/2020 21:06

@ComeOnBabyPopMyBubble

Isn't twitter supposed to be 13?

Why is an 11 yo allowed on it, posting pornografic/NSFW drawn pictures?

And if they're not 11, why are they allowed to pretend they are?

So ,so many children...

Horrific.
CousinKrispy · 17/08/2020 14:28

Can't remember who made this excellent point above:

"Perhaps when we see 'MAP' we should avoid the trap of being drawn into the precise technical definitions of paedophilia and ask for clarification - do they mean Child Rapist, other Child Sex Abusers, Child Sex Abuse Fetishist , and a second question - why are they trying to enable or normalise Child Sex Abuse?"

ErrolTheDragon · 17/08/2020 14:13

@FemaleAndLearning

ThePurported" and ErrolTheDragon" I don't believe it is a hoax, but already there are attempts to link this to a hoax to discredit concerned voices, another tactic.
You may well be right; what I was correcting was the unambiguously wrong inference re 'the whole MAP thing' being a hoax.
Deliriumoftheendless · 17/08/2020 13:47

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ComeOnBabyPopMyBubble · 17/08/2020 13:45

Isn't twitter supposed to be 13?

Why is an 11 yo allowed on it, posting pornografic/NSFW drawn pictures?

And if they're not 11, why are they allowed to pretend they are?

So ,so many children...

Why 'MAP'?
AlbusSirius · 17/08/2020 13:39

I presume Non-Offending means "hasn't been caught yet"

ComeOnBabyPopMyBubble · 17/08/2020 13:28

Nothing to see here. Just your garden variety right wing hoax.

Why 'MAP'?
Why 'MAP'?
merrymouse · 17/08/2020 13:21

or the Guardian starts running pieces entitled "what the white supremacist origins or the age of consent reveal about MAPERFs"

I don't think we would get to that stage - but I think that defences that are supposed to protect children have already been eroded. For instance the NSPCC seems more interested in 'acceptance without exception' than teaching children that they can and should have boundaries.

ComeOnBabyPopMyBubble · 17/08/2020 13:12

And so so many, as young as 10(or at least claiming to be) have MAP ally in their bio. How is this allowed?

ComeOnBabyPopMyBubble · 17/08/2020 13:07

What I find really worrying is that there are a bunch of kids on there (13/14/15 yos, boys and girls) taking the MAP/NOMAP identity , having AOA as low as 6 etc. These children need help, not a platform where they can get lost in this massive rabbit hole, get groomed and deeply entrenched in a pedophile "identity".

Motherofmonsters · 17/08/2020 13:05

Bygrab not long I would imagine.

That's what frustrated me so much with these topics. As soon as anything comes up that is not 100% positive, it's automatically a hoax or right wingers making stuff up. You just need to do a bit of digging and there's far too much stuff for it to be 4chan messing about

ByGrabtharsHammerWhatASavings · 17/08/2020 13:00

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FemaleAndLearning · 17/08/2020 12:14

ThePurported" and ErrolTheDragon"
I don't believe it is a hoax, but already there are attempts to link this to a hoax to discredit concerned voices, another tactic.

TheWordWomanIsTaken · 17/08/2020 12:04

@highame

LGBT has expanded enormously over recent years and there doesn't seem to have been a check on what's going on. There is always the chance that, once a ball is rolling, it becomes very difficult to tell where it's going.

These people will do everything they can to find a way to be recognised or at least infiltrate a group to give themselves legitimacy. At some point, the LGBT+ community are going to have to deal with this. I think grey areas are a real threat and 'inclusive' for everyone has weaknesses to be exploited.

In no way should groups representing the gay community be tarnished because everyone wants to be included.

Hence the LGB Alliance was formed - and then found itself in a shitstorm accused of transphobia Hmm
FlamingoAndJohn · 17/08/2020 12:02

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ErrolTheDragon · 17/08/2020 11:55

We actually have a lesser used word in old psychological literature: Pederast

Afaik that specifically relates to homoerotic paedo/hebe/ephebe behaviours.

The Greek origins were possibly in part the result of the societal control of women and the guarding of paternity. Boys were the alternative 'non man'. (I've heard that for similar reasons lesbian relationships might have been more common).

But yes, the "-Philia" is so wrong. These people don't love children, and certainly not as friends.

So yes, let's ditch those '-philias' and stick to more accurate, non euphemistic terms along the lines of my previous post.

NiceGerbil · 17/08/2020 11:54

MAP on MN still means morning after pill to the vast majority of women I'd have thought.

That's what it was used for on a thread the other day.

I've seen paedophile used loads I don't think MAP is common use at all.

JellySlice · 17/08/2020 11:52

Unfortunately pederast became a highly pejorative word for homosexual, so is now unusable as it would be perceived as homophobic.

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Dervel · 17/08/2020 11:45

Actually the word pedophile slightly annoys me from an etymological perspective. We get the phile bit of some words from Classical Greek, as they had multiple words for love e.g. agape, storge, philia and eros. Philia means the love between friends, it’s Eros that represents sexual lust and attraction. We actually have a lesser used word in old psychological literature: Pederast. I often wonder if the world pedophile itself was some earlier historical attempt to rebrand the sexual attraction towards children to something more palatable. I fear they’ve been at this for awhile...

ErrolTheDragon · 17/08/2020 11:29

[quote FemaleAndLearning]I couldn't find cummie cutie on twitter just some thread about the whole MAP thing bring a hoax by right wingers!
twitter.com/ElwoodPolly/status/1288504813815304198?s=19[/quote]
That piece is saying 'cummie cutie' and the attempt to add P to the alphabet soup were a hoax, not that "the whole MAP" thing is a hoax.

ThePurported · 17/08/2020 11:21

just some thread about the whole MAP thing bring a hoax by right wingers

Someone better tell Dr James Cantor and the Silicon Valley lawyer who are steering one of these MAP advocacy orgs.

Soontobe60 · 17/08/2020 11:16

@RCBadger

Paedophile and MAP are not necessarily the same thing. A paedophile is sexually attracted to prepubescent children. An MAP is sexually attracted to people who are minors. If the minor is considered under the age of consent, then having sex with them if you an adult is a crime. But it's not the same as paedophilia.
Says anyone who claims to be a MAP. Anyone who wants to rape a child is equally as perverted.
JellySlice · 17/08/2020 11:14

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