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Nursery and gender

28 replies

Goldencurtain · 16/08/2020 12:27

Hello, my child is about to start nursery and I've been sent a 'getting to know you' form about him and the second question asked after 'name' is 'gender'. Until I was radicalised by Mumsnet, ha! I also didn't understand the difference between sex and gender, and why it matters.

I want to say something to them about why it needs to be sex not gender, but I don't know what exactly and how to put it without sounding like a knob. It's the start of my relationship with them and don't want to come across as a difficult parent.

Help!

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Jellyeggs · 16/08/2020 12:33

Id just answer the question as if they mean sex, because a lot of places are still using the terms interchangeably. You’ll make more of an impact if you wait for something properly offensive to make your point and sandwich it between displaying your utter reasonableness as a parent. In my experience. Others may disagree.

Shakirasma · 16/08/2020 12:32

I wouldn't make a big deal of it as you want to start your relationship with them on a non confrontational note. I would amend the form by crossing out gender and writing sex instead to make the point at this early stage and address any future issues on a case by case basis.

Siameasy · 16/08/2020 12:32

Is it a paper form? Our nursery did that and as it was paper I just crossed it out and put sex

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