[quote jj1968]@KingFredsTache
Also, thinking about non-binary people, such as Travis Alabanza. Travis is a very obvious male who essentially appears to have an eccentric dress sense, but believe that he should be able to use female changing rooms if he wants to, because if his trans status. Where does he stand?
Travis believed that they were entitled to use the changing room of their choice because that was Topshop's stated policy at the time. It's really unfair to blame individual trans people who are simply following the law as they understand it or asking why a business isn;t upholding their policies. If you don't like the law, or don't like what Topshop have done with their changing rooms you should blame the Government or Topshop, not pick on individuals. It was disgraceful the way some people treated Travis.
But also an interesting case to bring up because I remember seeing it discussed on here, along with horrifying portents of doom that Topshop changing rooms would now be full of predatory men, that the shops would become defacto no go zones for women, that huge numbers of girls were going to be assaulted and that customers would abandon the stores in droves.
None of those things happened did they.
And I suspect the reason Topshop adopted that policy is because they focus tested their customers, found a growing trend for more diverse gender expressions and didn't want to alienate the trans, non binary and gender nonconforming customers and their friends who make up a large part of their customer base, Young people don't seem to care about all this stuff. Times are changing.[/quote]
Here's an idea, a little radical, but bear with me.
How about people like Travis Alabanza stop and think to themselves - 'hmmm, Im a rather strapping adult male bodied person. I wonder if the teenage girls shopping in Topshop are actually comfortable with me in the same changing room as them? I know that male violence is a thing, I know that women are, often for good reason, uncomfortable with males in their vulnerable spaces and I am very obviously male. I would hate to make anyone feel uncomfortable, so I think that I am going to stick with the changing rooms that are meant for my sex, like other males are expected to do'.
Ya know, instead of thinking 'me me me me, what about me, what about what suits me, what about what I want to do on any given day, I'm a male and I'm going to tantrum on Twitter if I can't enter the ladies changing rooms because I should be able to go wherever the fuck I feel like'.
Just a thought, like.....
By the way, I think people 'picked on' Travis because he was the one who went crying to Twitter that he was denied access to changing rooms not meant for his sex.
Also, do you think M and S 'focus tested' their customer base before making their changing rooms mixed sex (whilst still labeled male and female)? If oldies who shop in there are such a bunch of bigots and young'uns who shop in Topshop are so forward thinking?
'Young people don't care about this stuff'... Yeah I mean we are in a climate where young girls are now being made to think that discomfort around male bodies when in a vulnerable place is 'bigotry' so I'm not really surprised.