Views that won't change

those who fully accept that TWAW are just never going to see it any other way

I don't think that that is true at all. Many, many people peak, including some full on trans activists. It's just that they need something to make them lower their defences and allow themselves to start to think critically about it.

Because everyone thinks differently, that thing is different for each person. For me, it was the incoherent nature of the ideology. But many people say that it was seeing the behaivour of trans activists - the violent threats, or the dishonesty. Or a particular case like Yaniv. Or someone accusing them of being a t*rf for something innocuous. And for a lot of people it is a combination - the niggles build and build, until something just breaks.

If you want to see some signs of hope OP, have a read of this:

medium.com/@duncanrailton78/how-i-became-a-trans-rights-activist-then-turned-gender-critical-part-1-cc09c4027b12

It contains a link to Part II.

those who fully accept that TWAW are just never going to see it any other

Maybe, but have a read of the thoughts of Robin Green, a well-known trans activist philosopher:

twitter.com/Teddy_de_Chypre/status/1168502353852604423

"Martin Luther in his defense in the 1521 Diet of Worms, Germany, Luther said that "most human affairs come down to depending on whose ox is gored. I am fascinated by the human condition that says, in essence, what I do is perfectly all right, but you should never do the same, as you do not have as pure of motives as I do."

That appears to be what is happening to people who hold genderist beliefs. Self righteousness feels like empowerment until they are the ones under fire and being harmed.

I find it quite useful actually. If someone truly believes that TWAW, I can get the measure of them as a person.