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"We must not fetishise debate"

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RoyalCorgi · 24/07/2020 09:57

A line from an article by Nadia Whittome, MP. She was so pleased with it that she also tweeted it.

t.co/cr8b8QfOn0?amp=1

When did our MPs become this stupid?

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FloralBunting · 24/07/2020 13:46

Think-shaming might be an apt term.

Excellent. It's notable that she might have used 'idolize' which would have made her brain dead point too, but she chose the word fetishize. I'd say that was fairly revealing in itself in terms of the stable of ideas her ridiculous rhetoric comes from.

Datun · 24/07/2020 13:46

She's oppression shaming. She is telling women that they must not react to their own oppression, because that's hatred.

Ugh.

It seems to me as though she has swallowed a whole load of bullshit, and regurgitated it with her own weird spin, making it sound more insane than it did in the first place.

Datun · 24/07/2020 13:44

She means being irrationally committed to debate or that our desire to debate is somehow overblown.

The idea that the violent censorship of women is neutral, and women's democratic right to debate laws that affect them, isn't, is astonishing.

Particularly in light of the bloody government telling people to do so.

bishopgiggles · 24/07/2020 13:40

@Thelnebriati

"We must not fetishise debate"

Can anyone explain what she means by fetishise?

And why she's insinuating fetishes are wrong? Isn't that kink-shaming?

Think-shaming might be an apt term.

QueSera · 24/07/2020 13:38

So what she's saying is: gender ideology trumps women's rights - no debate.

What a misogynistic disgrace she is.

merrymouse · 24/07/2020 13:36

Every single person arguing with her in parliament will now start with

"While I understand that the honourable member for Nottingham East does not like to 'fetishise debate', I must point out that..."

Kantastic · 24/07/2020 13:35

I didn't realise she was only 24, that's simultaneously impressive and disturbing. You'd think someone would have to be quite exceptionally bright or talented to get elected an MP at age 24. I'm not sure what her abilities are - but it's rather ominous that they don't include understanding why free speech and open debate are an important part of making laws in a democracy.

PligityPolopity · 24/07/2020 13:32

@zanahoria

Don't you just love getting history lessons about things you remember from someone who was not there?

She should check her history books again, look at other people who believed in #nodebate.

This^^ We need to learn from history, not repeat it.
ThePankhurstConnection · 24/07/2020 13:30

@Thelnebriati

"We must not fetishise debate"

Can anyone explain what she means by fetishise?

She means being irrationally committed to debate or that our desire to debate is somehow overblown.

Well, I think that is what she means but with everything else she has said I'm not sure she does a whole lot of thinking on her own.

The idea of irrational commitment to debate in a democracy (by which she was elected) - sheer folly and madness, we should all just do as we are told.

RoyalCorgi · 24/07/2020 13:25

Iain Fletcher's point about dogwhistles and bad faith is a good one. Once again, it's about avoiding having to justify your views. So if someone makes an entirely sensible remark such as "it's impossible to change sex" or "biology is real", and normal people think "What's wrong with that?" a TRA will pop up to tell you it's a "transphobic dog whistle".

The term "dog whistle" is a useful term for describing a particular kind of anti-Semitism which uses coded references (such as "Rothschild") to disguise what they're saying to the unaware. But it's completely ludicrous when applied to the trans debate.

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ThePankhurstConnection · 24/07/2020 13:24

@SquishySquirmy

I have no problem with daft statements like "women are less intelligent than men" being "up for debate". Because there are plenty of arguments and evidence that show women are as intelligent as men. When people argue for "no debate" it us usually because they are not able to defend their own position, so must resort to silencing the opposite position.
Completely agree with you on this.

I am extremely frustrated with a politician telling us there shouldn't be a debate on proposed legislation, she clearly doesn't understand what democracy is and as such she shouldn't be representing anyone in Parliament. As for her repeating the quote of a UK drag race contestant - belief/ reality - belief = born in the wrong body, reality = biology. I don't think she does a lot of heavy thinking sadly. She really is in the wrong job.

If Keir Starmer wants people to see Labour as a party advocating for a totalitarian state he should keep MPs like her in his party.

merrymouse · 24/07/2020 13:21

Changing the world can never be down be saying magic wand and making oppression go away, it cannot be achieved by changing one mind at a time and the only way to do that is through free and open debate.

Apart from anything else #nodebate works both ways, and if Nadia Whittome removed herself from twitter she might notice that we currently have a Conservative government and the only way for her to express her views on this issue as part of the democratic process is through debate.

RoyalCorgi · 24/07/2020 13:02

zanahoria: you are absolutely right about this. Did Martin Luther King ever say "No debate"? Did Gloria Steinem say "No debate"? Did Nelson Mandela say "No debate"? They were all of them willing to argue their case passionately and publicly.

The reason why TRAs say "no debate" is because they know they would lose any debate, since their argument is a series of unevidenced assertions based on a false premise.

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zanahoria · 24/07/2020 12:50

No other civil rights campaign has ever the slogan 'no debate'. I remember growing up at a time when gay people were ridiculed and abused, even people.suspected of being gay, the chance to actually debate the issues, get the abusers to state exactly why they thought they were superior would have been welcomed in open arms. The chance to explain that personal sexuality was not threat to anyone else would have been infinitely preferable to dear ears and mindless taunts. I am sure countless other groups would thought the same. Changing the world can never be down be saying magic wand and making oppression go away, it cannot be achieved by changing one mind at a time and the only way to do that is through free and open debate.

TheRealMcKenna · 24/07/2020 12:45

Does she even realise what she sounds like?

"We must not fetishise debate"
SunsetBeetch · 24/07/2020 12:38

And up pops Natacha Kennedy to tag in Terfblocker Hmm

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SunsetBeetch · 24/07/2020 12:37

My favourite replies to her. We all know why TRAs don't want a debate.

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BaronessBollyKnickers · 24/07/2020 12:33

Labour then.

ScrimpshawTheSecond · 24/07/2020 12:30

Christ, Corgi. Hard to read shit like that and maintain a level response. Not our crimes.

zanahoria · 24/07/2020 12:29

Don't you just love getting history lessons about things you remember from someone who was not there?

She should check her history books again, look at other people who believed in #nodebate.

Datun · 24/07/2020 12:29

The government sent out a public consultation on this issue and invited the entire country to debate it.

That same government is just about to deliver their verdict.

It doesn't take a genius to work out why the concept of debate must be vilified when it's not going to turn out in your favour.

I've read that tweet several times and I'm struggling to get my head around it.

The rabid, frothing, violent and often illegal censorship of women is fine? Because the opposite is hate??

RoyalCorgi · 24/07/2020 12:19

Ironic that her piece should come out the same day as this:

www.itv.com/news/anglia/2020-05-07/three-jailed-for-horrific-abuse-of-children/

"Two men and a woman have been convicted of the ‘horrific’ and ‘sadistic’ abuse of children over a number of years."

What kind of woman would abuse a child? You may well ask.

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 24/07/2020 12:06

So will there be no more parliamentary debates?

FloralBunting · 24/07/2020 12:05

I mean, all this crap about "Oh, so you think equal rights for lesbian and gay people needs to be debated, do you?"

Well, plenty of people do still debate it, and I'm fully equipped to make the strong case that equal rights are a good thing. Who do you think benefits when I don't make that case? Fucking idiocy.

RedDogsBeg · 24/07/2020 12:05

From Amrou Al-Khadi:

Thank you Nadia! I wonder if @trussliz realises just how much heartache & anxiety she’s caused the trans community this past few months. We don’t just need a guarantee our rights won’t be rolled back - but assurances that they will be advanced, and to be offered more protections.

Reply from Nadia Whittome MP:

Yes! Defend and extend. Solidarity mate x

There we have it, proof positive that the endgame is for trans people, particularly mtf to have MORE rights than anyone else, making them a sacred caste and what does history, and the very sorely missed LangCleg, have to say and have proof of in respect of deeming one particular demographic, profession or person untouchable?

and these are the law makers, it beggars belief that this is the state of politics and parliament in 2020.