The reason that I fight against the concept of 'male brain' and 'female brain' is that it's often used to explain why men are 'better' at maths, computer coding, parallel parking etc and I strongly disagree with that
Obviously there are individual differences, but there are general trends and tendencies. As you say, it is too easy just to pick out the 'negative' ( culturally frowned upon) differences, whilst not acknowledging some of the other differences too.
The one other forum I post on, apart from this one, is an almost totally male dominated forum - dedicated to architecture, cities and urbanity. Why is that?
There is nothing to stop women from signing up or contributing. Even on there, though, there is a tendency for the males to be minutely interested in the very specific details of construction method, in a way that leaves me cold.
A lot of men are also very interested in the minutiae of transport networks. There was a woman once, who was similarly interested, and she produced elaborate maps and plans for a new city transport network. I know she was a lesbian, but also suspect that she was on the autistic spectrum.