Just as the title really. I'm so tired of being told that I'm a bigot for not wanting to sleep with trans women, that being a lesbian at all is bigotry, that using the term lesbian instead of queer or pan is bigotry. Even my fucking therapist was shocked when I said I wouldn't want to sleep with ANYONE with a penis, no matter how they 'identify'. EVEN MY GIRLFRIEND DISAGREES WITH ME. I'm absolutely exhausted, and have been called a TERF so many times now that even opening facebook or reddit or basically any article about sexuality or pride or anything remotely related, give me an instant stomach ache. I'm so fucking tired.