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"How the 'Karen Meme' Confronts the Violent History of White Womanhood"

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Igneococcus · 03/07/2020 09:17

This just popped up as a recomendation in Firefox when I open a new tab. I can't fully read it right now because I'm in a meeting any moment now (someone's still sorting out techinical issues), but a first quick scan makes me go "WTF" :

time.com/5857023/karen-meme-history-meaning/?utm_source=pocket-newtab-global-en-GB

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ScrimpshawTheSecond · 06/07/2020 19:24

The BBC deleted the tweet?

Gosh, I hope they weren't being defensive. Because that would be ironic.

You can call women Karens, t*s, bitches, witches, all you want. There's just too many of us to shut us all up, at the end of the day.

SinisterBumFacedCat · 06/07/2020 18:44

And now anyone reacting to it on Twitter is being labelled “Karen”.

Men don’t even have to bother being misogynist anymore, women are doing the job for them.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 06/07/2020 18:36

The BBC tweet appears to have been disappeared?

NotTerfNorCis · 06/07/2020 18:33

Just seen that BBC video. Women should be quiet and 'just leave'? What kind of Handmaid's Tale vibe is this?

merrymouse · 06/07/2020 18:30

'The fact that there is not a male equivalent of the term “Karen” does not mean that “Karen” is misogynist, it means that it’s a label specifically describing the weaponisation of a particular type of white femininity, come on, this isn’t hard'

In the UK "Charlotte" and "Amelia" could specifically describe the weaponisation of a particular kind of class privilege. Come on, this isn't hard.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 06/07/2020 18:24

Also I notice that the young white woman making the list seems to have no plans of shutting up and leaving herself. Young women rebelling against their mums isn't revolutionary, it's just adolescence, which currently seems to extend well into the 20s for those who aren't forced by circumstances to grow up and get a job.

HeistSociety · 06/07/2020 18:22

@Antibles

1. 'Educate yourself'
  1. 'Try not to be defensive'.
  2. 'Don't be so loud'.
  3. 'Basically, leave'

That was indeed an offensive, women-silencing piece of shit broadcasting. I've 'basically left' and shall continue to focus my energies on feminism.

Same.

If you're damned if you do, damned if you don't, by virtue of your sex and skin colour and NOT your actions, there is no role other than as willing puppet, punching bag, and scapegoat for the actions of white men.

As an abuse survivor, I'm not hanging around for that.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 06/07/2020 18:22

Of those 4 demands the first two might be reasonable in some contexts, but he last 2 deserve no response other than "nope, fuck off".

Antibles · 06/07/2020 18:16
  1. 'Educate yourself'
  2. 'Try not to be defensive'.
  3. 'Don't be so loud'.
  4. 'Basically, leave'

That was indeed an offensive, women-silencing piece of shit broadcasting. I've 'basically left' and shall continue to focus my energies on feminism.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 06/07/2020 18:00

Why is the BBC trying to meme? That's just embarrassing. You are not cool, BBC, and being cool is not your job.

AlexisCarringtonColbyDexter · 06/07/2020 17:58

It’s funny how it’s white men who built the patriarchy, the capitalist systems that place black bodies at the bottom of the pile, amassed the worlds wealth by using those bodies, continue to protect and uphold those systems the world over. Yet when it comes to trial by twitter and the ‘woke’ vitriol it’s always, always women who get it and are made the example of. I don’t condone any of their actions, but I’ve seen far more criticism of these women than, say, the men who have murdered black people. But twitter is a cesspit of misogyny, so I’m not surprised. That article is a largely a load of toss

Yep - perfectly stated. I completely agree.

Goosefoot · 06/07/2020 17:56

HarryHarry

I think part of the reason is that in the US most black people don't really know where in Africa their ancestors came from, and in fact it's probably a good mix. So it's not possible to be as specific as "Italian-American".

But there have been a fair number too who don't like the term for the exact reasons you say. I don't think you are really safer to use it rather than black - it's a coin flip if the person you are talking to will prefer one or the other.

merrymouse · 06/07/2020 17:53

There is no equivalent continent term for white Americans - we don’t say “European-American”, for example, just specific countries like “Italian-American” or “Irish-American”.

I'm British, but to me the reasons seem obvious. Plenty of Americans claim their ancestors arrived on the Mayflower. They have records to trace their ancestry, and the country their ancestors travelled from still exists.

If you think about the treatment of slaves and the history of Africa even after the slave trade ended, it becomes clear that, for horrifying reasons, it isn't possible for all Americans to trace their ancestry or claim a country of origin in the same way.

ShinyFootball · 06/07/2020 17:31

I think they do day Irish American and Italian American don't they?

Not a USA person but sure I have heard that.

HarryHarry · 06/07/2020 17:10

Slightly off topic but are there any black Americans on this thread who can explain why people there seem to prefer to say “African American” instead of black? I always felt like it was negative because it’s like qualifying their Americanness, as if you’re not full Americans, you’re AFRICAN Americans. There is no equivalent continent term for white Americans - we don’t say “European-American”, for example, just specific countries like “Italian-American” or “Irish-American”. Also for many black Americans I imagine the connection to Africa is very very remote now. But I guess it could also be a way of honouring the memory of the enslaved people from whom you may have descended.

A black American friend told me that it was just “more polite” than saying “black”. Is it? How do you feel about it?

Dervel · 06/07/2020 16:51

The problem stems from the wider objectification of women, because viewing women as objects confers an intrinsic value (this comes with a commensurate reduction of agency) both as sex objects and all the free labour women do. This leads to the unfortunate reality that women are sorted into categories of greater and lesser value, with black women being valued less. So I can see where the friction comes from, as some white women trying to navigate a system that only values them in specific narrow ways as opposed to full human beings, trying to snatch what agency and influence they can.

I am reminded of one of my friends who as a younger woman made her cheerleading squad (along with another African American student) at her high school. Two white mothers raised objections as their two white daughters were passed over, and unconsciously whilst they may not have been actively racists, and of course had no trouble with the idea of African American students on the team had a massive problem as they viewed these two girls as having taken their two girls “spots”. I think this is the sort of shit black women have to contend with that is so frustrating.

One of the white girls mothers was also responsible for providing the uniforms so obviously expected special treatment and it’s THIS sort of exercise of privilege that (both racial AND class/economic) that’s so pernicious and difficult to uproot.

ikeairgin · 06/07/2020 15:32

@DidoLamenting

He's the most racist stereotyping pale and stale male that you are likely to meet - he's alf garnet on steroids, thankfully he lives in west Wales - a long way away and full of his type of people

I think that anything that casually stereotypes any person, on an individual level is lazy and unhelpful

Do you not see the irony of saying that anything that casually stereotypes any person on an individual level is lazy and unhelpful when placed beside your lazy stereotyping of the residents of north Wales?

@DidoLamenting

It's West Wales (not North) where he and his cronies reside - they are English ex-expats and I haven't dissed the Welsh - do read my posts, or is English comprehension not your best subject?

ScrimpshawTheSecond · 06/07/2020 14:47

I see, RoyalCorgi. There seem to be quite a few of these educated, well spoken white women who do a lot of hectoring and attacking of older, less privileged women. Odd, really. Maybe not.

Goosefoot · 06/07/2020 14:31

@NewNameNewShoes

Didn't mean to come across as goady as my posts read, but honestly it a little frustrating to see the amount of deflection going on when this type of behaviour is usually criticised on here.

For example, if somebody dares mention during a discussion about the pay gap that women outearn men until the age of 40 and that the gap is growing, they are accused of WATMing. But then when the focus is on white women, posters are incredibly to say WATM.

I think the focus here should be on the actions being described (e.g. of people like Amy Cooper etc) rather than endless quibbling about the meaning of 'Karen'.

I agree sometimes people are inconsistent and it is frustrating.

But it's not always the same people. I think it's pretty significant that the pay gap kicks in later and should be part of any discussion around it.

TBH I find the discussion on women's issues is often a little frustrating because people don't want to be open about what the evidence suggests, or consider different possible interpretations - it seems like they are looking for a pre-ordained conclusion. Race discussions often (not always) seem a little more open to different possibilities.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/07/2020 14:12

It no longer surprises me that men enjoy exercising their misogyny. I still find it disheartening when women join in with it, presumably because they enjoy the thrill of male approval they get when they give a "Karen" a good kicking.

Yes, absolutely. It depresses me.

RoyalCorgi · 06/07/2020 14:06

I just don't think the dehumanisation of white women as a racist, privileged mass of Karen's is the path to justice for anyone.

Yup. And of course it's not really about getting justice, is it? It's about enjoying the full licence to demonstrate your misogyny under the guise of being anti-racist - in much the same way that being pro-trans gives you the same licence. There's zero recognition of the fact that the majority of racial violence against black people is carried out by white men, and zero attempt to demonise white men in the same way.

It no longer surprises me that men enjoy exercising their misogyny. I still find it disheartening when women join in with it, presumably because they enjoy the thrill of male approval they get when they give a "Karen" a good kicking.

TreezaMendoza · 06/07/2020 13:47

“These memes are actually doing logical and political work of helping us get to legal changes or legislative changes, which is really something to be said. While of course, they aren’t a standalone movement on their own, they actively call out white supremacy and call for restitution. They really do that work of highlighting and sort of commenting on the racial inequality in a way that mainstream news doesn’t capture.”

That would be great if the Karen slur wasn’t exclusively directed at one class of people. That’s why it’s a slur.

RoyalCorgi · 06/07/2020 13:45

@ScrimpshawTheSecond

BBC are right on board with 'Karen'. BBC sounds yesterday: '"How can white women not be Karens?"'.

twitter.com/BBCSounds/status/1279837698769825792

Unsurprisingly, quite a lot of people objected to this bullshit clip.

When challenged, Charlotte Lydia Riley says something about T**fs and explains that :

'The fact that there is not a male equivalent of the term “Karen” does not mean that “Karen” is misogynist, it means that it’s a label specifically describing the weaponisation of a particular type of white femininity, come on, this isn’t hard'

FYI, the answers to how women can 'not be Karens' is

  1. 'Educate yourself'
  2. 'Try not to be defensive'.
  3. 'Don't be so loud'.
  4. 'Basically, leave'

(I wish I was joking)

I have the misfortune to come across Charlotte Lydia Riley on Twitter every now and then, despite my efforts to avoid her. She is relentlessly anti-women in her posts, always eager to join in any witch-hunt. (In other words, not just is she fully on board with TWAW, she thinks it's acceptable to hound women who aren't fully on board.) What's astonishing is that she is a historian so you'd think she might have a little glimmer of awareness of the history of persecuting people for thinking wrong thoughts.

I really have no understanding of how it is possible to be an educated woman and a) be so utterly unthinkingly stupid and b) hate other women so much.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/07/2020 13:44

based af it's literally just another flavour of 'pipe down love' and young libfems are eating it up to 'combat racism'.

YY. How convenient that so much activism can focus on sneering at women.

peadarm · 06/07/2020 13:32

@stillathing

I've not read it, sorry. But 3 seconds ago nobody in the UK had a clue that Karen meme was about wealthy racist American women (which doesn't stop it being somewhat misogynist). In the UK it was routinely used to mock working class and lower middle class women (of any race) for their clothing, hairstyle, interior decoration choices and for having the temerity to stand up for themselves despite their lowly status.

Does anyone remember the comeback reminding young people that "Karen" was their childminder, and their TA, and used to look after them?

Accepting the US version of "Karen" handily erases the fact that UK misogynists have been using it against black women and working class women.

American vocabulary and slogans are routinely copied with gusto in the UK, the discrepancy is just particularly jarring with the "Karen" meme. Copied and pasted into the UK context, it spreads - as Julie Bindel has remarked - contempt for working-class people in addition to misogyny.

The internet and celebrity culture have empowered US cultural imperialism to the extent that many British people genuinely think they live in the 51st state of the USA.

And most US commentators (as exemplified by some of the responses to Julie Bindel on twitter) have precisely zero self-awareness of their own ethnocentricity.

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