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Mara Wilson thinks dyeing your hair proves you can change your biology...

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newrubylane · 30/06/2020 13:33

Yes, really.

twitter.com/MaraWilson/status/1277355485297905665?s=19

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RufustheRowlingReindeer · 01/07/2020 23:13

What have i missed

Who hates her?

No ones said that surely

CloudsCoveredTheSky · 01/07/2020 23:10

@wellbehavedwomen

I don't really get your logic. She's had a rough life(though infinitely more privileged than many) and she's young (not that young though, she must be pushing 40) so she shouldn't be held to account?

I don't see anyone here threatening to kill her or anything, they're just saying what a daft wee lassie she's being so not sure what the issue is really.

wellbehavedwomen · 01/07/2020 22:36

She's surrounded by people all thinking the same way. Left leaning circles in the States see this as an article of faith. They genuinely think the least breath of demur is akin to KKK support. We're all a product of our cultures, and she's not going to be any different.

She was a child star whose mother died, I think of cancer, while she was that star, and who then found she was washed up in puberty because she wasn't dramatically prettier than the average person, which is what Hollywood requires. She talked about being in auditions with Kristen Stewart, who was (my words, not hers) no prettier as a child, but was strikingly so in her teens, so got all the parts. That's a brutal escalation of the normal teenage experience, played out in front of the world. She's written some kind, insightful pieces and though this is really stupid, she's not exactly going to be challenged on it, is she?

There are enough serious issues around all of this, without trashing someone who was put on global movie screens at an age when most kids can't even tie shoelaces. Damian Barr's hypocrisy and misogyny, and I'm in. But this young woman has just said something a bit silly. That's not hate worthy IMO. And I am so fed up of the febrility of it all, as it is, without pulling in bystanders who just voice the views of their peers.

SerenityNowwwww · 01/07/2020 20:50

I don’t know who that is.

GivesNoFox · 01/07/2020 20:36

I think it's because her cousin is Ben Shapiro and she has to prove that she is completely opposite to him.

Holy shit, I had no idea! Shock

That would make some sense tbh. I have no love for Shapiro but he definetely comes off as the more 'reality invested' of the two.

CloudsCoveredTheSky · 01/07/2020 13:42

@GivesNoFox

This doesn't surprise me tbh, Mara Wilson has been desperately trying to paint herself as 'super-queer!' for the past few years now.

Maybe to try and stay relevant? I'm not sure, child actors always seem to have so many hang ups as they grow older.

I think it's because her cousin is Ben Shapiro and she has to prove that she is completely opposite to him.
Oliversmumsarmy · 01/07/2020 13:36

Child actors often don’t make it into successful adult actors

I think that could be because if you look at child actors they tend to be much shorter than the average child so it is height first then talent.
They aren’t up against the children who are equally or more talented but taller than them.

Once in the adult world it is about being the best against everyone else regardless of height and a lot find they can’t compete

ALittleBitofVitriol · 01/07/2020 10:31

Lol, if I cut my hair, it grows back.
If I get a mastectomy, those puppies don't grow back.

We can change (read:damage) biology. We can't actually transubstantiate it into another kind of biology.

SerenityNowwwww · 01/07/2020 10:13

Child actors often don’t make it into successful adult actors. The number of ones that name money who end up suing their parents/managers etc or in rehab seems quite high too.

Ex child actors - not the people to listen to on anything really... they haven’t really lived ‘in the real world’ let alone had ‘ordinary’ life experiences (and have spent their formative years around luvvies and manipulators). Best to it ignore them.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 01/07/2020 09:36

There's a bloke I've long had a bit of a thing for who periodically dyes his hair blue, or part blue and leaves part of it black. If he were to develop a gender identity I'd be very disappointed.

(Seems unlikely, thankfully.)

GivesNoFox · 01/07/2020 09:31

This doesn't surprise me tbh, Mara Wilson has been desperately trying to paint herself as 'super-queer!' for the past few years now.

Maybe to try and stay relevant? I'm not sure, child actors always seem to have so many hang ups as they grow older.

picklemewalnuts · 01/07/2020 09:27

@DickKerrLadies

I dyed my hair blue last week. It's ok though, I didn't transform into a TRA.
I'll never look at hair dye the same again. Ruined. Ruined I say.
DickKerrLadies · 01/07/2020 09:15

I dyed my hair blue last week. It's ok though, I didn't transform into a TRA.

picklemewalnuts · 01/07/2020 08:54

@newrubylane

"Rita had a heavy-jawed face, elaborate and curiously rigid blonde curls, heavily penciled eyebrows, jewelled spectacles, large, mannish hands and long crimson fingernails." (potter-encyclopaedia.fandom.com/wiki/Rita_Skeeter)

I'm guessing they think Rowling was implying she was trans with the heavy jaw and mannish hands?

I think they are reaching- she's describing an aggressive female character. She also had a sickly sweet torturing pink kitten woman (brain fog, can't get her name). Caricatures.
Deliriumoftheendless · 01/07/2020 00:04

I started bleaching my hair when I was 13 - I knew as a child I should be blonde. I’ll probably still be doing it when I am 60 because as we all know, children absolutely know who they ought to be (unlike middle age women) so don’t tell me I’m wrong, you’re basically abusing a child (me, in the past. You have made Past Me cry now.)

TyroSaysMeow · 30/06/2020 23:24

What, cos all cunty-type women are delicate little flowers with tiny hands? And if we're not, we must really be men?

And anyway, if Rita Skeeter were actually a male trans person, then surely, being a non-Muggle, she'd have magically altered her jawline and hand size? We know that sort of thing's possible, Madame Pomfrey did it to Hermione's teeth.

(I can't believe I'm actually giving this brainspace. What does a "heavy jaw" look like anyway? I'm rubbish at face descriptions, never really did get this one, and google isn't helping.)

newrubylane · 30/06/2020 23:17

"Rita had a heavy-jawed face, elaborate and curiously rigid blonde curls, heavily penciled eyebrows, jewelled spectacles, large, mannish hands and long crimson fingernails."
(potter-encyclopaedia.fandom.com/wiki/Rita_Skeeter)

I'm guessing they think Rowling was implying she was trans with the heavy jaw and mannish hands?

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SerenityNowwwww · 30/06/2020 22:33

She wasn’t cute (just sayin) and acting wasn’t good either...

CourtneyLurve · 30/06/2020 22:12

She's written extensively about her career in film ending because she outgrew her cuteness and is clearly still very bitter about it. Now, she's riding the tiny bit of leftover recognition and parroting SJW-type slogans without any independent or intelligent insight for likes. It's all very sad.

SerenityNowwwww · 30/06/2020 21:55

Well I pretty much shaved my whole head when I was a teenager. I had previously had waist length hair. It felt good. Now it’s long and I like that too.

Oh ex child actor of limited acting ability, what shall I do?

JunoJigglewick · 30/06/2020 21:50

@SerenityNowwwww depends if you feel bald or if you feel like you have a full head of flowing locks.

picklemewalnuts · 30/06/2020 21:50

Rita Skeeter is described in an unsympathetic way, if I recall.

However retrospectively interpreting 'unregistered animagus so she can sneak into places she isn't meant to be' as an attack on trans women is just, well, um, Freudian?

I mean, it says more about their thinking than JKR.

SerenityNowwwww · 30/06/2020 21:45

What if you are bald?

QuarantineDream · 30/06/2020 21:41

Does that mean if you dye your hair "unicorn" you turn into an actual unicorn?

Mara Wilson thinks dyeing your hair proves you can change your biology...
itsor · 30/06/2020 21:11

Mara, Mara, Mara. You really thought this was a good take? I used to have a lot of respect for you.

Geez, she's older than me and she still looked at that tweet and thought 'yep, that's it, you go girl'?

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