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Stephen King retweets JKR

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ScrimpshawTheSecond · 28/06/2020 18:43

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A Dworkin quote.

Stephen King retweets JKR
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Kaeleytriller · 29/06/2020 23:49

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/06/2020 23:48

It at best seems inconclusive that trans women are an 'equal threat'

It's not, it's the status quo, until you manage to find robust, reliable evidence that they are less of a threat to women than any other group of males. Because that's how science works. You make a claim, you back it up. But we're dealing with ideology here.

JamieLeeCurtains · 29/06/2020 23:48

Male violence is the greatest human rights crisis the world has ever known

I grew up with it. I will probably die in fear of it in a fucking care home or hospital or whatever is left in terms of institutional care when I'm in my decrepitude. But it'll have a different name. It'll be called #BeKind and #Tolerance and #Inclusiveness while my elderly female body is just a hate object for male violence.

I'd rather kill myself.

prolefeed · 29/06/2020 23:47

Offs. My local mall found a dead male behind the plumbing access panel in an individual women’s bathroom cubicle because some perverted little wanker crawled in to spy on naked female buttocks and got stuck.
He should have just said he was a woman. He would have been allowed right in.

TehBewilderness · 29/06/2020 23:42

@robin1984

What do people think of this?

www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/no-link-between-trans-inclusive-policies-bathroom-safety-study-finds-n911106

Obviously a different country, do people think it is different here?

NBC News was provided with numerous reports of incidents contradicting that story when they ran it. I still see it being offered as evidence that...what? All the news stories from all over the country about males assaulting and peeping and recording women in toilets and changing rooms are bogus?
prolefeed · 29/06/2020 23:39

Robin, how many transwomen rapists would you draw the line at, in order to agree that the collateral damage to women was too much?
How many women are you sacrificing until you get to that ‘too many’ number?
What gives you the right to increase risk to women? To give men what they demand?
How many, Robin?
NO MEN.
Ffs.
Why would you throw open the doors and enable ANY rapist in?
Women are just collateral damage? Men don’t want their own, so women have to shut the fuck up and accept them like good little girls?

SisyphusAndTheRockOfUntidiness · 29/06/2020 23:39

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-leeds-45825838

How do women tell the difference between predatory males & friendly transwomen?

MilleniumHallsWalledGarden · 29/06/2020 23:39

The quote I'm quoting is from the same study I quoted before. It's interesting that you're not providing any studies to back up your claims. Just 'interviews'. Ho hum.

SisyphusAndTheRockOfUntidiness · 29/06/2020 23:35

www.womenarehuman.com/male-trans-pedophilia-rape-history-sexually-attacks-women-at-homeless-shelter-christopher-hambrook/

How do women tell the difference between predatory males & friendly transwomen?

robin1984 · 29/06/2020 23:33

@MilleniumHallsWalledGarden

robin can't find the sentence you quote. Found this while looking though:

Criminal activity, particularly violent crime, is much more common among men than women in the general population. A previous study of all applications for sex reassignment in Sweden up to 1992 found that 9.7% of male-to-female and 6.1% of female-to-male applicants had been prosecuted for a crime.[33] Crime after sex reassignment, however, has not previously been studied. In this study, male-to-female individuals had a higher risk for criminal convictions compared to female controls but not compared to male controls. This suggests that the sex reassignment procedure neither increased nor decreased the risk for criminal offending in male-to-females. By contrast, female-to-males were at a higher risk for criminal convictions compared to female controls and did not differ from male controls, which suggests increased crime proneness in female-to-males after sex reassignment.

My quote is from here:

www.transadvocate.com/fact-check-study-shows-transition-makes-trans-people-suicidal_n_15483.htm

Which interviews the researcher behind the research that was cited when I requested the stats that show similar threats. They clarified when that the pattern of criminality is not retained for the later cohort.

it seems like your quote is also from the study I quoted, but it is citing a past 1992 study.

It at best seems inconclusive that trans women are an 'equal threat'.

maudspellbody · 29/06/2020 23:29

@DeRigueurMortis

Maud I think it's Lamahaha who I quoted who deserves the salute Grin
Oops. Sorry lamahah.

But you're marvellous too!

DeRigueurMortis · 29/06/2020 23:28

Maud I think it's Lamahaha who I quoted who deserves the salute Grin

maudspellbody · 29/06/2020 23:27

*DeRiguer
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I salute you Thanks👏👏👏

Lamahaha · 29/06/2020 23:25

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prolefeed · 29/06/2020 23:24

‘vulnerable in the way a woman is to sexual assault’
I missed that.
I’m 5’2 and can get pregnant.
Yes, anal rape is horrific whoever it occurs to. The perpetrators are all male (and some of them are incarcerated with female prisoners).
Let’s not forget size, strength, and biology when we are thoughtfully considering sexual assault. Not victim top trumps, but denying that biological sex has a part to play given actual fucking statistics is... interesting.
You are presumably aware that 85% of transwomen retain intact male genitalia? Have you ever looked up the #girlslikeus hashtag? These are the people you are foisting on biological women. Along with ones who ‘just want to pee’.

Pregnamechange · 29/06/2020 23:24

Thanks Benny I appreciate you taking the time to say that. Nope no grudges here! I’ve always been very supportive of trans rights and personally believe MtF transgender people who have genuine dysphoria pose no threat to women whatsoever and I am happy to share spaces with these people. I’m not happy to share spaces with any AGP who walks off the street, many of whom have no diagnosis of gender dysphoria, but again under the new rules a transgender person doesn’t actually need to feel any dysphoria. They don’t even need to ‘present’ as the opposite sex or in fact identify as the opposite gender full time as some people are ‘fluid’. They can just pick a day to say ‘I’m a woman’ and it’s transphobic and TERFy to say you’re uncomfortable with any of this.

A lot of people’s argument is ‘well who could be bothered going through all that hassle just to get into women’s spaces’.

It’s starting to sound like it’s not going to be putting them too much out of the way for men to take advantage of this isn’t it? In fact for AGPs this is how they get their sexual kicks so it’s not as if it’s much of a chore for them. You just have to look at those disgusting tweets from Jessica Yaniv about seeing girls with their tampon string hanging down and lots of other repulsive things. AGPs get a sexual thrill from being in a female environment. Not all of them will assault women and children but the fact that they are using them unwittingly in their sexual fetish is still a violation.

robin1984 · 29/06/2020 23:22

What do people think of this?

www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/no-link-between-trans-inclusive-policies-bathroom-safety-study-finds-n911106

Obviously a different country, do people think it is different here?

Langsdestiny · 29/06/2020 23:21

Fuck this for a game of soldiers. No we are saying no. And anyone who ignores no is a creepy creepy man.

MilleniumHallsWalledGarden · 29/06/2020 23:21

robin can't find the sentence you quote. Found this while looking though:

Criminal activity, particularly violent crime, is much more common among men than women in the general population. A previous study of all applications for sex reassignment in Sweden up to 1992 found that 9.7% of male-to-female and 6.1% of female-to-male applicants had been prosecuted for a crime.[33] Crime after sex reassignment, however, has not previously been studied. In this study, male-to-female individuals had a higher risk for criminal convictions compared to female controls but not compared to male controls. This suggests that the sex reassignment procedure neither increased nor decreased the risk for criminal offending in male-to-females. By contrast, female-to-males were at a higher risk for criminal convictions compared to female controls and did not differ from male controls, which suggests increased crime proneness in female-to-males after sex reassignment.

DeRigueurMortis · 29/06/2020 23:19

@Lamahaha

Because a man who feels like a woman and wishes to identify as one is often vulnerable in the way a woman is to sexual assault. If someone is transitioning it's because they feel like a woman. The online commentary on this issue has overlooked why they are doing it, not to hurt anyone but to live the way they want to live.

What does it mean to "feel like a woman"? How can you know what it "feels" like to be a woman? You can only know what "feeling" like a woman is if you have actually lived in a woman's body and actually, you know, EXPERIENCED the things that having a woman's body brings. Which is a bit more than "deciding what to wear each morning".

I'm an extremely mild-tempered, soft-spoken woman who doesn't even use swear words and who has never once yelled at anyone -- ever! But this nonsense has tried me to my very limits. These people have NO IDEA what it is to be a woman, and their "hurt feelings" means absolutely nothing to me. I am not going to #bekind.

I have lived all my life in not only a female body but a black female body and I have never once complained to anyone about what I've gone through and trust me, I know all about hurt feelings. But I didn't go whingeing to everyone or tried to police anyone's racist or sexist thoughts, and wallowed in and nursed my poor hurt feelings or expected anyone else to wallow in and nurse them, because, you know, I had a life to live and I saw my feelings as something I could and would get over, and I worked at myself and matured and grew strong and just got on with being and doing my best and raising my family and doing my work. And transwomen whinging publicly about being vulnerable and oppressed and wanting their hurt feelings pandered to leaves me stone cold. And I am usually a very warm and embracing person but I have reached the limit of my compassion through observing this absolute shitshow.

And I cannot believe that there are women, self-described "trans allies", who care more about the hurt feelings of men demanding the right to share loos and showers and changing rooms and sports with women because of hurt feelings. No, just no.

Why aren't they allies of actual women who are victims of rape, DV, FGM, prostitution, porn, murdered by their partners? That's where my compassion goes. All of it.

So no, Benny. Just no. I will not be lectured by you or any man. I will not bow down.

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

I was going to post but this nails it for me.

showmethegin · 29/06/2020 23:19

@Lamahaha

Because a man who feels like a woman and wishes to identify as one is often vulnerable in the way a woman is to sexual assault. If someone is transitioning it's because they feel like a woman. The online commentary on this issue has overlooked why they are doing it, not to hurt anyone but to live the way they want to live.

What does it mean to "feel like a woman"? How can you know what it "feels" like to be a woman? You can only know what "feeling" like a woman is if you have actually lived in a woman's body and actually, you know, EXPERIENCED the things that having a woman's body brings. Which is a bit more than "deciding what to wear each morning".

I'm an extremely mild-tempered, soft-spoken woman who doesn't even use swear words and who has never once yelled at anyone -- ever! But this nonsense has tried me to my very limits. These people have NO IDEA what it is to be a woman, and their "hurt feelings" means absolutely nothing to me. I am not going to #bekind.

I have lived all my life in not only a female body but a black female body and I have never once complained to anyone about what I've gone through and trust me, I know all about hurt feelings. But I didn't go whingeing to everyone or tried to police anyone's racist or sexist thoughts, and wallowed in and nursed my poor hurt feelings or expected anyone else to wallow in and nurse them, because, you know, I had a life to live and I saw my feelings as something I could and would get over, and I worked at myself and matured and grew strong and just got on with being and doing my best and raising my family and doing my work. And transwomen whinging publicly about being vulnerable and oppressed and wanting their hurt feelings pandered to leaves me stone cold. And I am usually a very warm and embracing person but I have reached the limit of my compassion through observing this absolute shitshow.

And I cannot believe that there are women, self-described "trans allies", who care more about the hurt feelings of men demanding the right to share loos and showers and changing rooms and sports with women because of hurt feelings. No, just no.

Why aren't they allies of actual women who are victims of rape, DV, FGM, prostitution, porn, murdered by their partners? That's where my compassion goes. All of it.

So no, Benny. Just no. I will not be lectured by you or any man. I will not bow down.

YES. A million times YES 👏🏼
Lamahaha · 29/06/2020 23:18

(Sorry, the post I quoted was WAY back. But I could not read further after being told how vulnerable these people are.)

Gibbonsgibbonsgibbons · 29/06/2020 23:17

Benny10

Gibbonsgibbonsgibbons
Benny10 currently when my 11 yr old daughter is getting changed after swimming (not currently I suppose but normal times!) in the large comunal women’s changing room if a male person walks in the girls would I hope be able to scream & their coaches sure as hell would chuck out any male they spotted going into the girls changing, management would help them.
Under self ID that male just says (beard, erect penis & all) I’m a woman you bigots. And my daughter & her team mates are; watched by a male without their consent & he can expose himself to them OR they lose out on the sport they love.

That’s the tip of the iceberg. Vulnerable women in prison locked up with abusive males - it’s all ready happening sad

This would never happen, you would scream and he'd be dealt with. There's been some good points made on here. But everyone on both sides of this focuses on the extreme exceptions to the rule rather than the vast majority who are the people actually living this who want to harm no one or take advantage of no one it becomes so emotionally charged

I don't think that any man should be able to walk into a female space because he's said he identifies as a female. There should be a process and someone with everyone's best interests at heart should approve you before you can access them? Fair compromise?

Other people have addressed your “just scream” point & I’m please to read that you have thought more due to the responses. (Please consider that my daughter is slooooow getting ready & may be the last one of her team getting dressed as the male person walks in - screaming might put her in danger, that’s why one biological response to danger/fear is freezing.)

Ultimately I want you to understand that my daughter does NOT CONSENT to being seen in a state of undress by a strange male & she does NOT CONSENT to seeing his naked body.

Women DO NOT CONSENT- why is that not enough?

Good luck with your campaign for third/mixed sex spaces - I’ll support you

In a park it would be indecent exposure

aliasundercover · 29/06/2020 23:17

robin

Where is the Cecilia Dhejne quote from, please?

I'm not sure why anyone would want to divide the study into two parts. Sure, if you ignore that bits you don't like you will get the answer you want.

OliveKitteridgeAgain · 29/06/2020 23:16

This would never happen, you would scream and he'd be dealt with.

This is the sort of beyond disgusting victim blaming shite that has resulted in women not wanting to share their spaces with the male bodied. When I was being pinned down and assaulted (by a total stranger, who suddenly appeared in what I thought was a safe space), I tried to scream, but guess what. Nothing. I was mouthing the word "help", but no sound came out. Blood ringing in my ears, pretty much frozen. It's a common reaction, apparently, and one used against women in courtrooms (why didn't your scream, why didn't you fight back).

I'm a swimmer, my daughter is a regional level swimmer. Have you spent any time at a pool during a gala? Or just a usual, every day swim session for that matter, maybe a day when the kids have swim classes? Do you know where the coaches are? They are pool side, which is incredibly noisy. Where people are yelling, shouting support (both in galleries and poolside), There's often music playing and klaxons. The water is incredibly noisy during races. Use your imagination, Benny. Do you think anyone would distinguish a scream in a changing room over those sounds?

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