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Why in 2020 are ours schools still instilling sexist rules

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NewYearNewTwatName · 24/06/2020 08:35

inspired by the modesty shorts for wearing under skirts skirts thread.

I don't want to discuss the rights and wrongs on that, As I think parents and their daughters are just reacting to the environment they have no say over.

Its the fact that lots of schools are still insisting on a child wearing a dress or skirt just because they are a girl. Lots of schools still will not allow a girl to wear shorts or trousers. What is this indoctrination in our children?

Also the fact some school also shame girls who are wearing the dresses/skirts they have to wear to attend that school, because they end up flashing their pants when sat on the carpet, doing hands stand, cart wheels and hang upside down. They are chastised for it, told off, told to cover up, in some schools girls are told they can only do those things if the are wearing "modesty shorts" or "safety shorts" under their uniform.

I honestly thought this type of sexiest dress code and expectations had long since gone. mainly because I went to school that allowed girls to wear shorts and trousers, and did not make me feel embarrassed or ashamed to hang upside down when I did wear a skirt. So I stupidly assumed all schools had gone with the laws and guidance on equality.

How come from such a young age we are instilling this in children. Girls must wear a skirt, Girls must be modest at all times.
all because..... well they are Girls.

How can it be changed? How can schools be made to take a long hard look at themselves and what they are truly teaching our children about the opposite sex.

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NewYearNewTwatName · 24/06/2020 08:42

TBH why can't a boy wear a skirt?

if the school find that all too squeamish though why not just say shorts and trousers for everyone, I'm primary school shorts are the most practical solution for all children.

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chateaudekaleidoscope · 24/06/2020 08:42

At my children's school the girls can wear shorts, trousers, dresses or skirts as long as they are in the schools colour scheme. If a boy wanted to wear a skirt it actually wouldn't be an issue either I don't think. Every school has the national policies they follow but also can set their own.

BaronessBrighterThanYou · 24/06/2020 08:41

Girls-only schools presumably don't have (or need to have) these silly 1950s rules?

VikingVolva · 24/06/2020 08:39

It's rare for a state school to insist on skirts/dresses for girls (unless it is an all girls school)

I do not think schools should routinely be policing what girls who choose to wear skirts wear underneath them. Unless it's nothing; in which case there's either been a spectacular mistake that morning at home, or there's something that might need a bit more careful attention.

lazylinguist · 24/06/2020 08:39

I think you mean sexist - sexiest means something entirely different! Are you sure that lots of schools insist on girls wearing skirts/dresses? I'd be surprised if many did tbh. All the schools I know of quite rightly allow girls to wear trousers, though the trousers option is often very unpopular with the girls.

AlexaShutUp · 24/06/2020 08:38

There is no problem at my dd's school with girls wearing trousers, but there have been protests about boys not being allowed to wear skirts! None of the kids are allowed to wear shorts, which is tough in the hot weather.

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