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Would you vote Conservative at the next election?

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cheeseismydownfall · 23/06/2020 07:21

Obviously this question isn't really relevant if you vote Conservative anyway!

Over my 25-odd year voting history I have voted Lib Dem, Labour and Green. I consider myself left wing and would never have considered a Tory vote. But if the principle parties maintain their current positions on women's rights then for the first time ever I will consider a Conservative vote at the next election - not simply because this one issue trumps everything else (although I personally feel very strongly about it, education, health and the environment are still hugely important to me) but because I simply don't trust the critical thinking skills of any party who have allowed themselves to be so thoroughly hijacked by the trans rights agenda and attempt to silence dissenting voices.

Anyone else feel this way?

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BovaryX · 23/06/2020 13:50

@PrincessConsuelab

I have read the sequence of posts. Actually. You seem to think you occupy the moral highground by voting Labour. You dont. You seem to think this self identified elevation gives you the right to lecture women for daring to suggest they might vote differently to you. It doesn't.

PrincessConsuelaVaginaHammock · 23/06/2020 13:47

@BarbieandKenBruce

From what I can see it's not a welfare state vs maintain sex as a protected characteristic standoff. If you redefine woman you redefine all the protections available to women. I can see how that can undermine women's access to welfare and services which help them deal with health, poverty, abuse and childcare etc. We need representation to fight for all those things, do we get that without a definition of ourselves? I really don't have a definite opinion on what I would do in the next GE, I am conflicted, there is more info I need to see and trust has been completely shattered on all sides quite frankly. Do I accept shit treatment of women but at least they call us women and we can fight from that positon? Do I hope for a fairer world but one in which women as a sex class don't really exist? Is that really fair? I don't think you either care about recognition of the female sex or the welfare state, I think the two are part of the same safety net women are clinging onto for their lives.
They should be, but those of us who think that haven't really got anywhere to go at the moment have we?
Dances · 23/06/2020 13:47

No, you have out me, as an abused woman, down the list and it's you who is taking the superior tone.

Left wing authoritarianism - tell us what's good for us and we'll blody like it.

Next up - weaponising abuse

BarbieandKenBruce · 23/06/2020 13:43

From what I can see it's not a welfare state vs maintain sex as a protected characteristic standoff.
If you redefine woman you redefine all the protections available to women. I can see how that can undermine women's access to welfare and services which help them deal with health, poverty, abuse and childcare etc.
We need representation to fight for all those things, do we get that without a definition of ourselves?
I really don't have a definite opinion on what I would do in the next GE, I am conflicted, there is more info I need to see and trust has been completely shattered on all sides quite frankly. Do I accept shit treatment of women but at least they call us women and we can fight from that positon? Do I hope for a fairer world but one in which women as a sex class don't really exist? Is that really fair?
I don't think you either care about recognition of the female sex or the welfare state, I think the two are part of the same safety net women are clinging onto for their lives.

PrincessConsuelaVaginaHammock · 23/06/2020 13:41

@BovaryX

really aren't anywhere near the moral high ground!

@PrincessConsuelaVaginaHammock

You don't occupy the moral highground. You have a political opinion. You don't get to wag your finger and lecture other women on how to vote. Women can vote for any party they choose for whatever reason. Nobody requires your permission.

You need to read the sequence of posts that was part of much more carefully if you think I'm the one primarily responsible for finger wagging and lecturing there. The responses to what the Conservative economic policies have done to women were astounding.

Bizarre assumption that not voting Conservative must mean voting Labour carlottacoffee.

SignatureTheme · 23/06/2020 13:40

@Dances

If they sort out this mess, yes
Do you mean the mess which is largely of their own making due to systematically dismantling services under the auspices of austerity and then handling the virus in a way which meant 1000s upon 1000s of people died needlessly.
Desiringonlychild · 23/06/2020 13:40

Doesn't anyone think it's idiotic that the Tories can pay lip service to women's rights by opposing the interest of trans people and use it to cover up for their years of incompetence.

They would be using trans rights and Scotland as a way to bait undecided voters into voting for them when in reality there are far more important issues. As a woman, I care more about cost/availability of childcare, education, NHS, the plight of single mums. None of these would ever improve under the Tories.

PrincessConsuelaVaginaHammock · 23/06/2020 13:37

@Dances

Bollocks you are sorry The unpalatable truth is that women always come at the back of the queue, often pushed there by other women. And we are supposed to be thankful and grateful for it.

No thanks

Well you evidently don't give the slightest fuck about all the women who have suffered and will continue to suffer due to Tory economic policy, seeing as how you kicked off at the mere mention of them.
BolloxtoGender · 23/06/2020 13:36

I know I will get flamed for saying this, but I just don't understand why Labour and the Left think they monopolise the moral highground. They look pretty intolerant to me.

Dances · 23/06/2020 13:36

Absolutely Thelnebriati

I'm sick to death being told I need to take one for the team. Fuck off.

The wheels will come off the TRA bus in the next 5-10 years, when all the ruined lives of all the poor kids hoodwinked into this awful ideology comes to light. In the meantime we need to stop it getting worse. If that means voting Tory, fucking damn right I'm going to do it, and will hopefully prevent some kids having their bodies mutilated and their health ruined.

And me and other women like me might be allowed some fucking dignity when we are getting changed, without being called bigots (or stupid) for having the temerity to think getting changed without males present is a reasonable expectation.

sashagabadon · 23/06/2020 13:36

just heard on radio Kier (in response to Boris today) saying schools are safe to open fully to schools from Sep and he will work with (instead of against) the Gov to achieve this.
That is really really positive news as schools/ education for our children is a massive issue for me and I was fed up of hearing the unions oppose this. Hopefully that will get things moving for schools now.
If Keir carries on with this sensible approach then yes I will vote for him.
Assuming he also comes down firmly on the side of women and girls too.

NotAssigned · 23/06/2020 13:31

Never. Well not unless they return to the proper one nation conservatism of the likes of Ken Clark etc. And then I could be persuaded as an alternative to the woke shitfest of the current left. But that doesn't exist any more.

Carlottacoffee · 23/06/2020 13:30

@BovaryX

It's not only the left's attitude to women that has alienated me, it's the authoritarianism

floisme

The authoritarianism. The nauseating self righteousness of many Labour politicians. And voters. The tedious demonisation of Conservative voters as literally Nazis. This is said by people who are so politically and historically illiterate, it is laughable. When Labour constituencies which had voted Labour for a hundred years switched parties last December, one would have thought it might be a catalyst for a sober review of what they are doing and why it is alienating millions of voters. Zero evidence of that.

Bloody hell I know. I was expecting tail between the legs but no - like I said women over thirty are irrelevant they have their eyes firmly set on the millennials.
BovaryX · 23/06/2020 13:30

really aren't anywhere near the moral high ground!

@PrincessConsuelaVaginaHammock

You don't occupy the moral highground. You have a political opinion. You don't get to wag your finger and lecture other women on how to vote. Women can vote for any party they choose for whatever reason. Nobody requires your permission.

Thelnebriati · 23/06/2020 13:27

How about people stop trying to remove rights from women, and stop pretending its progressive to do so?

MotherOfGreyhound · 23/06/2020 13:26

I'm pretty left wing and usually vote labour or green.
A lot can change in four years, but if, hypothetically, the tories were the only major party to stand against all the TWAW bullshit then I would vote for them based on that alone.

BovaryX · 23/06/2020 13:26

It's not only the left's attitude to women that has alienated me, it's the authoritarianism

floisme

The authoritarianism. The nauseating self righteousness of many Labour politicians. And voters. The tedious demonisation of Conservative voters as literally Nazis. This is said by people who are so politically and historically illiterate, it is laughable. When Labour constituencies which had voted Labour for a hundred years switched parties last December, one would have thought it might be a catalyst for a sober review of what they are doing and why it is alienating millions of voters. Zero evidence of that.

nancyjuice7 · 23/06/2020 13:24

Never have never will

Labour have lost me. I'm green Daffodil

Carlottacoffee · 23/06/2020 13:23

@PrincessConsuelaVaginaHammock

No. Looking at this purely from a feminist angle, even if they were rock solid on women's sex based protections, which they are not, deliberately eroding the welfare state and support services disproportionately affects women. They have spent the last decade trying and will continue to try to transfer lots of functions previously provided at a societal level to women's unpaid labour. They would have to have a very significant change of approach for this not to be the case, to the extent that I don't see it as a realistic possibility.
So on this argument it’s better to keep or fight for more state welfare instead of stopping men from being around women whilst they undress. For sex offenders to be put in to women’s jails, for male nurses to preform smears, for men to ‘council’ female rape victims.

That’s not for me or my three daughters thanks.

There is no discussion with labour now. It’s a done deal. With Tory there is discussion and by the looks of this thread is drawing voters because of it.

Dances · 23/06/2020 13:22

Bollocks you are sorry
The unpalatable truth is that women always come at the back of the queue, often pushed there by other women. And we are supposed to be thankful and grateful for it.

No thanks

PrincessConsuelaVaginaHammock · 23/06/2020 13:20

How about we don't treat it as a game? How about The Good People (read: non Tories) consider women as part of the solution, and not as the left overs to be swept up at the end?

Agreed. And that's going to require full acknowledgement of what austerity has done and what the Conservatives are going to continue to do to women every bit as much as it's going to require the same for what self ID has done and will do. It all needs putting out there.

Dances · 23/06/2020 13:18

Priveledged to be traumatised about getting naked around males? Yes, I am really privileged .

How about we don't treat it as a game? How about The Good People (read: non Tories) consider women as part of the solution, and not as the left overs to be swept up at the end?

PrincessConsuelaVaginaHammock · 23/06/2020 13:17

@AlpineSnow

Looking at this purely from a feminist angle, even if they were rock solid on women's sex based protections, which they are not, deliberately eroding the welfare state and support services disproportionately affects women. They have spent the last decade trying and will continue to try to transfer lots of functions previously provided at a societal level to women's unpaid labour Agreed. If other people don't care about the welfare state being eroded then lucky you. You must be very privileged.
Or short sighted. Do people understand what austerity has done to women? Cuts to funding for refuges so thousands of women a year are turned away, two child limit an abuser's charter, taking a hatchet to legal aid for DV victims, women's incomes suffering more in real terms and women being disproportionately likely to have to miss meals to feed their children. People who dismiss this so easily really aren't anywhere near the moral high ground!
PrincessConsuelaVaginaHammock · 23/06/2020 13:14

@Dances

Yes, thanks for that princess. The net sum of Labour getting in is that this will be introduced. Men identifying as women, walking about my gym changing room. Thanks for calling me stupid. I have been seriously abused and assaulted. I get pushed down in favour of other 'good causes'.

That's ok though as long as the righteous feel good about themselves

I am sorry to hear what has happened to you. I'm equally sorry for all the other women who have suffered because of what the Conservatives deliberately did in the name of austerity and who will continue to suffer when they do more. They aren't any more or less important than the women who have suffered due to the erosion of women's sex based protections. The unpalatable truth is that even if the Tories hadn't been the party who tried to sneak in Equality Act reform, there are attacks on women's rights from all sides.

And the fact is, not voting Conservative doesn't then mean you vote for a TWAW candidate either. There is no obligation to turn up, or to vote for one of the candidates on the paper if you do, and for all you know I might be planning to run myself.

AlpineSnow · 23/06/2020 13:09

Looking at this purely from a feminist angle, even if they were rock solid on women's sex based protections, which they are not, deliberately eroding the welfare state and support services disproportionately affects women. They have spent the last decade trying and will continue to try to transfer lots of functions previously provided at a societal level to women's unpaid labour
Agreed. If other people don't care about the welfare state being eroded then lucky you. You must be very privileged.

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