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Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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Mammatino · 09/07/2020 23:21

BANG BANG BANG.

ScrimpshawTheSecond · 09/07/2020 23:13

Grin Same ages here. [waving at your mum]

I know my mum's gc, though I think she wouldn't call herself that. Doubt she's here ... wonder if I can smoke her out, though.

Mother, I know you never stay up this late, but if you're here, knock three times.

Mammatino · 09/07/2020 23:06

Arse whacked. She did say you need to find your own way.

Mammatino · 09/07/2020 23:04

Scrimshaw...she wouldn’t tell you unless you needed telling. Turned out I needed telling. I’m in my 40’s. she’s in her 70’s.

bishopgiggles · 09/07/2020 23:03

Jellyfish that is perfect

ScrimpshawTheSecond · 09/07/2020 22:59

Hm. Now wondering if my mum is on this board. How would I even know?

Mammatino · 09/07/2020 22:52

I’m slightly thrilled. I remember going home and saying “oh god this is just bullshit”, my dad rolled his eyes and said talk to your mother. She said “seriously, I taught you no better than thar, darling it’s called a mind...fucking use it”. At that time I thought they were the bloody olds.

madwoman1ntheattic · 09/07/2020 22:39

@Mammatino

I’ve just introduced my “bra burning” old mum to these boards... she laughed and told me her user name. She also said let them come. It’s a wave washing on a stone, don’t engage because they take your energy and detract. Never ever keep silent when it matters, when it’s a detraction...hush. Hi mum x
ADORE this! #notyomama
Mammatino · 09/07/2020 22:22

I’ve just introduced my “bra burning” old mum to these boards... she laughed and told me her user name. She also said let them come. It’s a wave washing on a stone, don’t engage because they take your energy and detract. Never ever keep silent when it matters, when it’s a detraction...hush. Hi mum x

DianasLasso · 09/07/2020 21:32

Bunbury should always be in the top three. And yes, there are some "interesting" threads on the go at the moment.

boatyardblues · 09/07/2020 21:24

To be honest, I scrolled down to find you all because I couldn’t believe Bunbury wasn’t in the top 3.

Aaaaaand now it is! Wink

boatyardblues · 09/07/2020 21:23

Is that faux naive JAQ one Vicky?

VickyEadieofThigh · 09/07/2020 21:13

I've just dropped in to see how things are on the board and there's a thread that's so clearly bait for screenshotting.

ScrimpshawTheSecond · 09/07/2020 21:09

TehBewilderness, I do like that idea. A holiday.

JellyFishSquish · 09/07/2020 19:27

This made me think of some recent threads

Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5
madwoman1ntheattic · 09/07/2020 04:49

Aaand there it was 😂
I’m barely posting. It’s nuts out there. They really have to make a decision about newbie quarantine period or no overnight registrations. Or preferably both.

Jullyria · 09/07/2020 03:15

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TehBewilderness · 09/07/2020 03:11

now there is a porn link creep spamming all the boards.

BitOfFun · 09/07/2020 01:37

TehBewilderness, I like that idea.

FannyCann · 09/07/2020 01:34

Couldn't resist deploying the grey rock pom bear before the thread is pulled.

TehBewilderness · 09/07/2020 01:24

If the admin team won't do any clean up I am starting to think women should take a day off FWR, let the reddit transfer TRAs cavort and then come back fresh to return to talking about Feminism and Women's Rights.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/07/2020 01:24

Yes I think so

PurpleHoodie · 09/07/2020 01:20

TBH

American blokes, innit.

bishopgiggles · 09/07/2020 00:42

(I'm leaving it dangling, btw... it's quite enjoyable)

DancelikeEmmaGoldman · 09/07/2020 00:41

I must say, the quality of disrupters has declined markedly. It’s the the troll equivalent of getting a tea bag in a teapot around here lately.

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