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Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 23:10

🐟

TinselAngel · 25/07/2020 23:06

@RufustheRowlingReindeer

looks at Rufus sternly with finger poised over "report button"

Do it...do it do it do it

Double dare ya crossed keys no returns

YOU’LL NEVER TAKE ME ALIVE

Don't make me come over there!
DianasLasso · 25/07/2020 23:04

Can I defuse the situation by suggesting "pillock" as a good all-round mild insult for people who are wilfully hard-of-understanding?

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 23:03

looks at Rufus sternly with finger poised over "report button"

Do it...do it do it do it

Double dare ya crossed keys no returns

YOU’LL NEVER TAKE ME ALIVE

TinselAngel · 25/07/2020 23:00

@RufustheRowlingReindeer

This could be code for muppet

🐸

No one but us reads the Bunbury threads do they....

I'm sorry but i have to take grave exception to this. The lovely muppets should never be used as an insult. This is the hill I will die on.
DialSquare · 25/07/2020 22:40

@FloralBunting

I typed in a Sid James voice. That's why it came out like that.
You channeled Sid James! I once had a dream that I was Muttley. I spent the whole dream running around (in a beige mac for some reason!) laughing with my shoulders moving up and down. I've often wondered how that would be analysed!
RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 22:26

Although errol

I could have been deleted and not known it

Now im second guessing myself 😳

FloralBunting · 25/07/2020 22:20

I typed in a Sid James voice. That's why it came out like that.

ErrolTheDragon · 25/07/2020 22:19

I must have misremembered who it was - the word potato, not a 🥔.

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 22:15

Oooh no ive never posted a potato

I might start though...i like potatoes 🥔

ErrolTheDragon · 25/07/2020 22:14

My DD asks me for cutted up pear sometimes. Obviously only when she's home from uni, I don't have to post them to her.

Whatever else, Rufus, FGS don't be tempted to respond to anyone with a 🥔 . (It was you who got deleted for posting 'potato', wasn't it. A potato emoji which looks not entirely unlike a turd really would be asking for trouble)

DialSquare · 25/07/2020 22:11

*Dianaslasso
*
Agreed! Being a new poster I didn't want to lower the tone too much too early!

DianasLasso · 25/07/2020 22:06

@DialSquare

Did anyone else read Fwaar in a Sid James voice?
It can only be read in a Sid James voice. Followed by that laugh.
RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 22:04

Yup

DialSquare · 25/07/2020 22:03

Did anyone else read Fwaar in a Sid James voice?

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 22:03
Wine
RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 22:02

This could be code for muppet

🐸

No one but us reads the Bunbury threads do they....

ThePurported · 25/07/2020 22:02

You used MN's own biscuit emoji and got deleted?
I'd call that entrapment. Don't tempt us with rude emojis MNHQ. Remove this filth from the menu Biscuit

BluebonicPlague · 25/07/2020 22:00

Fwaar Grin Star

There are times when I wish we had a Star button or even Grin button to save having extra posts just to say: thanks to all you excellent WOMEN who have given me a good laugh tonight.

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 21:58

Ive tried drive by shitting

Couldn’t get my arse through the window 🤔

DianasLasso · 25/07/2020 21:55

FWR became Fwaar. It'd be rather a different board if it was named that.

There could be advantages to that. MNHQ would probably put it under the same rules as the sex board, so you'd have to have been registered for 3 months before you could post. Would stop some of the drive-by shitting on threads that we're all so familiar with.

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 21:55

@FloralBunting

Rufus there is enough shitting on threads in FWR without you starting.

Oo, that was weird, I just had fat fingers and FWR became Fwaar. It'd be rather a different board if it was named that.

Far point floral

And a rather badly timed crosspost 😀

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 21:54

🐂 💩

Bull shit....that has tone doesn’t it 😪

Thought id leave the gin bluebonic 😀

FloralBunting · 25/07/2020 21:53

Rufus there is enough shitting on threads in FWR without you starting.

Oo, that was weird, I just had fat fingers and FWR became Fwaar. It'd be rather a different board if it was named that.

BluebonicPlague · 25/07/2020 21:50

Brilliant idea, Rufus!

Except... what do we do if we want to say 'wine'?
I know: Gin

(What does Daffodil mean? And why isn't there also a thistle?)