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Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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Thelnebriati · 07/08/2020 16:17

Thats one reason I'd like to see a record kept of the deleted threads.

ItsLateHumpty · 07/08/2020 15:59

General question - if a poster gets a thread they started in FWR deleted because MN aren’t convinced, should that posters‘ other contributions / threads be deleted elsewhere on the site?

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DianasLasso · 05/08/2020 11:33

I once got a deletion for my mum's favourite (Edinburgh woman): "Aye, that'll be right."

bishopgiggles · 05/08/2020 11:27

@TehBewilderness

I was recently advised by the admin team that "Cool story, bro." is troll hunting, so please be careful how you express disbelief on FWR.
Did ye, aye....? Grin
TehBewilderness · 03/08/2020 22:06

I was recently advised by the admin team that "Cool story, bro." is troll hunting, so please be careful how you express disbelief on FWR.

OldCrone · 30/07/2020 22:26

The modding seems to be a bit..... different to usual at the moment.

I agree. The post I got a strike for was over six weeks ago and one that I didn't think was breaking guidelines. And they didn't explain what was wrong with it. I assume that we are not allowed to speculate on someone's motivation for doing something, because that was what the post was about. Maybe I should ask them to clarify (but they probably won't give an answer).

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 30/07/2020 21:50

michelle

That’s because you can’t defend the indefensible

Michelleoftheresistance · 30/07/2020 21:43

The modding seems to be a bit..... different to usual at the moment.

I queried, very politely, what was wrong with the post that earned me a strike, since I honestly don't know, and I pointed out that it was a historical post, and odd that someone had found and objected to it weeks after it was written. Got a very terse reply back that didn't explain, just said flatly that the strike was remaining, it was a very untypical email in style from HQ.

Very difficult to keep the rules, no matter how willing you are, if the rules aren't something that can be explained or guided on, and it's obvious that you asking is just getting you deeper into disfavour.

compulsivesnacker · 29/07/2020 17:25

What on earth happened here? Cartoon censorship? What did I say? It was just a song lyric wasn’t it? 🤷‍♀️ Jeez. Better check my email I guess.

highame · 29/07/2020 09:25

Sense of humour

Have been observing how much of a difference there is due to much humour and fun being had on a couple of topics. Either no joining in, or totally misunderstanding.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 28/07/2020 20:46

@RufustheSniggeringReindeer

Some mods thought it refers to them

Roz is an awesome character, i really like her

Saves the day, funny, secret agent who is in charge without anyone knowing

So i can absolutely assure ‘mods’ and mnhq that it definitely does Not refer to people who may be Looking at mumsnet

Hopefully thats ok

Oh my goodness 😀

I hope nobody thinks this is an apology

Its fucking not

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 28/07/2020 20:42

I get the impression that it is the reader who decides what is intended, not the writer. Rule 9

Oh definitely...but if i was attempting to be mean I wouldn’t post a picture of a character i like, an awesome character...a hero almost

Nah...I’d post a picture of Randy

TehBewilderness · 28/07/2020 20:38

@RufustheSniggeringReindeer

Some mods thought it refers to them

Roz is an awesome character, i really like her

Saves the day, funny, secret agent who is in charge without anyone knowing

So i can absolutely assure ‘mods’ and mnhq that it definitely does Not refer to people who may be Looking at mumsnet

Hopefully thats ok

I get the impression that it is the reader who decides what is intended, not the writer. Rule 9
RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 28/07/2020 11:23

The uni one is ok...but only ok

The original is the best

We have a fair few dvds and when they spill out of the shelves we cull them

My children are 21, 18 and 17 and its quite interesting to see the dvds they refuse to let go....monsters inc is obviously one

Sometimes they get rid of one and im like ‘WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU...ITS A CLASSIC’ and i have to put in on my shelf

It means there is a very eclectic selection there

nauticant · 28/07/2020 11:15

Monsters Inc is an excellent film! The prequel is nowhere near as good, as one would expect.

TinselAngel · 28/07/2020 10:46

@ErrolTheDragon

I've never watched any of the monsters inc films so I'm missing all sorts of cultural references here. Apart from that Roz did look like Jabba the Hut's auntie.
You should watch it, it's ace!
ErrolTheDragon · 28/07/2020 10:20

I've never watched any of the monsters inc films so I'm missing all sorts of cultural references here. Apart from that Roz did look like Jabba the Hut's auntie.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 28/07/2020 09:58

Some mods thought it refers to them

Roz is an awesome character, i really like her

Saves the day, funny, secret agent who is in charge without anyone knowing

So i can absolutely assure ‘mods’ and mnhq that it definitely does Not refer to people who may be Looking at mumsnet

Hopefully thats ok

ThePurported · 28/07/2020 09:50

Interesting, Rufus.
Any reference to monitors/watchers is risky, it was made clear when Lang left. Some mods thought it refers to them, and MN views dimly any suggestion that they are being coerced by, um, those external forces who call themselves monitors.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 28/07/2020 09:44

White sock 😳

Where....where?

Runs from thread...

FloralBunting · 28/07/2020 09:41

Twenty three nineteen!!

TinselAngel · 28/07/2020 09:38

Maybe we all need to be decontaminated.

Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5
BaronEssoStation · 28/07/2020 09:29

Blimey! I watched that film with my kids and don't remember a thing about it!

BaronEssoStation · 28/07/2020 09:28

I reckon a name change is in order..

So do I.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 28/07/2020 09:26

Just to even things up

Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5
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