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GeneticTest · 16/06/2020 11:21

I work for an MP.

We’ve had very few emails about GRA in the last few years- mostly against self ID.

We’ve had 4 emails in the last few days all outraged at this attack on transgender people.
All very similar. It’s a campaign.

We must keep emailing so MPs don’t think everyone agrees with the TRAs.

(My MP is GC)

Please- email your MP and let them know your views.

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Manderleyagain · 17/06/2020 14:13

Just came here to say that there is an organised campaign to get people to email MPagainst the plan to drop gra reform etc. Gendered intelligence have tweeted about it, and tra twitter is encouraged that they are making the government think twice.

I have already emailed my mp, but I will also email no 10 and liz truss.

Abitofalark · 17/06/2020 13:47

No point in expecting anything from My MP Lib Dem Ed Davey. He did a Mumsnet question and answer session a while ago and came out as a fervent trans ideologue.

The bad news is that he is currently acting leader of the Lib Dems and hopes to win the leadership this summer based on his 'vision, experience and leadership'. Hah. Worse news is that the other main contenders include Layla Moran, a devotee of the trans mantra. Wera Hobhouse is the other one - I don't know about her.

Abitofalark · 17/06/2020 13:27

Muttonindistress, You can find out your MP's views here; his speeches, how he voted on different issues, his declared interests, whether he is a member of any parliamentary groups or Committees on particular subjects, etc.

www.theyworkforyou.com/

There's also Parliament's website, with a wealth of information:

www.parliament.uk/

And Hansard, the official transcript of debates and proceedings in Parliament:

hansard.parliament.uk/

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/06/2020 12:24

My MP is a waste of space on this issue. I will write to Liz Truss and Boris.

Thelnebriati · 17/06/2020 12:20

If you are worried about writing to your MP ask yourself what are you most afraid of, being called a bigot, or being put in the position where you realise you are using a mixed sex service that you assumed would be single sex?

Sukibert · 17/06/2020 11:39

Apparently Liz Truss is making a statement right now

Muttonindistress · 17/06/2020 11:19

Hi. Thank you for all this great advice. I’m going to email Liz Truss and my local MP this pm while DH is out because he thinks I’ve gone a bit bonkers over all of this.

I have a few questions though.

I have a fairly good idea of what I want to say - but it could easily turn into a long essay. So I was thinking of referring them to some of the posts on here. For example, the one about things that ‘will never happen’ which have happened. Is that okay?

Also, I wonder if it would be a good idea to bump that thread (if I can find it). But I don’t know how that’s done. Do you ask MNHQ?

Finally, I am a bit nervous about emailing MP as I know him slightly. (He often visits my DD’s special School.) So I’m scared of outing myself as GC without knowing his views. Is there anyway of getting an idea of an MPs views on this issue? I’ve googled and he seems okay on women’s stuff - but that doesn’t mean he’s not TWAW. He’s Tory and youngish, but doesn’t seem like a woke bloke.

I am new to ‘campaigning’, so any advice Is very welcome. I’ve got to nag DD into doing some School work now - but will pop back in later.

Thank you.

FantaOra · 17/06/2020 00:33

Great reminder. I'm going to write tomorrow about the falsehoods being given to employers about women not being allowed to complain about men with an identity using female services. This is not true and is unwanted conduct of a sexual nature. It's appalling that these lies are being used to threaten women. The government must stop this now.

GeneticTest · 16/06/2020 21:19

That website will send it to the MP.

If you send an exact copy & paste email, it is likely be ignored by many MPs- and they may not even see it.
They pay far more attention to personalised emails.

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Gibbonsgibbonsgibbons · 16/06/2020 20:59

Doing this from Scotland with a SNP MP dinosaur who thinks women are already spoilt rotten by the brilliance of the ScotGov Confused

I plan to thank LT & give personal/local details of importance

Need to have something about hoping the single sex protections will apply here/will apply regardless....

Shepherdspyreads · 16/06/2020 20:48

Who knows but have had a fair few Instagram friends share it today.

hypernormal · 16/06/2020 20:46

@Shepherdspyreads

gra.good.do/trusstme/trusstme/

This is the campaign they are using and why MPs getting emails from 'allies' now... I just made it read the opposite of what they wrote and used that.

Excellent idea Grin and in a similar vein, here are their tips reversed to fit the gender critical view:
  • Share your personal experiences where you feel comfortable to do so, including the situation for women or young people on the ground in your local constituency
  • Say why rolling back of women's rights would be so harmful to you personally as a constituent and more widely for women and children
  • If you want to go further and meet your MP (and we would definitely recommend this if you feel up for it!), state that clearly.
  • Keep in mind MPs are, widely but not universally, not going to know a great deal about these issues, so do keep it as simple as possible while telling a truthful and meaningful story
WhatTiggersDoBest · 16/06/2020 20:41

@Shepherdspyreads

gra.good.do/trusstme/trusstme/

This is the campaign they are using and why MPs getting emails from 'allies' now... I just made it read the opposite of what they wrote and used that.

Where do those messages even go? What a bizarre website. Confused
JellyFishSquish · 16/06/2020 20:34

Done.

Shepherdspyreads · 16/06/2020 20:34

gra.good.do/trusstme/trusstme/

This is the campaign they are using and why MPs getting emails from 'allies' now... I just made it read the opposite of what they wrote and used that.

ValancyRedfern · 16/06/2020 20:30

This will be the third time I've written to my MP and he is guarded but supportive. I got an email back within a couple of hours today! He is conservative and works in the whips office so could be a good person to have onside.

EdgeOfACoin · 16/06/2020 20:24

I've written to Baroness Nicholson and Liz Truss. I've never written to a politician before.

I'm late to the party on all of this but I'm here now! I plan to write to Keir Starmer next.

Sukibert · 16/06/2020 20:22

Have had a rather fence sitting attachment reply from my Labour MP this afternoon

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TedsFederationRep · 16/06/2020 19:48

Thank you, GeneticTest, thank you for this thread.

GeneticTest · 16/06/2020 19:39

Flowers for everyone writing today.

Please remember that MPs get a lot of emails- so a response might take longer than you think. (Sometimes up to 500 individual emails a day from constituents when things are busy)
If you don’t give your address they might not answer at all.
But don’t email every day (or several times a day) asking for your response- you’ll just piss off the staff... and if you phone daily asking the same thing you might never get an answer!

Some MPs will ignore you. Esp if they’re pro TRA.

But light. More light.

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bettyfilous · 16/06/2020 19:23

Is it just me that couldn't care less if my MP thinks I'm a bigot?

I’ve got to the point where I don’t care. It’s an MP’s job to represent the interests of all their constituents. Like being a parent, you don’t get to do the job just for the ones you like the best.

PenOrPencil · 16/06/2020 18:56

Thanks for the nudge! I don’t think my MP needs pointing in the right direction, but I will send an email anyway, just to be sure!

hypernormal · 16/06/2020 18:48

Is it just me that couldn't care less if my MP thinks I'm a bigot? They're just the same as everyone else and many haven't given this much thought. In my email I actually spelled it out for them that riding the coattails of this movement is a misogynistic element whose very objective is to overstep the mark on women's rights, and that women are being called bigots as a silencing tactic. Don't know if I did right or not, but fed up with not calling this out for what it is. I did of course say I agree with trans people having the same rights as everyone else, but not prepared to beat around the bush any more, as they clearly haven't been listening with that approach.

WhatTiggersDoBest · 16/06/2020 18:48

@2020Wumben he seems pretty sound, I wonder if he gets a few people emailing him from outside his constituency. Having said that, my address is in a town that's in his constituency, just my actual house isn't. Bizarrely. So IDK if that's why he listened last time. I just emailed Number 10, I wish there was something similar for Stormont, as this legislation will affect us (AFAIK).

@Sandybval they dismissed the other side and we have this window basically because TRAs sent copy and paste draft emails, but focussing on how the GRA would affect you directly might be a good starting point. I focused on my concerns re: women's refuges and I also said that I refute the GRA in Ireland being used as an example.

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 16/06/2020 18:42

I emailed (my Conservative MP) on Sunday and got a reply yesterday by email. It was slightly guarded but I didn't get called a bigot.

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