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Reply from the Body Shop re JKR... just so dreadful...

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onlywomennotmen · 15/06/2020 17:34

Apparently men menstruate too...

^Hello, and thank you for getting in touch with us about our recent tweet to JK Rowling. We wanted to respond to everyone who has reached out to us to clarify our position on this issue.

We are longstanding supporters of the rights of women and girls on issues which affect them and believe it is important to keep having conversations around difficult topics such as this. Every person has the right to live their life free from the fear of violence, especially gender-based violence. The Body Shop has been an active campaigner on this issue since 1994.

The Body Shop’s position on menstruation in relation to trans and non-binary people is that we stand with ALL menstruators. People have periods – women, men and non-binary people. And plenty of women don’t. We value learning from everyone’s experience and we believe the conversation needs to go forwards, not backwards.

We disagree with JK Rowling’s view and wanted to demonstrate our support for trans and non-binary people. We understand why addressing the tweet to JK Rowling’s personal account has been interpreted as an attack on her as an individual, and as a domestic abuse survivor. That was absolutely not our intention. We didn’t get the tone right on this one and we do want to engage respectfully and constructively on these important issues.

We believe it is important to keep having conversations around difficult topics such as this, and doing so constructively. We recognise that our engagement with JK Rowling on this occasion wasn’t as constructive as we would like to be. We all need to educate ourselves, be inclusive and stand together so that we can end the shame and stigma around periods for all menstruators and stand up for what is right in our society.

We stand by our position on the rights of trans and non-binary people, and we will learn from this execution to ensure our communication is stronger and more constructive in the future.

We hope this helps you understand our position. We appreciated hearing yours.^

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Michelleoftheresistance · 15/06/2020 19:20

Thank you! Love supporting small businesses

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 15/06/2020 19:20

@CloudyVanilla

But they're clearly not saying people with penises menstruate which is what everyone else posting is getting incensed and snarky about
They clearly are. They state that men have periods. The definition of 'man' is 'adult human male'. The definition of 'male' is 'of or denoting the sex that produces gametes, especially spermatozoa, with which a female may be fertilized or inseminated to produce offspring.'
Lamahaha · 15/06/2020 19:18

Michelle: "I'm going to have to start making my own soap"., try this company, a startup that could do with support, run by a very nice lady!
www.facebook.com/soapatural/

RaininSummer · 15/06/2020 19:18

Gah. So ridiculous. Never buying from the again.

CloudyVanilla · 15/06/2020 19:17

But the full quote is "The Body Shop’s position on menstruation in relation to trans and non-binary people is that we stand with ALL menstruators."

  • In relation to trans and non-binary people.

Or just get mad I guess.

Bubbletrouble43 · 15/06/2020 19:17

Have I just been referred to as a menstruator???

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 15/06/2020 19:16

@CloudyVanilla

They're not saying men menstruate.
People have periods – women, men and non-binary people.

Um - as an English teacher, I know that reading comprehension can be very challenging, but this seems a fairly clear statement on the Body Shop's part?

How are you reading that sentence, CloudyVanilla, if not as saying that men menstruate?

Siablue · 15/06/2020 19:16

That is what my mum would call an apology for an apology. I will never buy from them again.

HarryHarry · 15/06/2020 19:15

I don’t understand why we can’t continue to use the words man/male and woman/female as scientific terms. They don’t have to have any impact on how we look, dress or behave, or what we call ourselves. I don’t know why trans men and non binary people would be offended by the phrase “Women have periods” - they know if it applies to them. They haven’t forgotten that they have female bodies, regardless of what they might have had done to them. They can’t pretend or demand that other people pretend that they have always been men otherwise why did they think they needed to transition?!

As for women who don’t get periods... Yes of course they’re still women! That’s like blind people getting offended by the phrase “Humans can see” or amputees getting offended by the phrase “Humans have two arms or two legs”. Unless you are one of those people who needs to be offended by everything, you know that it means IN GENERAL.

Clearly these people don’t have any actual problems if this is the kind of thing they’re getting upset about. The human race is fucking doomed.

waltzingbetty · 15/06/2020 19:15

@CloudyVanilla
They literally are saying that men have periods:
People have periods – women, men and non-binary people.

Autumnsloth · 15/06/2020 19:15

Ah OP I too am in academia and it does feel like I'm the only person who doesn't buy the wordy but meaningless critical theory essays. I personally am not willing to risk my career by expressing my views just yet, but have endless admiration for those who do. I used to say it's a good job that I'm a woman so that I can challenge the feminist stance since men aren't allowed to. In the last few years women aren't allowed to either. Hopefully there's more of us who think like this, and even more hopefully we will one day see the end of silencing through threat of sacking.

CloudyVanilla · 15/06/2020 19:13

But they're clearly not saying people with penises menstruate which is what everyone else posting is getting incensed and snarky about

ComDummings · 15/06/2020 19:11

They are saying that. They’re saying transmen menstruate. Their belief is transmen are men and transwomen are women. So they are indeed saying men menstruate.

NiceLegsShameAboutTheFace · 15/06/2020 19:10

I shall never darken the Body Shop's door again Angry

Quite frankly I can get a kg of coconut oil from the supermarket for £2.50 and that takes care of all my beauty needs. I don't need their fucking shit!

ozymandiusking · 15/06/2020 19:10

I must have missed this biology lesson at school!
For God's sake. The worlds going/ gone mad.
We're all going to hell in a handcart.

CloudyVanilla · 15/06/2020 19:09

They're not saying men menstruate.

Elloello · 15/06/2020 19:07

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TedsFederationRep · 15/06/2020 19:01

StAndrewsschool, I sent my email to the CEO using this email address:

[email protected]

Be prepared for a mass-produced bog-off email though.

I've just emailed him again. I might have been a bit brusque this time.Grin

ComDummings · 15/06/2020 19:01

They are morons

runrunrunrunt · 15/06/2020 19:00

I honestly now think this 'debate' is completely over.

There will be a time when many young trans people have changed their mind and start to speak out but sadly I feel we'll all be in our box until that point.

It's horrifying but unless you are JK Rowling or similarly financially independent, speaking out is becoming harder and harder.

CloudyVanilla · 15/06/2020 18:58

I don't get it. Surely they are saying that (trans) men menstruate, and non binary (women) menstruate.

I'm sure they're not saying that actual men menstruate. Just that people who menstruate who don't identify as women have their support.

contactusdeletus · 15/06/2020 18:56

They refer to women as "menstruators" even in what is supposed to be an apology to a woman offended by their treatment of JK Rowling. Who was attacked by them and others for - you guessed it! - criticizing the word "menstruators" as dehumanizing to women and girls! How tone deaf can you get?

And of course they refer to "gender-based violence", perpetuating the insulting idea that our oppression is something women opt into and could just identify out of if we chose.

And this little gem: "We stand by our position on the rights of trans and non-binary people" with crickets on the rights of women. Just in case their misogyny wasn't beaming out loud and clear already

HandsOffMyRights · 15/06/2020 18:54

This is dreadful.

They don't give a shit about women and girls.

I hope all those men who buy their Always san pro spend well in the Body Shop also because they are going to need to make up for all us lost menstruators.

NicksWife · 15/06/2020 18:51

I’ve received exactly the same response to my email!

DannyGlickWindowTapping · 15/06/2020 18:47

I'd really like to see them have to add an asterisk with "* only the cunty ones" whenever this kind of rubbish is published.

And did they really, explicitly, exclude the rights of women when discussing menstruation?

No word on why they think only men need shaving kits, I suppose?