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Reply from the Body Shop re JKR... just so dreadful...

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onlywomennotmen · 15/06/2020 17:34

Apparently men menstruate too...

^Hello, and thank you for getting in touch with us about our recent tweet to JK Rowling. We wanted to respond to everyone who has reached out to us to clarify our position on this issue.

We are longstanding supporters of the rights of women and girls on issues which affect them and believe it is important to keep having conversations around difficult topics such as this. Every person has the right to live their life free from the fear of violence, especially gender-based violence. The Body Shop has been an active campaigner on this issue since 1994.

The Body Shop’s position on menstruation in relation to trans and non-binary people is that we stand with ALL menstruators. People have periods – women, men and non-binary people. And plenty of women don’t. We value learning from everyone’s experience and we believe the conversation needs to go forwards, not backwards.

We disagree with JK Rowling’s view and wanted to demonstrate our support for trans and non-binary people. We understand why addressing the tweet to JK Rowling’s personal account has been interpreted as an attack on her as an individual, and as a domestic abuse survivor. That was absolutely not our intention. We didn’t get the tone right on this one and we do want to engage respectfully and constructively on these important issues.

We believe it is important to keep having conversations around difficult topics such as this, and doing so constructively. We recognise that our engagement with JK Rowling on this occasion wasn’t as constructive as we would like to be. We all need to educate ourselves, be inclusive and stand together so that we can end the shame and stigma around periods for all menstruators and stand up for what is right in our society.

We stand by our position on the rights of trans and non-binary people, and we will learn from this execution to ensure our communication is stronger and more constructive in the future.

We hope this helps you understand our position. We appreciated hearing yours.^

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Ninkanink · 15/06/2020 20:45

You’ve missed the point entirely.

The point is that only women menstruate. Only women have periods.

No man will have a period, ever. Every individual in the world who menstruates is a woman.

TorkTorkBam · 15/06/2020 20:45

@Betty98

TorkTorkBam

Betty why would they use confusing language that many would not understand: "menstruators".
No idea, the word generally is pretty vile (as in, it just sounds so unnecessary). I’d definitely sign a petition asking for no one to ever use that word ever again.

Perhaps this is why I’m not getting it. I don’t have an issue with “people that menstruate”. But I’m gathering majority here would prefer it to stay with “women that menstruate”. Yes?

No, just "women".

No need for the extra words.

Betty98 · 15/06/2020 20:43

Betty you don't see why we need a word to name the class of people with the types of bodies which can gestate? No, I don’t. I’m not being obtuse for the sake of it. Why do we need a word for the subset of women who menstruate? And if we need one, why haven’t we had one until The Bodyshop have randomly decided to create one?

TorkTorkBam · 15/06/2020 20:43

@ErnDincum

I no longer menstruate. What does that make me?

Oh, can people stop muddying the waters like this? . You're a woman. You know this.

But what is a woman? How do I know I'm a woman?

Try to become a Catholic priest. They'll explain which kind you are if you are confused.
DRCanShoveHisWandUpHisRs · 15/06/2020 20:42

FFS. And yet again, we need to "educate ourselves". How did I know that was going to crop up in their response? Hmm

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/06/2020 20:42

I no longer menstruate. What does that make me?

A woman who no longer menstruates. This isn't hard, unless you are very obtuse indeed.

BabyItsAWildWorld · 15/06/2020 20:41

But what is a woman? How do I know I'm a woman?

Presumably because you have female biology? whether it's working or not and regardless of your age.

How do you know you're a women?

Thisismytimetoshine · 15/06/2020 20:41

@ErnDincum

I no longer menstruate. What does that make me?

Oh, can people stop muddying the waters like this? . You're a woman. You know this.

But what is a woman? How do I know I'm a woman?

Are you taking the piss?
Betty98 · 15/06/2020 20:40

TorkTorkBam

Betty why would they use confusing language that many would not understand: "menstruators".
No idea, the word generally is pretty vile (as in, it just sounds so unnecessary). I’d definitely sign a petition asking for no one to ever use that word ever again.

Perhaps this is why I’m not getting it. I don’t have an issue with “people that menstruate”. But I’m gathering majority here would prefer it to stay with “women that menstruate”. Yes?

BabyItsAWildWorld · 15/06/2020 20:40

Betty you don't see why we need a word to name the class of people with the types of bodies which can gestate?

Wow.

And you don't see why that suggestion appalls women?

Deanetta · 15/06/2020 20:39

Is there a particularly woke company which may have plenty of public toilets? Restaurant chain etc. I fancy tweeting them and making sure they’ve used lockdown to full advantage to install tampon machines in all their gents.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/06/2020 20:39

Do you think when people say "look here", it's exclusionary and offensive to blind people?

ErnDincum · 15/06/2020 20:39

I no longer menstruate. What does that make me?

Oh, can people stop muddying the waters like this? . You're a woman. You know this.

But what is a woman? How do I know I'm a woman?

Thisismytimetoshine · 15/06/2020 20:39

@Betty98

BabyItsAWildWorld I don’t really see why they need a word. “Women that menstruate”, “transmen that menstruate”, “anybody who identifies anyway they want that menstruate”.

However, as someone who doesn’t menstruate, I don’t think I currently have any authority on the matter.

Is this what the issue is; that these companies should only be saying “women who menstruate”?

No. The issue is that they've discarded the word woman and replaced it with menstruator.
TheSingingKettle49 · 15/06/2020 20:38

@Betty98 - Lets say you’re designing a leaflet with information about periods.

The people you want to reach are: pre-teen and teen girls who haven’t started menstruation yet but will in the next few years, people who regularly (or irregularly) menstruate now, people who are not currently menstruating but presumably will at some point in the future (pregnant/on contraception/temporary medical problems etc) and people who no longer menstruate or have never menstruated but have responsibility for one of the aforementioned persons.

Bearing in mind that some of these people will have low reading abilities, English as a second language or just not be very bright. Also assuming that any trans men or non binary people must have a grasp of how their body works to be able to make the informed choice of becoming trans or non binary

What would be the one catch all word for a group that all of these people would recognise that they fall into, but wouldn’t catch the attention of the group of people to whom periods are not ever going to be relevant to?

Women.

BabyItsAWildWorld · 15/06/2020 20:38

So Betty you are saying we know women are really adult females but we'll go along with the pretense of males who think they're women, even though we know they're not and it stops us being able to actually talk about and name the distinct group of adult females.

So we give up the ability to define ourselves and therefore to talk about ourselves, to be nice to a tiny group of males who wish they were women?

Why?

BrowncoatWaffles · 15/06/2020 20:36

Damnit, I literally bought Body Shop stuff this week for the first time in ages.

That’s off the list again then :/

Betty98 · 15/06/2020 20:36

BabyItsAWildWorld I don’t really see why they need a word. “Women that menstruate”, “transmen that menstruate”, “anybody who identifies anyway they want that menstruate”.

However, as someone who doesn’t menstruate, I don’t think I currently have any authority on the matter.

Is this what the issue is; that these companies should only be saying “women who menstruate”?

2bazookas · 15/06/2020 20:36

I'd best get my husband to ring the doctor tomorrow as he has never had a period.

Maybe he's pregnant?

TorkTorkBam · 15/06/2020 20:35

buy shaving gear.

TorkTorkBam · 15/06/2020 20:34

Betty why would they use confusing language that many would not understand: "menstruators".

For centuries men have treated women as less than human. As possessions, as accessories, as breeding mares or sex bots. Here The Body Shop objectify women by reducing us to bodily functions.

A transman or non-binary person who menstruates knows they are a biological woman. There is no confusion for anyone if they use the word "woman". The message gets to the right people most easily.

You will note they didn't change the label of "men" on their public material to refer to them by bodily function. Apparently transwomen aren't so confused by the word "men" that they fail to realise they can by shaving gear from The Body Shop.

Why do women get treated like morons or worse? While men get to keep their word for themselves! Men are men. Women are objects.

BabyItsAWildWorld · 15/06/2020 20:34

I no longer menstruate. What does that make me?

Do you have the type of body which menstruates?
Then you are a women, if you are an adult, whether you actually menstruate or not.

But you knew that really didn't you?

Betty98 · 15/06/2020 20:32

People who claim they're non binary never seem to have any issue with the word men, do they? Odd. I don’t think I’ve ever met a non binary person, so no idea.

I am happy to accept they believe they are men
They aren't actually men
Isn’t that what the body shop are also saying? That they’re happy to accept they believe they are men?

I no longer menstruate. What does that make me? A woman? I don’t menstruate, but I still can’t see where TBS are claiming women shouldn’t now be referred to as “menstruators”.

themachinist · 15/06/2020 20:32

Ffs. That is all.

ErrolTheDragon · 15/06/2020 20:31

We hope this helps you understand our position

Yeah, loud and clear. You're going to carry on calling women and girls (including 'non binary' females and transmen who've not yet been sterilised) 'menstruators'