@AsSurprisedAsYouAre
I honestly don't get all this, at my place of work we don't have gendered toilets because every toilet is a lockable cubicle and each lockable cubicle has a sanitary bin in it .. if they're behind a locked door what does it matter if the person inside using it standing up or sitting down or has inny or outy genitals? I am not bothered by seeing men or anyone else wash their hands, which is all that happens in the communal space so... what's the issue? Honestly? Lots of places like coffee shops only have one bathroom for everyone - men/women/babychange/accessible users.. we cope then? Isn't this a non-issue?
For you yes.
For women who aren't allowed to be alone with strange men, or don't want to be alone with strange men it's a massive issue.
For young women embarrassed about periods and not wanting to be in a cubicle next to a man while they grapple with sanitary products it's a big deal.
For women with small children and pushchairs who can't quite close the door properly but doesn't mind too much because it's only other women in there it's important.
For the woman with children old enough to be left outside the cubicle and wait it's reassuring that only other women and children will be in that space.
For women needing to escape on a night out from a 'handsy' man or a bad date it's a good place to go.
It's not just about you. Is it