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Why are the trans community blaming women for the actions of men?

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ShirleyPhallus · 13/06/2020 06:03

I’m reading everything I possibly can in light of JKR statement (which beautifully articulates everything I feel)

One thing I cannot see a clear answer to though is just why all the TRAs are just so angry at women. I have seen a serious of tweets linked on Facebook that talk about how dangerous JKR’s thinking is to the trans community as it makes “people” (I assume men?!) think that trans women are not real women.

Leaving aside the argument of whether they are or aren’t, does anyone know why TRAs aren’t more angry at the men who are actually doing the rape / murder / assault that also affects women and why they’re angry at women for standing up for themselves? This is more than just misogyny surely?

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BaronessRadcliffeFemish · 15/06/2020 10:39

The trans community does not blame women for anything

Are you the spokesman for the "trans community"?

Can we consult you on all related matters?

ShirleyPhallus · 14/06/2020 12:42

Just to check in and confirm I am reading all of this, taking a little time to process but really appreciate the responses

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Melia100 · 14/06/2020 00:13

not the aggressive,attention seeking trans

Bull. I'm thinking 1980's and the AGP's were just as horrible as they are now.

Hagisonthehill · 14/06/2020 00:06

TehBewilderness.
Sorry my back in the day was before Clymer was born and they were few and far between and not the aggressive,attention seeking trans we get today pissing on our toilet floors and really out to aggressively harass women.
I don't think that women get more radical with age they are just no longer seeking approval for their actions.With age comes the ability to give less of a shit as to what others think about your actions.

TehBewilderness · 13/06/2020 23:53

@Coyoacan

Sorry, I see the conversation has moved on but I really want to take issue with this sweeping statement: With age comes maturity” but often also racism, climate denial, transphobia and the rest

How fucking dare you!

I'm 67, not one of my ageing friends and relatives has suddenly turned into a racist, climate denier or transphobe.

My 77 year-old old sister has gone to jail more than once for protesting climate change.

Oddly enough it is men who get more conservative with age, and women who become more radical.
TehBewilderness · 13/06/2020 23:49

@Hagisonthehill

Yranspeople have been around for a long time,been allowed in women's spaces quietly and without fuss for years. Women didn't think much of it and didn't vent their rage on this group. Many people today who call themselves trans haven't transitioned into anything just wear different clothes and makeup but with a lot less pazazz than Bowie and BoyGeorge encouraged back in the day. Now living as a woman for transwomen is all about fashion and sex which is such a tiny part of being a women. And thinking about why they seem to hate older women,I think it is because we all grow older and we older women are not what the younger transwomen aspire to be.
This is a myth that men have repeated for years despite all the women who have called the manager or the police and stood outside the loo warning women that there is a wanker inside. Clymer has made a living threatening nuisance suits against restaurants when women report him and the manager confronts him.
Melia100 · 13/06/2020 23:46

Ageism, along with sexism, is the acceptable ism of 2020.

Coyoacan · 13/06/2020 23:41

Sorry, I see the conversation has moved on but I really want to take issue with this sweeping statement: With age comes maturity” but often also racism, climate denial, transphobia and the rest

How fucking dare you!

I'm 67, not one of my ageing friends and relatives has suddenly turned into a racist, climate denier or transphobe.

My 77 year-old old sister has gone to jail more than once for protesting climate change.

Melia100 · 13/06/2020 23:30

Actually, I hated the entitlement of men who thought they were women and used women's spaces even back in the day. Just because I didn't say anything about it, because I was scared of the narc male rage, didn't mean I didn't 'think much of it'. I used to get hit on by AGP men, and I hated it. It was outright sleaze under a mask of 'all girls'.

Hagisonthehill · 13/06/2020 23:15

Yranspeople have been around for a long time,been allowed in women's spaces quietly and without fuss for years.
Women didn't think much of it and didn't vent their rage on this group.
Many people today who call themselves trans haven't transitioned into anything just wear different clothes and makeup but with a lot less pazazz than Bowie and BoyGeorge encouraged back in the day.
Now living as a woman for transwomen is all about fashion and sex which is such a tiny part of being a women.
And thinking about why they seem to hate older women,I think it is because we all grow older and we older women are not what the younger transwomen aspire to be.

Melia100 · 13/06/2020 23:07

I think they all have mother complexes.

It's why they're all getting off on JKR hate. Symbolic matricide.

Basically a whole stack of screwed up men in a society that paints a bright red target on the backs of women to distract from the male ninja creeping up behind you.

Which is a weird metaphor, need more coffee.

Wolfgirrl · 13/06/2020 23:04

Front page of the Sunday Times tomorrow, can't make the article out though.

Why are the trans community blaming women for the actions of men?
FantaOra · 13/06/2020 22:57

Burgundy

Loathing violent men who issue a non stop stream of sexualised abuse and death threats is a perfectly natural response. Are you here expecting women to be forgiving of them. We are not in church you know? Are you in a pulpit telling us to accept abuse with forgiveness? You are certainly giving that message.

Wolfgirrl · 13/06/2020 22:43

If those disgusting tweets had been aimed at a female MP, and made by 'cis' men, everyone would be calling it sexist filth and rightly so.

I haven't even seen a mention of those comments in the news. Nobody seems willing to admit there is a very ugly and aggressive undertone to the trans lobby, and they're not all the fragile and delicate acting trans women we see on breakfast shows, facing down the mean radical feminists.

CatandtheFiddle · 13/06/2020 22:43

No deletions on this thread, so obviously no transphobia

It’s funny isn’t it @OldCrone anyone would think we’re being rational and discussing disagreements respectfully. Which must be impossible as we’re all such wicked —witches— transphobes

TehBewilderness · 13/06/2020 22:38

@Burgundy1844

So many accusations of misogyny and yet the fear and loathing of men on these threads is palpable. It seems that for some trans people are an easy (and seemingly acceptable) outlet for that hatred. It’s not trans is it, it’s anyone who isn’t CIS female. To many women you just sound a bit unhinged.
Male violence is the greatest human rights crisis the world has ever known.

10th rule of misogyny: The worst thing about male violence is that it makes men look bad.

Transgender advocacy maintains the social hierarchy while redefining homophobia and misogyny as progressive.

Of course we sound unhinged. We are talking about the systemic misogyny in every aspect of society. Naming the problem of male violence is considered far worse than the problem itself

OldCrone · 13/06/2020 22:29

Thankyou CatandtheFiddle I have
No deletions on this thread, so obviously no transphobia. So why are you refusing to answer any questions on here Burgundy?

Justhadathought · 13/06/2020 22:12

Thankyou @CatandtheFiddle I have smile

Better that eh, than engage with the actual substance of the conflict.

Justhadathought · 13/06/2020 22:10

Ive not made any accusations that you’ve refused to engage. Quite the opposite - you’re clearly desperate to engage, but people won’t for the reasons I mentioned above. It must be very frustrating

Can I just say; I'm not desperate. But I am committed.

As for frustration, when you have been a political campaigner in one form or other for decades, you get used to the 'long game'. What I, and others, have learned is that there is little point trying to engage with trans activists. They simply know nothing other than cancellation, abuse, and no debate. The apotheosis of identity politics.

We realise that it is in the court of public opinion that daylight and justice will eventually come. That and a commitment to challenge every decision, and to take things to court when, and if, necessary.

OldCrone · 13/06/2020 20:38

Hatred and abuse is one way. What JK Rowling and many others have been subject to is disgusting. The violence is all one way. The threats of violence don't come from GC women, they come from the trans activists. Naked hatred and aggression.

Like this (just in case anyone hasn't seen it).

More here.
medium.com/@rebeccarc/j-k-rowling-and-the-trans-activists-a-story-in-screenshots-78e01dca68d

Why are the trans community blaming women for the actions of men?
Burgundy1844 · 13/06/2020 19:34

Thankyou @CatandtheFiddle I have Smile

Burgundy1844 · 13/06/2020 19:33

“So, please refrain from false accusations of hated, ignorance and refusal to engage.”

Ive not made any accusations that you’ve refused to engage. Quite the opposite - you’re clearly desperate to engage, but people won’t for the reasons I mentioned above. It must be very frustrating.

For what it’s worth I agree entirely with you on this statement:

“ Hatred and abuse is one way. What JK Rowling and many others have been subject to is disgusting. The violence is all one way. The threats of violence don't come from GC women, they come from the trans activists.”

Although I suspect that there is a fair amount of hatred in some posters. Sometimes it is hard to separate fear from loathing.

CatandtheFiddle · 13/06/2020 19:30

Yes, @Burgundy1844 please report transphobia. It shouldn't be allowed to remain on MN.

OldCrone · 13/06/2020 19:14

Some views are considered so abhorrent its best not to engage and give it publicity.

What abhorrent views have you seen here? Is it abhorrent to say that people can't change sex? Is it abhorrent to say that it's child abuse to teach children that they can change sex? Is it abhorrent to say that men should be kept out of women-only spaces and women's sports?

And you still haven't answered the questions I've asked you twice @Burgundy1844.

Here they are again:

If you agree with 'trans' people not being excluded from women's single sex spaces, services and sports, where do you draw the line between people who are trans and people who are not? Is Karen White a 'trans person'? He said he was. How do you tell the difference between someone who is 'trans' and someone who is pretending to be? What does 'trans' mean to you, given that the Stonewall trans umbrella includes nearly everyone?

Justhadathought · 13/06/2020 19:08

That might change if your views start to get taken seriously in which case they will have to be confronted properly (and not through abuse on Twitter). That’s a battle for another day

This battle is ongoing and gathering strength, It is only when people have information that they can be informed. And when there is a black-out on information that makes it difficult. this is what we have been up against.

I reckon it is going to take a couple of decades to unravel the and un-pick this ideology; as the negative impacts and consequences become more apparent. But be in no doubt, we are 100% committed.

Hatred and abuse is one way. What JK Rowling and many others have been subject to is disgusting. The violence is all one way. The threats of violence don't come from GC women, they come from the trans activists. Naked hatred and aggression.

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