@Kantastic
People who are against trans rights don't just threaten to harm kill and rape trans people for who they are.
People who hate women escalate their threats of violence, harm and rape into actual violence all the time - this includes many transwomen. As perpetrators, not victims, to be absolutely clear.
By contrast, no one in this conversation is "against trans rights", we just want women to have our own single-sex spaces.
(Apologies if i failed to properly decipher what you meant with that sentence; you would communicate better if you used appropriate punctuation.)
My point is that the side that wants to exclude transwomen from women's toilets (let's call them gender critical) always make out that they somehow have the moral high ground because they don't resort to threats of violence, and they thus encourage free speech. That's clearly illogical, in that it judges the majority against the actions of a horrible minority. It also conflates the separate issues of toxic discourse, which applies to any debates that rage online, with the mainstream trans rights movement. But the majortiy of people on both sides of the debate rightly call out that sort of language.
But it's also wrong. The people who don't want trans women to use women's toilets includes people who literally rape and kill trans people for who they are. And even if you don't include those people, there's plenty of toxic language, death and rape threats online too by people who share their view.
Eg. From a post on Glindr.
"I wrote a poem. English not my first language but I hope this is okay.
Cunt entirely off you bunch of muppets / I've got a fucking knife / The pressure in my head grows worse, soon I kill / Every penis must be sliced like a cunting savely / Shit off or I muder."
So the problem clearly isn't owned by mainstream trans rights activists (or whatever you want to call them), so instead of conflating the issues and focusing on the toxic discourse as a problem of the trans rights movement, why don't we just call it out and move on?