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What constitutes your identity?

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Z0rr0 · 10/06/2020 19:28

The dictionary definition is 'the fact of being who or what a person or thing is'.
To expand: The definition of identity is who you are, the way you think about yourself, the way you are viewed by the world and the characteristics that define you.
[In maths an identity is 'a transformation that leaves an object unchanged'.]
Wikipedia says: Identity is the qualities, beliefs, personality, looks and/or expressions that make a person or group. One can regard the categorizing of identity as positive or as destructive. A psychological identity relates to self-image, self-esteem, and individuality.

I'm asking this because both Radcliffe and Redmayne have talked about JKR's comments 'invalidating trans identities' or having their 'identities questioned'.
Someone on here said something I thought was brilliant the other day:
Many misgender trans women, say that only women who were born female have the right to identify as female, and so on.
Since when did anyone have the right to identify as anything?
I need sex based rights regardless of my identity. If I could just identify out of being female, I wouldn't need sex based rights.

I think I would argue that how someone identifies is slightly different to their identity. I'm thinking about 'identity theft' or 'secret identity'.
My identity is built upon my name, my heritage, my childhood background, my family, my experiences, my beliefs, my skills, my behaviours, my appearance etc. All of those are informed by my gender.
I can't imagine anyone saying anything to or about me that would in any way invalidate my identity.
Am I missing something?

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FantaOra · 10/06/2020 19:36

Yes, you are missing the fact that gender identity is just a massive pr exercise designed to put a sellable gloss on the two types of male sexualities, homosexual transsexual and autogynephillia. It's a work of fiction. Not a very good one either. Read Blanchard, the sexologist that studied the men he was treating for their sexual behaviour. Identity is the post modern cover up cross dressing men have tried to sell to the world, unsuccessfully.

BitOfFun · 10/06/2020 19:32

That little zing of magic dust that enlivens the personalities of otherwise dull self-obsessed people?