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Gender appropriation vs cultural appropriation

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BusterBluth · 10/06/2020 11:11

In the woke world of today, with people in uproar about JKR and determining loudly that TWAW - it's interesting to see the difference between the thumbs-up for sexual/gender appropriation and examples such as those below, of people who identify and present as black, but are in fact white.

These people have been criticised for taking opportunities reserved for BAME people - and faced a backlash that argued you can't just 'identify' and appropriate another race.

They were criticised, with arguments including the disregard for lived experience, oppression and - crucially - the difference in DNA.
So even if the woke had clapped and cheered and said "YES! WHITE WOMEN ARE BLACK WOMEN!" - we'd all know that, deep down, they aren't.

So my question is, if self-ID reformists insist that anyone can identify as a woman, should we not also extend this to anyone identifying as the race they choose? Why reject one and not the other?

I fear the answer is simply: 'because women'.

Rachel Dolezal (aka Nkechi Amare Diallo)
Who, when challenged, claimed that 'race is a lie' (sound familiar?)
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rachel_Dolezal

Anthony David Lennon (aka Soweto Alkebulan Ekundayo)
www.independent.co.uk/voices/anthony-ekundayo-lennon-black-theatre-arts-council-england-theatre-rachel-dolezal-transracial-a8616851.html

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Crystaltree · 10/06/2020 23:46

Grown women have a CULTURE beyond just individual lived experience. A culture handed down from aunts and mothers to daughters. Handed down in organisations such as the Guides. In some countries women's culture is secret from men. In some countries (eg Japan) it is encoded in forms of the language.

Trans women grew up as boys, and boys and men have a different culture. So this goes way beyond simple gender or sex appropriation.

Wolfgirrl · 10/06/2020 21:27

I agree with @Collidascope

Sex is polarised, with a very small third category for intersex people. And I believe most intersex people consider themselves to be male or female in general, iyswim. But basically you're either male or female. Both has distinguished chromosomes.

Whereas with race, obviously it is completely possible to be biologically from multiple 'races'. And we all are, when you think about it. All of us have ancestry from different races, and I believe (correct me if I'm wrong) that the human race in its entirety evolved from a point in Africa. Therefore there is much more scope for identifying with a different race, as it is very possible you have ancestry (and possibly DNA) from that race.

Furthermore, regardless of race, we are all (aside from intersex people) male or female. So when you think about it, appropriating the female sex is also appropriating race, as you would be claiming to be a 'woman' in general as opposed to, say, a white woman.

Does that make sense or am I rambling Confused

feedmecheese · 10/06/2020 21:09

Are there White people who have asked to be identified as Black? Are they suicidal or depressed because they are in the wrong body?

With respect, I think this is the wrong question to ask. Better questions would be:

  • Does my woke friend think it is OK for a white person to be officially recognised as black and take awards/positions etc intended for black people (aimed at celebrating black culture/helping tackle inequality etc)? If not, why?
  • If transwomen are feeling suicidal and depressed because they feel trapped in the wrong body is it impossible for them to dress/act as they see fit and be supported as individuals without allowing any man who wishes to be legally treated as a woman (and therefore enter safe spaces for women, take women's awards etc)? Is it really impossible for the safety, wellbeing and right to equality of transwomen to be protected and supported without sacrificing the safety, wellbeing and right to equality of women?
Goosefoot · 10/06/2020 17:47

Yes, that's it, thanks! I thought that was such an interesting article, and the people are much more sympathetic than people trying to claim transracialism, it's a good illustration of the difference.

BluBooby posted this video in the other thread yesterday, it's about essentialism and intersectionality. It's slightly quick and dirty as an explanation but it's very understandable, and I think it goes a long way to seeing why the same people would believe in gender essence and race essence.

www.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=4FngeEwsVLU&app=desktop

picklemewalnuts · 10/06/2020 16:25

Here it is, @Goosefoot

www.theguardian.com/us-news/2019/jul/25/race-east-jackson-ohio-appalachia-white-black

Goosefoot · 10/06/2020 14:54

It doesn't make a lot of sense to have that particular sort of objection to "transracialism" but then to be ok with it for transgenderism, at first glance.

They really are only comparisons though, because they are different in several ways. There is an objectivity to sex that there isn't for race. And Dolzal, in a way, is maybe not the best person to look at, I think she has some real struggles that prevent her from thinking clearly and she's not really up to the pressure of defending her POV, because it is a manifestation of a sort of illness. And that's kind of obvious.

A more interesting example, if anyone remembers it was posted here in an article a while back, is that there is a town in the US where everyone was considered to be black - it was a sort of place where social outcasts live near a larger town. In reality many had no biological or ancestral connection to Africa, they were entirely of European descent. But they came to consider themselves black, they were treated as black because they were from that particular place, and their descendants considered themselves black and some still do. Some of the people did marry into black families but not all.

I think this is a fairly robust example of why sex and race are basically different, race can include whatever we agree upon socially.

But if we look a little more closely, actually supporting gender ideology and nor transracialism does fit together. They are both essentialist viewpoints. Many people are both gender essentialists and race essentialists, because essentialism is how they think about all identity issues.

BusterBluth · 10/06/2020 13:08

On the plus side, the more examples of people trying to deny reality and insist others do the same (like the Dr Phil woman), the more it makes people think and question the narrative.

We must be allowed debate.

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BobbyBlueHat · 10/06/2020 12:51

I was saying this just yesterday after seeing a Dr Phil clip of a black lady claiming she is white and everyone basically telling her she's fucking crazy and she can't change her DNA, she's quite clearly black..I thought 'what's the fucking difference?'

BusterBluth · 10/06/2020 12:49

*from birth not for birth

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BusterBluth · 10/06/2020 12:48

@TorkTorkBam

Post Brexit there would be huge practical consequence of British identifying as French meaning they legally become French and the French people are not allowed to object or else bigot.
Absolutely.

I recently renewed my French passport (had it for birth but it had lapsed) and was informed that I could apply for French citizenship for my children and husband.

The children don't speak French and have never been to France, but I'm going to apply. Why? Because it's legal and I can.

Should I? A different matter altogether... (I imagine many French people might say not).

But my behaviour here underlines the problem with self ID.

If Self-ID becomes legal, it doesn't matter who applies (just like my very non-French children) - if they say they are, then they are, no questions asked.
If it's legal, people will take advantage for their own benefit.

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DelurkingAJ · 10/06/2020 12:39

I’ve been wondering exactly this and I hate the fact that I can’t articulate this in public without being vilified.

TorkTorkBam · 10/06/2020 12:38

Post Brexit there would be huge practical consequence of British identifying as French meaning they legally become French and the French people are not allowed to object or else bigot.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 10/06/2020 12:37

Nobody is "in the wrong body". If someone feels like they are then the issue lies in the brain.

BusterBluth · 10/06/2020 12:33

@ginghamstarfish

I don't think we're allowed to talk about this nor the fact that it only works one way ..... otherwise we are bigots, transphobes, racists etc.
You forgot TERFS Wink
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BusterBluth · 10/06/2020 12:33

@MakeMineWithRhubarbJam

I have also wondered about this.

I could learn to speak fluent French, eat French food, wear clothes that are from France, go and live there and tell people I am French and even become a French citizen, but I can't change my birth certificate to say I was born in France and have always been French.

Now, if I want to say that I was actually born a man I can get my birth certificate altered to say so despite the actual, y'know, physical and biological facts

I suppose changing (rewriting) one's nationality isn't 'a thing' because the argument would be 'why would you want to?' Other than for your own entertainment/francophile gratification!

By that I mean you wouldn't gain anything by being French (broad brush strokes that French rights etc aren't too different from British).

It would also mean a statement on your birth certificate that isn't true, not matter how much you wanted it to be.

But changing sex would benefit you. If it's MtF then you gain women's rights.

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ginghamstarfish · 10/06/2020 12:27

I don't think we're allowed to talk about this nor the fact that it only works one way ..... otherwise we are bigots, transphobes, racists etc.

MakeMineWithRhubarbJam · 10/06/2020 12:16

I have also wondered about this.

I could learn to speak fluent French, eat French food, wear clothes that are from France, go and live there and tell people I am French and even become a French citizen, but I can't change my birth certificate to say I was born in France and have always been French.

Now, if I want to say that I was actually born a man I can get my birth certificate altered to say so despite the actual, y'know, physical and biological facts

BusterBluth · 10/06/2020 12:12

Thanks for the question @Enormouscroc. It made me think. Ultimately, I hold the same views as I did before.

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BusterBluth · 10/06/2020 12:10

There are certainly white people who have identified as black. Whether they’ve asked or not, I couldn’t say. The example of Anthony Lennon is clear in that he was ‘never asked’ if he was black, people just assumed. So black by default. He did however, have access to and benefitted from funding that had been ringfenced for BAME people.

Are they suicidal or depressed? Couldn’t say.
Say they were... does that mean they should be allowed to take opportunities intended for their desired race? Just because it makes them sad that they aren’t what they wish they were?

Do feelings override everything else?

In my opinion, the focus should be on supporting people to embrace reality. You aren’t ‘in’ a body. You ARE your body.

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Thelnebriati · 10/06/2020 12:09

''Cultural genocide involves the eradication and destruction of cultural artifacts, such as books, artworks, and structures, and the suppression of cultural activities that do not conform to the destroyer's notion of what is appropriate''
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cultural_genocide

Enormouscroc · 10/06/2020 12:00

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BusterBluth · 10/06/2020 11:54

I am all for anyone expressing themselves the way they want - but do it in a way that respects women's rights and boundaries. Don't try to become what you are not by railroading science and facts.

On another note... why the hatred of the word transwoman? Is it similar to when people didn't want to admit they were gay, because it was seen as 'bad'? So they pretended they weren't. It doesn't have that stigma now. Transpeople should be celebrated for what they are, not gaslighted into believing (and have us believe) they're something else.

Don't get me started on lesbians with penises...

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picklemewalnuts · 10/06/2020 11:46

Anthony lennon's story is really interesting. It's not particularly clear cut at all. However sexual appropriation is clear cut. Don't do it.

Waiohwai · 10/06/2020 11:43

What kind of person compares prejudice and discrimination to see which is worse, this isn’t a fucking game of top trumps here.
This is missing the point. It's not about comparing to see who has it worse, it's about comparing to highlight the parallels between the situations and differences in what is deemed acceptable in each case. It exposes inconsistencies and speaks to the underlying motives of those setting the agenda.

PlatoAteMySnozcumber · 10/06/2020 11:40
  • kind of person compares prejudice and discrimination to see which is worse, this isn’t a fucking game of top trumps here.

Whilst we’re at it why don’t we chuck in the disabled, they get a pretty raw deal as well BUT is it as bad as women or BAME people, hmm tough call.

What a joke.*

I think you are missing the point. It isn’t a comparison of prejudice, but highlighting the illogical inconsistencies in saying that a man can identify as a woman but a white person cannot identify as black.

The rachel case turns on its facts a bit as she could pass as black without doing anything. If a white person put on black make up and said they felt black, this would be derided as offensive. A man can don womanface and it’s fine though. Shrug.