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Central Park Incident

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Coyoacan · 27/05/2020 18:43

I saw the video when it first came out and saw a woman who play-acted on the phone to the police while torturing her dog for sound effects and using the colour of the man's skin in the hope that he would be shot on sight by the police.

It turns out that, as a feminist, I should have seen a poor woman, scared of a man in an isolated area, making a call for help and giving a limited physical description of the man.

In one discussion, where I suggested solidarity with the mothers of teenage black boys who never know if their sons would come home again when they left the house, that that is not a feminist issue.

Does feminism trump the fight against racism?

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PacificState · 27/05/2020 19:11

From the discussions on here I’ve seen opinion is running 99% against her. I haven’t actually watched the video because the description alone made me cringe, but her pointed use of ‘African American man’ makes it pretty much case closed in terms of her behaving in a malign and racist way, IMO. I really dislike the ‘Karen’ and ‘white feminism’ discourse because it’s reductive, but the descriptions of this video have been a real eye-opener in terms of understanding what POC mean when they refer to those characterisations. As a white British feminist I don’t think I know anyone who would behave like that - it feels to me that this is a specific US cultural context - but I could be being very naive.

I’m sorry that you fear for your boys. That must be terrifying.

NotAGirl · 27/05/2020 19:10

It's not really an either/or between racism and feminism.

In that case the woman was in the wrong, feminism doesn't mean you should act like every man who calls out your bad behaviour is a potential assailant. Feminism doesn't mean you can lie about the interaction with impunity.

I'm concerned about the risk to young black men of violent racist attack (including by police) I'm not sure whether it's a feminist issue except that the violent attacks tend to be male on male.

There are many issues that need to be resolved in the world but it's not up to feminism to solve all of them. There's many issues I'm concerned about as well as feminism and racism is a significant one.

GlitterToast · 27/05/2020 19:01

That woman is 100% in the wrong. Central Park is one of the busiest parks in the world. She was in no danger from that man.

Im glad that the man has got justice and the dog has been rehomed.

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