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Mermaids is encouraging children to hide online searches from their parents

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jadefinch · 26/03/2020 06:08

Surely this is a child safeguarding breach and is an example of child grooming?

The trans children charity Mermaids has created a button on its desktop website so that children can immediately jump to another web site if a parent comes into the room, presumably while either looking at Mermaids material or talking to someone at the charity, so they can lie to their parents that they were actually doing something else.

They've created this because more children are home at the moment during the coronavirus pandemic.

The charity has received further criticism in the last few days for not playing what could be an important role during COVID-19:

  • They should be telling transboys to ditch their binders until this is over - the binders constrict the chest and lead to breathing difficulties, something that's potentially fatal during a pandemic where the virus targets the lungs; but Mermaids have refused to do this.
  • They should be telling all young trans people to stay away from hospitals unless there's an emergency as non-essential treatment increases the risk of spreading the virus at the moment; Mermaids has not done this.
  • They have instead asked people to buy more food on Amazon and set Mermaids up as the charity to donate a percentage of the money spent to - ignoring all charities concerned with NHS staff or the elderly that desperate need cash injections at the moment.
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SomeoneElseEntirelyNow · 26/03/2020 06:36

<a class="break-all" href="https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=www.stonewall.org.uk/system/files/lgbt_in_britain_-_trans_report_final.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwi55ZfjwrfoAhXaEcAKHV6GAB4QFjAHegQIBRAB&usg=AOvVaw1nJFKlYrLnswzRsKcaD3DZ" rel="nofollow" target="blank">www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=www.stonewall.org.uk/system/files/lgbt_in_britain-_trans_report_final.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwi55ZfjwrfoAhXaEcAKHV6GAB4QFjAHegQIBRAB&usg=AOvVaw1nJFKlYrLnswzRsKcaD3DZ

And also anecdotal, with the exception of one, all the trans individuals i met at my uni pride society had faced verbal or physical abuse from their parents when coming out, and many were kicked out of home.

TheShoesa · 26/03/2020 06:33

I may be being dense here, but if a child is in danger at home, surely that is the case regardless of whether they believe they are trans or not?

jadefinch · 26/03/2020 06:32

Homophobia exists in some parents (Susie Green says in a Ted Talk that the original driver of her child's transition was the father's homophobia).

But I've not seen any examples of transphobia among parents being a thing. The biggest risk to the child is the parent affirming the delusion.

Imagine if there was a charity that encouraged anorexic children to believe they really were fat and did this. The parent's role is to safeguard the child and protect them from predators.

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CodenameVillanelle · 26/03/2020 06:31

This is what domestic abuse services do To ensure that women can be safe at home. This positions parents as abusers.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 26/03/2020 06:27

Evidence, please, for that statement that many trans children are in huge danger from their own parents.

SomeoneElseEntirelyNow · 26/03/2020 06:23

Unfortunately I think rather than being a sageguarding breach this is a safeguarding measure. Your post completely overlooks the huge degree of danger many trans children would face if outed at home.

AnyOldSpartabix · 26/03/2020 06:11

They have instead asked people to buy more food on Amazon and set Mermaids up as the charity to donate a percentage of the money spent to - ignoring all charities concerned with NHS staff or the elderly that desperate need cash injections at the moment.

Narcs gonna narc.