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Effects of corona virus on women

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ByGrabtharsHammerWhatASavings · 13/03/2020 09:28

Just thinking about the ways the virus and measures taken to combat it will effect women. The first thing that come to mind is that if children need time off school/ elderly people need caring for, it'll disproportionatly be women providing that care and probably taking time off work to do it. The second things is the way isolation and domestic abuse will correlate. Women in violent and abusive relationships will be trapped at home with their abuser in an increasingly tense claustrophobic environment. No chance of even escaping to a friends or him going for a walk to calm down. I can imagine that a lot of women will experience their first episode of violence if a long lockdown is initiated. It's also a controlling abusers dream situation. I have a friend whose husband is extremely controlling and does anything he can to limit and control her movements. He's basically got her imprisoned inside atm and won't let her go out til CV is over - for her own safety, of course Hmm. Shockingly there's no need for him to self isolate yet, but her and their kid absolutely must be in the house 24/7. It's like all his Christmases have come at once. It's the perfect excuse for abusers to isolate their partners from friends, family, maybe even a way to force them to give up work. And worst of all I don't even know if these effects can be mitigated.

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Thelnebriati · 13/03/2020 11:59

Women are forming online prepper and survival groups and swapping tips.
Our experience of prepping has been similar, the way we prep and the types of things we do follow a similar pattern.
Another similarity has been in the reaction of male family members to us prepping - they take the piss, accuse us of being irrational and hysterical, until something happens to change their minds. Then they become deadly serious prepping experts, and sometimes controlling.

ByGrabtharsHammerWhatASavings · 13/03/2020 11:44

Oh wow, that's shocking jcurve. "gender neutral" means "for the default male" 100%

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jcurve · 13/03/2020 11:22

Female nurses, to clarify.

jcurve · 13/03/2020 11:22

Looking at the nurses with pressure sores and bruises from their protective gear, it’s abundantly obvious they are most likely wearing “unisex” equipment- ie. based on the face of a 12/13 stone man.

FannyCann · 13/03/2020 11:01

Just plopping this thread in here

To get a drs note for stress due to covid-19 and childcare issues www.mumsnet.com/Talk/coronavirus/3846483-To-get-a-drs-note-for-stress-due-to-covid-19-and-childcare-issues

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 13/03/2020 10:37

Mental load. Planning how to occupy the children, how to feed the children. What to do if one child gets ill, especially single parents or those whose partner works away.

ByGrabtharsHammerWhatASavings · 13/03/2020 10:24

Yup, my pregnant friend has self isolated from all but essential meetings because if she gets it she won't be able to do work maternity handover or go easily to antenatal appointments.

Good point about condoms. Also sanpro. My period only just came back post partum last month and Im not really back in the swing of dealing with it yet (have barely had one in the last 4 years!) Ive been building an essentials stash in the garage since brexit and only realised yesterday that I'd totally forgotten to buy any sanpro! Have ordered some reusable pads on amazon, but it's definitely an extra thing for women to think about.

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vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 13/03/2020 10:14

I've not seen any mention of stockpiling of condoms.

There will be a lot of very bored people stuck in the house needing to fill time...

womanaf · 13/03/2020 10:11

I harboured a dream that cleaning, disinfecting, feeding a family would transform from undervalued women’s work to heroic saving the world work, but actually it’s still really undervalued and now much more difficult. (And that’s without the schools being off.)

definitelygc · 13/03/2020 09:59

One of my best friends is a week overdue now and the baby is breech. Fortunately it sounds as though there isn't evidence that the virus is more dangerous for pregnant women but I was thinking this morning about how a massively overwhelmed health service will affect expectant mothers, especially those that need C-sections.

ByGrabtharsHammerWhatASavings · 13/03/2020 09:51

God yes that's a great point, it'd be an excellent way of preventing an injured woman seeking medical help. I wonder if we will start seeing "stress due to self isolation" used as a defense by men who have killed their partners. It wouldn't be far away from the "he was lonely and isolated" defense that's been successful recently in sexual abuse cases.

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JessicaLangoustine · 13/03/2020 09:47

I agree. I think part of the collateral damage of Covid-19 will be an increase/escalation in domestic violence. Especially if sporting fixtures get banned. I also wonder if it will result in an upturn in murder/manslaughter investigations? In respect of abusive spouses not seeking medical help for the abused out of malice; and abused partners seeing a way out by doing the same.

ByGrabtharsHammerWhatASavings · 13/03/2020 09:39

Tbh even in happy households I suspect men and women will be effected differently. My family is currently self isolating for the week due to coughs - for dp that means working from home upstairs in his nice comfy office, for me that means looking after 2 extremely energetic toddlers who will be climbing the walls after day 1! A week indoors sounds like actual hell.

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