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Girlguiding UK's cognitive dissonance on IWD

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JessicaLangoustine · 06/03/2020 18:23

GGUK's theme for IWD2020 is "Help Girls Bust Gender Stereotypes". Blog attached below.

Extract:

The idea that girls should be emotional and caring, with a love of all things sparkly, while boys are more active and practical, creates cartoon-like versions of what it means to be a girl or a boy.

This sounds pretty harmless, but for a girl who wants to play football, or a boy who hates team sports, it makes them feel they can’t express who they really are. Gender stereotypes try to put limits on what you can do and who you can be.

Are they fucking kidding? They have told us that girls who display "masculine" interests need to be managed out of Guiding. They have told us that we have to accept boys who think they are girls (presumably because they like pink and sparkly things), let these boys share tents, showers and toilets with girls and not tell parents that this is happening. They have told us to accept these "cartoon girls" or be thrown out of Guiding.

The cognitive dissonance blows my mind.

GGUK IWD2020

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DariaWalker · 06/03/2020 19:02

If I remember correctly, a year or so ago, weren't two women who were Guide group leaders removed from their positions for objecting to boys being able to join if they said they were girls? Isn't there a legal case in progress about this?

JessicaLangoustine · 06/03/2020 19:00

Girls who say they are boys are not supposed to be in guiding, which continues to call itself a single sex institution. What do girls who think they are boys base this belief on? Gender stereotyping. What do we do with a girl guide who thinks she is a boy? We have to invite "him" to leave.

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ahumanfemale · 06/03/2020 18:52

I though UKGG didn't have a place for girls who were masculine - masculine as defined by stereotypes. And that there is a place for boys who are feminine, as defined by stereotypes.

What they're saying now is good, but how on earth does it tie in with what they've been proudly saying the past few years?!

reginafelangee · 06/03/2020 18:44

Girl Guiding's campaign is brilliant.

OP's final paragraph about it and a wonderful organisation is just bile.

Avocadohips · 06/03/2020 18:41

I agree with Jeaux

OP I don't understand this bit

They have told us that girls who display "masculine" interests need to be managed out of Guiding.

Can you explain it to me please?

jeaux90 · 06/03/2020 18:34

We should be all over them saying bravo for finally saying something sensible.