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Drag Queen fuming after being told to leave the ladies loo.

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McPeaked · 06/03/2020 12:08

Drag Queen (Flowjob again!) is fuming on twitter after being removed from the ladies toilets at Glasgow’s Grovenor Casino.

I’m so sick of this.

Drag Queen fuming after being told to leave the ladies loo.
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BovaryX · 06/03/2020 14:08

^"I would like to pee in a bathroom where I feel safe".
Well, that's rather the point^

The lack of self awareness is beyond parody....

bellinisurge · 06/03/2020 14:05

"I would like to pee in a bathroom where I feel safe".
Well, that's rather the point.

PineappleDanish · 06/03/2020 14:04

This is the man who Mhairi Black took into a primary school to read stories to the kids.

Totally inappropriate. The whole point of a drag queen is that it's a man dressed up. Man. Male toilets.

What an attention seeking arse.

Barracker · 06/03/2020 14:03

Here we go:
Willoughby is 'cis' and 'hetero'

And in October Willoughby announced that Willoughby wasn't trans any more because it was 'so embarrassing'.
Anyway, sorry for the slight derail, but Willoughby has expressed strong opinions on drag queens being male people who are a terrible caricature of women, and not like women at all, unlike 'transwomen' who are ...you know, I'm not going to finish that sentence, I think.

Drag Queen fuming after being told to leave the ladies loo.
Drag Queen fuming after being told to leave the ladies loo.
Drag Queen fuming after being told to leave the ladies loo.
Lordfrontpaw · 06/03/2020 14:02

'Stop being so dramatic' - you may as well ask the ocean to stop being wet. People like that thrive of drama and need an audience.

RasberryRoyale · 06/03/2020 14:01

I’m sick of this too.

He’s a flipping drag Queen. He’s got a penis I’m pretty sure. Therefore he he can identify as a sodding unicorn for all I care, doesn’t change his sex.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 06/03/2020 14:01

No matter what he identifies as, if he has a willie he uses the gents. End of.

Barracker · 06/03/2020 13:53

Lordfrontpaw there was a thread last summer, if you Google I expect you'll find it - certainly I remember Willoughby declaring on GMTV in the autumn that Willoughby no longer identifies as trans.

kateandme · 06/03/2020 13:52

at least the bouncer can always argue he was identifying as he walked in to check as a woman today if anyonegives him/her trouble over it.

BananaChocolateLump · 06/03/2020 13:50

Then he should have gone in the mens.

Stop being so dramatic

chockaholic72 · 06/03/2020 13:47

Has anyone else wondered if Flow Job was caught peeing standing up or sitting down or just me?

Mummyoflittledragon · 06/03/2020 13:47

If it happened, well, good!!

McPeaked · 06/03/2020 13:46

Yes, Datun, I did mean I’m sick of it.

It was all the comments from FJ’s mates saying “that’s illegal.” Meaning it’s illegal to ask a male to leave a women’s toilet just because the male SAYS they are female.

I’m going to look for a thread about the Equality Act, because I know they’re wrong, but I don’t know enough about the law to say where it says it.

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PurpleCrowbarWhereIsLangCleg · 06/03/2020 13:44

I'm 6', & I'd struggle to 'peer over' a cubicle. They're designed to be tall enough that generally people can't. Even if the bouncer was a good few inches taller than me (& yes, I know they do tend to be big lads), he'd have to be on tiptoe at least to see over the top, in almost any public toilet.

I suspect here 'knocked on the door & said "oi oi are you all right in there? Can you come out please, we've had a complaint"' is identifying as cubicle peering.

Well, actually, I suspect this entire incident is Identifying As A Thing That Happened, but whatever.

Well done that bouncer, if it did. Doing his job.

Lordfrontpaw · 06/03/2020 13:44

Surely it's illegal for a man to be in the ladies loo (without floor to ceiling walls/door).

AnyOldSpartabix · 06/03/2020 13:43

This is another of those upside down moments when something is so ludicrous that I find myself in a serious state of wtf.

A drag queen called FlowJob (ugh!) has the ear of a previously respected female politician, and is complaining about being removed from the women’s toilets, and some women would support that complaint?

FlowJob??? Doesn’t come much grimmer or more masculine than that.

Lordfrontpaw · 06/03/2020 13:43

Some people love drama. I worked with a woman who - every sodding day - there was a drama or meltdown. Absolute drama queen.

She once didn't come into work for two days until our boss called her - she was apparently sooooooo illlllllll with a headache that she couldn't even crawl to the phone. I didn't play along so she used to be a complete bitch to me when no one was listening (she pretended to be loved by all).

Devlesko · 06/03/2020 13:41

Sounds like the bouncer was more out of order, the DQ was clearly in a cubicle with the door shut.
It's illegal for the bouncer to do this, he should have waited until the man came out.

pachyderm · 06/03/2020 13:39

I refuse to even use the word transwoman now because it's so weaselly and inaccurate and dishonest. They aren't women. Can someone please make this fucking stop!Angry

ThinEndoftheWedge · 06/03/2020 13:37

A lot seems to happen to this particular person.

Absolutely - he sits on a bus near a little girl and feels the need to punch said girl AND observes a woman exercising her democratic right to vote and wants to punch said woman.

Whereas the rest of us cope with such extraordinary stressors norms of life in a more accommodating and accepting manner.

Why wouldn’t women feel safe in the female toilets with such a man who has to deal with so much self imposed shit?

nauticant · 06/03/2020 13:37

Isn't a drag queen necessarily a man?

How tf can you have a drag queen identifying as a woman?

Unfortunately you are behind the times. The BBC arranged for a woman to visit the OED to lobby to change the definition of drag queen to be more inclusive to also include women. The OED said that the evidence provided for the change was inadequate but went along with the change anyway.

Here's the programme:
www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000c4v8

Thymelord · 06/03/2020 13:36

How has the "peering over a cubicle" part of this story become a thing? Isn't it highly likely that a woman or women in the toilets pointed to said cubicle and said "He is in there" - to which the bouncer peered over?

YgritteSnow · 06/03/2020 13:35

Well done that bouncer! In my experience most of them prefer to be called Door Men though.

Datun · 06/03/2020 13:29

I'm wondering why they are 'so sick of this'.

Oh sorry Op, it's you who are sick of this, not flowjob.

A lot seems to happen to this particular person. Weren't they on the top of a bus that was empty, when an annoying child sat right next to them (who they then wanted to punch for some reason?).

EthelMayFergus · 06/03/2020 13:28

What's the problem with a male bouncer seeing another guy pee? Urinals are designed for this, men are used to seeing and being seen peeing (that's a lot of double e's).