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What do you think about the rainbow flag?

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DJLippy · 28/02/2020 12:13

Does anyone else get a shudder when they see a rainbow flag outside a venue? Harry the Owl compared it to a Nazi flag and I'm inclined to agree.

I'm Bisexual so I should be thrilled to find all these inclusive spaces but I just feel a stab of anxiety and make a mental note to steer well clear. It's a real physiological reaction not something I can control.

A few years ago I used to love seeing the pride flag outside bars. I guess back then it actually meant something. Now I feel like it's actually a sign of exclusion - that anyone who doesn't believe that twaw is not safe there.

Also it does kind of imply that all the other venues are a threat to the LGBTQI++ people. I actually get a lot less grief being with a woman in a normie bar than I would in a gay bar. What's more its often just random cafes and shops which as far as I am aware have no gay history. Just feels like a cheap virtue signal by straight woke folk.

I'd be interested in hearing from people who are same sex attracted. Do you feel that the flag which used to represent your community been appropriated by male supremacists? Do you self exclude from spaces which fly the rainbow flag?

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DariaWalker · 08/03/2020 01:05

How exactly do trans women existing "erase women?"

Here is the logic of your argument:

Woman = adult human female is "transphobic" because it doesn't include "transwomen".

Therefore "transwomen" are not female [so they must be male].

Including "transwomen" [who are males] as women [who are females] does not erase the sex class that is female.

Seriously? That is your convoluted argument?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2020 00:59

Happy International Women's Day, everyone!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2020 00:57

No one cares, Wotcha. We disagree. So what. Women here and elsewhere will still stand up for the rights of all female people, whatever you personally think about it. That's feminism.

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 08/03/2020 00:56

in so doing erase women

So, seeing as people have already used the "give over" line, I might as well here too.
How exactly do trans women existing "erase women?"
Who's typing this?
I haven't automatically gone pouff out of existence by acknowledging trans women. I'm still here.

DariaWalker · 08/03/2020 00:54

A definition of one thing excludes that which is not that thing

A definition necessarily draws a boundary, violation of which erases that definition.

So it seems that some do want to change the dictionary and legal definition of woman and in so doing erase women.

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 08/03/2020 00:53

I get it.
You think
Pens aren't paper
Chairs aren't tables
Trans women aren't women.

We're just going to have to disagree as not all women want to exclude trans women.

theflushedzebra · 08/03/2020 00:51

Grin yOu'Re ComPaRinG WomEn To pEn AnD PaPEr.

Do give over.

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 08/03/2020 00:48

A definition of one thing excludes that which is not that thing

So now we're comparing trans women to pens or paper.
Well, that's a new one at least.

NotBadConsidering · 08/03/2020 00:46

definition that actively excludes trans women.

A definition of pen excludes paper.
A definition of chair excludes table.
A definition of one thing excludes that which is not that thing.

It’s quite simple really.

theflushedzebra · 08/03/2020 00:44

There are more of us than you think - and the simple fact that that it comes from the Guardian should tell you enough! Even the leftie newspapers are reporting this now.

PULLLLLLLL By god, it's moving!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2020 00:44

Biologically male trans people are not included in the definition of woman for a simple reason. Hope that helps.

DariaWalker · 08/03/2020 00:43

I just don't feign innocence and pretend I can't see what's wrong with a definition that actively excludes trans women.

So, you want to change the legal definition of woman?

You want to change: woman - a female of any age?

You want to change the dictionary definition of woman?

You want to change: woman - an adult human female?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2020 00:42

Amusingly cross posted

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2020 00:42

More of a people taking issue with other people wanting to fly a flag that comes across as a transphobic dog whistle

LOL. Someone got out their Big Book of TRA Thought Terminating Cliches!.

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 08/03/2020 00:40

Neither do you

I don't claim to.
I just don't feign innocence and pretend I can't see what's wrong with a definition that actively excludes trans women.

And there are more of us that you think

Somebody's eaten a Guardian.

DariaWalker · 08/03/2020 00:40

don't speak for all of us.

You are a minority voice here among a majority which disagrees with you.

Might that not be representative of your position here extrapolated to the wider arena?

OccasionalKite · 08/03/2020 00:39

Anyway, goodnight!

Funny to see the desperate defence, so desperate! of the bleeding rainbow flag!

OccasionalKite · 08/03/2020 00:37

"than" you think!

OccasionalKite · 08/03/2020 00:36

Neither do you.

And there are more of us that you think.

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 08/03/2020 00:33

This is for women - even the women that don't agree

As I said upthread - don't speak for all of us.

DariaWalker · 08/03/2020 00:28

More of a people taking issue with other people wanting to fly a flag that comes across as a transphobic dog whistle

What exactly is a "transphobic dog whistle"?

The flag depicted the dictionary and the legal definition of woman.

How is that definition "transphobic"? You haven't yet explained this. You have said something about "intent". I asked you above why you believe the intent is different from women making their own choice about how they are represented.

You have answered neither of those queries. Perhaps you could oblige us before we proceed any further with this discussion?

theflushedzebra · 08/03/2020 00:26

No Wotcha, see it for what it is, a MAN telling women what flag is acceptable to fly.

And that is not acceptable. Women are human beings too, who can choose their own fucking flag. Dr Harrop and all his bearded friends can butt out. This is for women - even the women that don't agree - in the great word of Dworkin.

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 08/03/2020 00:22

why do men have a SINGLE SAY in what flag women choose to fly on IWD?
Men determining what flags women fly for their day

I don't see it as men telling women what they should be doing or flying in this case.
More of a people taking issue with other people wanting to fly a flag that comes across as a transphobic dog whistle. (Before somebody asks me to clarify, I already did upthread, with intent blah blah and you're not a woman, look our definition says so)
Nothing to do with male against female in this case to me.

theflushedzebra · 08/03/2020 00:16

Men like Dr Adrian Harrop, that is?

Can you not see this for the age-old misogyny it is? Men determining what flags women fly for their day?

theflushedzebra · 08/03/2020 00:14

Wotcha, answer me this, why do men have a SINGLE SAY in what flag women choose to fly on IWD?