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People who menstruate

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lafemme · 28/02/2020 10:22

NC as this concerns my place of work - (a school)

Brook will be delivering a talk to staff. The synopsis of content is 'people who menstruate - supporting them in period poverty'. Throughout the whole summary of the talk this term is used. This is Brook's wording.

I'm really surprised at an organisation such as Brook using this term - Why not use the term young women/ girls in period poverty?

Is this just semantics? I can't help feeling that the term 'people who produce sperm' would just never be used 

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Lordfrontpaw · 28/02/2020 19:40

I hadn’t noticed because there are few words in the app. It’s a bit like a kids ‘snap’ game.

DuLANGMondeFOREVER · 28/02/2020 19:18

Clue have erased the word ‘woman’ from their period tracking app as well as dicked about with some of the icons to make them more inclusive (ie less relevant).

Lordfrontpaw · 28/02/2020 18:44

Sorry but what this about the Clue app?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/02/2020 18:39

... just deleted it. The app's called 'Clue', and they can fuck off.

There are others which respect women more.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/02/2020 18:38

A female can legally transition to become a man and still menstruate 🤷‍♀️

It's a legal fiction. They aren't, and never will be or can be, an actual man.

FannyCann · 28/02/2020 18:34

@SapphosRock

A female can legally transition to become a man and still menstruate 🤷‍♀️

They might not want to but many still do.

And these people are being acknowledged.

It's really not hurting anyone.**

It hurts me to be defined by menstruation (which I no longer do) when I consider myself to be a woman. It hurts me that the word I have always used now includes men and therefore has lost its meaning.

As someone who works in the NHS most hospitals have a name for the specific services they offer to the 51% of the population who have female anatomy.
These services are usually something like "women's and children's directorate" (my own hospital) or maybe where there is a specific specialist hospital like Liverpool Women's Hospital.

Everyone knows what sort of services are offered at a women's hospital and which half of the population are served by them.

Should they be renamed?

Liverpool Hospital for People with diseases related to the anatomy that may menstruate (unless you are too old/too young or not quite right in that department which maybe why you need to come here). Also covering other diseases exclusive to people who menstruate (or did or will or have a medical reason why they don't) but possibly related to other parts of their anatomy.

Of course there is a word for those people. A simple single word and everyone or nearly everyone knows what it means.

Even trans men, who may prefer not to acknowledge that they are a woman, still need female specific health care.

And of course trans women do not have anatomy that is likely to require treatment at a Women's Hospital.

How about we stick with simple words and biological reality. Then everyone will know which hospital to go to if they live in Liverpool or hospital department in other areas and can access the healthcare appropriate to their anatomy.

Lordfrontpaw · 28/02/2020 17:55

The bleeding would imply something else and be rather concerning.

Catting · 28/02/2020 17:30

Surely if transwomen can call any symptoms a 'period', then a transman who is bleeding can just re-brand it as something else?
MANstruation? Warrior-week?

ReinstateLangCleg · 28/02/2020 16:23

Also do all girls even understand the word menstruate. I'd say they might not. On a thread about cervix havers someone said if women are too stupid or Ill educated to understand they have a cervix that's a problem that needs sorting rather than using language that the majority will actually understand. I mean, this was about cervical cancer fgs

It's completely elitist! And it goes against all the normal principles of good communication about bodies and health issues. This sort of information needs to be said in plain English. Menstruator is a weird word and I personally find it offensive.

Also, how the hell is a woman supposed to know if she has a cervix? It's an internal organ. Most people don't even use the "correct" terminology for the external genitalia of women (i.e. use vagina instead of vulva, etc)! Should we expect women to have a biology textbook and a speculum at home to check?

I think I will start referring to males as epididymis-owners. I'd bet many boys, men, and transwomen would find it somewhat offensive and might even be "too stupid" to know that this refers specifically to their sexed anatomy.

If you don't want to or can't explain something complex to do with female health, to girls and women (whether they identify as such is irrelevant - that is what they ARE biologically), using simple words that the majority will understand, that is a problem with you, not the audience.

Jaxhog · 28/02/2020 16:13

Of course, the term 'people who menstruate' actually excludes transwomen! Can we now expect some complaining about that exclusion?

BovaryX · 28/02/2020 16:10

It is deeply disingenuous to deploy the 'not all women menstruate' argument. Obviously that is true. It would be idiotic to assert otherwise. However, it does not alter the fact that every single person who menstruates is female. Logical fallacies will not change that immutable, biological imperative.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 28/02/2020 16:04

@SapphosRock - there is a third option - they refer to women and trans women - this including trans women without reducing biological women to a single bodily function - something I find deeply offensive.

Lordfrontpaw · 28/02/2020 16:02

The talk is about persons who are having periods. They will be the women then. Of course not all women have periods but then this sessions isn’t about them.

It almost makes you nostalgic for the free bleeders who knew what periods were (and who had them).

FrogsFrogs · 28/02/2020 15:58

'Not all women menstruate, and not all people who menstruate are women '

So the talk is not for girls who have not yet started their periods...

Surely all the girls need the info not just the ones who have started.

People who menstruate, it's not a continuous process. You don't know when your periods will start, and you can't guarantee the next one will come, or when.

This language does not work given the actual nature of actual periods.

Also do all girls even understand the word menstruate. I'd say they might not. On a thread about cervix havers someone said if women are too stupid or Ill educated to understand they have a cervix that's a problem that needs sorting rather than using language that the majority will actually understand. I mean, this was about cervical cancer fgs

Lordfrontpaw · 28/02/2020 15:52

They've just got to start saying 'biological women'. So its a bit like 'natural blonde'.

You either is or you ain't. There really can be no argument.

UpfieldHatesWomen · 28/02/2020 15:51

IAmFleshIAmBone thanks so much for the recommendation, I was going to ask for one in-between effing and blinding! Blush

DuLANGMondeFOREVER · 28/02/2020 15:48

I might switch to that one, thanks! I’ve been using Clue for ages and it’s been especially useful now I’m in irregular, peri menopausal la la land.
Not enthused about coping data over manually though, will have to see if there is an easier way to do it!

IAmFleshIAmBone · 28/02/2020 15:45

@UpfieldHatesWomen if you are looking for another app, I use Flo, and I've just checked to see if it calls us women and it does. I've used it for a year to track my periods and it has been really accurate for me.

ReinstateLangCleg · 28/02/2020 15:20

Once again, it is noticeable that the a core part of the trans agenda is a concerted assault on language which describes external reality. The proponents of this agenda believe if they can control language, they can bend reality to match their whim. The only people who menstruate are female.

Absolutely. What is happening to language around women is deeply sinister.

DuLANGMondeFOREVER · 28/02/2020 15:05

LaFemme, feel free to link Brook to this thread, or share it with the staff member who has arranged the talk.

BovaryX · 28/02/2020 15:02

This is so regressive. Like the whole 'gender identity' thing really -- trying to enforce conformity to the dreary old sex stereotypes we threw out decades ago.

Absolutely agree. It is a profoundly regressive agenda promoted by alleged progressives whose authoritarian impulses become more explicit every day.

Languishingfemale · 28/02/2020 14:59

Excellent posts. Ironical for an ideology where everyone is desperate to have their own identity validated by the whole world, yet so easily dehumanises and disrespects the whole class of women.

The Brook should be thoroughly ashamed.

Thinkingabout1t · 28/02/2020 14:59

they changed the 'protected sex' icon from a motorcycle helmet to a pair of wellies as I believe they had received complaints that the icon was too masculine on an app specifically for women

I don't know anyone who thinks only men need to wear protective head gear! This is so regressive. Like the whole 'gender identity' thing really -- trying to enforce conformity to the dreary old sex stereotypes we threw out decades ago.

Deliriumoftheendless · 28/02/2020 14:50

If this is a school wouldn’t “the girls and transboys In your school” be appropriate? Or are transboys merely classed as period havers/uterus owners with no identity beyond their bio functions?

Thinkingabout1t · 28/02/2020 14:44

SarahTancredi: When did lying about reality ever do anything but cause harm?

True, and the whole nonsensical structure would crumble if everyone faced up to that.

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