I signed up today for a bit of advice after reading this site since pregnant with my first child a few years ago.
As is my normal writing style, I used non gendered pronouns to refer to my other half and me.
I was expecting some robust responses but I was a little surprised that instead of commenting on the issue I raised, I got a load of grief about not immediately identifying myself as a woman and my husband as a man even though, having read the OP back, I think it's pretty clear.
What's the dealio? I understood that MN was supposed to be supportive, not discouraging and obnoxious towards women!