Definitely agree, the girl cops it.
Bring on the appeal. Kate
Digging here when you need it, this is a serious investment in a sane future for females.
Time too that we started a major public information campaign on what 'kind' means: because it doesn't mean 'doormat' or 'enabler' or 'taking abuse without protest' or 'codependent' or 'support human'. Women have been explaining about this shit for decades, we clearly haven't yet done it loud enough. Kindness is in the gift of the giver, a generosity of spirit. It isn't about shouting "thank you sir, please may I have another!"