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Teen with Aspergers convicted of transgender hate crime, he asked is that a boy or a girl.

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HairyPotter · 29/01/2020 20:03

www.birminghammail.co.uk/news/uk-news/duty-transgender-police-officer-left-17652064

While I completely understand it must be awful to be misgendered, it can’t come as a complete surprise that some transpeople don’t ‘pass’. If you can’t cope with people asking a perfectly reasonable (in their eyes) question, then maybe a job as a PCSO isn’t for you. I’m certain that the vast majority of officers have been called far worse with feeling the need to prosecute them. Maybe a different job or a thicker skin is required.

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wotsittoyou · 30/01/2020 01:38

Is there an avenue by which a member of the public can appeal too harsh a sentence in the same way they can an unduly lenient one?

wotsittoyou · 30/01/2020 01:30

I think this is absolutely fucking disgusting behaviour from the PCSO and head-to-table stupidity from the criminal justice system. I wonder how the autistic young person who's been criminalised and punished for 'talking while autistic' feels about leaving the house/existing now? What a load of absolute shit. The lot of them should be ashamed of themselves.

DuLANGMondeFOREVER · 30/01/2020 01:21

I don’t think someone that sensitive would cope well with match day, let alone a terror attack.

ArcheryAnnie · 30/01/2020 01:09

If you are trans and make a special trip to punch a 60 year old woman in the face, then you get a £150 fine.

If you are an autistic teenager and say words that upset a trans PCSO, then you get a £590 fine plus community service.

I have to say, if that PCSO has a breakdown over a teenager being rude, then how the hell are they going to cope with, say, a riot, or a terrorist incident, or indeed anything at all that isn't entirely focused on them and their feelings?

Umyeahnah · 30/01/2020 00:58

IMHO take the fact of Asperger's out of it. It's an appalling judgement regardless.

Otherwise you are implying the judgement would have been correct if the shouter-of-words was neurotypical.

DillBaby · 30/01/2020 00:35

Police officers take a lot of verbal abuse - comments about race, religion, gender, threats of violence, etc. If this PCSO can’t handle rude comments then perhaps policing is not the career for them, as this undoubtedly won’t be the last time someone says something offensive.

BlackeyedSusan · 30/01/2020 00:28

Absolutely.

BadgertheBodger · 30/01/2020 00:26

I was also wondering if the boy denied it because they weren’t the exact words he used. BIL has ASD and would absolutely deny any accusation if even the tiniest detail was incorrect. It wouldn’t matter to him what that detail was, it could be tiny and insignificant to the bigger picture, but his ASD would mean he was utterly incapable of admitting anything if it wasn’t a 100% perfect rendition of what had happened.

langclegflavoredbananamush · 30/01/2020 00:21

Yet another example of the Sacred Caste.

And they said it was worse because it happened where there were a lot of people about, making it more traumatic.
Do they have a fucking clue why some women avoid places when there aren’t a lot of people about. ffs.
So tired of the double standards. Well in this case, considering the teenager involved, triple standards. There just doesn’t seem to be enough room for more Sacred Castes.

BlackeyedSusan · 30/01/2020 00:20

Could be echolalia, which is why they have no memory of it.

BlackeyedSusan · 30/01/2020 00:19

Fucks sake. Disability or what?

pallisers · 30/01/2020 00:12

Imagine how empty the streets would be after 9pm if they imposed a curfew on young men who shout the far far far worse stuff at young girls and women every single day.

Yes imagine.

Maduixa · 30/01/2020 00:11

If the teenager literally yelled "is it boy or is it a girl?" (2x) as reported: that's a line - repeated a few times - from the Donovan song "Rules and Regulations (I had to look up the title) - circa 1968.

Seems possible (given the Aspergers) that he may have heard this somewhere and remembered it - parents or grandparents may be fans? - and didn't realise the repercussions of coming out with it in public at a very inappropriate time.

ErrolTheDragon · 30/01/2020 00:06

'Is it a boy or is it a girl?'

I'd have hoped that a PCSO would be neither, but an adult who behaved like one.

TheGreatWave · 30/01/2020 00:06

Yes I do have insight into the law, and that sex based verbal abuse towards women is not a hate crime.

So no it would not have ended up in court.

FainaSnowChild · 30/01/2020 00:03

snowblight I can only assume you have missed the part where the alleged perpetrator is autistic, a recognised condition the core feature of which is a difficulty with social understanding. I work with autistic people and making unguarded comments which could be interpreted as rude is part of the disability for some young autistic people. For example, telling someone they need to lose weight or their hair is a horrible texture or, indeed, seeking to clarify if the person they are looking at is male or female where that is ambiguous.

If there were a thread on here where an autistic person had been fined and given a curfew for asking someone if they were black or mixed race I would have a similar opinion. You cannot expect autistic teens to not make social errors. If they didn't, they wouldn't be autistic.

TheGreatWave · 30/01/2020 00:03

And homophobic charge.

www.thewestmorlandgazette.co.uk/news/18146529.gay-slur-directed-police-officer/

So yes it does appear that in this case the sentence is harsher.

BadgertheBodger · 30/01/2020 00:02

The law is ridiculous. The CPS is ridiculous. The PCSO is utterly ridiculous and needs to get a grip. The word of the day is, “ridiculous”.

donquixotedelamancha · 30/01/2020 00:00

Another thread where the only reason an incident is being picked apart and belittled is because the person involved was trans.

That certainly isn't true of my comments, or many others. Have you read nothing of the actual discussion? Does the text of the linked public order statute and the way it's being used here not concern you at all?

Limiting the ability of the police to act capriciously is far more important to defend the powerless than the powerful. Nothing about this judgment helps those with gender dysphoria.

snowblight · 30/01/2020 00:00

If the 'victim' was a woman, it would have gone no further, she probably wouldn't have even made a complaint.

I'm glad you have such remarkable, generalising insight.

TheGreatWave · 29/01/2020 23:58

If the 'victim' was a woman, it would have gone no further, she probably wouldn't have even made a complaint.

R0wantrees · 29/01/2020 23:57

The sex-based verbal abuse that women & girls receive is not reportable as a Hate Crime.

(aside from the pilot project in Notingham)

TheGreatWave · 29/01/2020 23:56

Much less for racial aggravation and drunk and disorderly.

www.southwalesargus.co.uk/news/18131584.drunk-pontypool-woman-racially-abused-police-officer/

That was a simple Google away.

snowblight · 29/01/2020 23:54

Snowblight what? A hate crime on a similar scale of a mildly upsetting comment? Do give your head a wobble and stop being so ridiculous. Goady AF.

Yes, I really believe you'd have a thread dismissing it if the victim was a woman rather than a trans man. Hmm

R0wantrees · 29/01/2020 23:54

snowblight there are many women, parents, carers, teachers & governors concerned with CPS decision making.

current threads:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3804613-New-Year-New-Judicial-Review-CPS-Hate-Crime-Guidance-for-schools

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3807965-Good-news-re-filming-partner-without-consent