And the flip side of that argument is that some are not capable of accepting reality and believe in magic.
Society must not overhaul its laws and social conventions (which are based on sound arguments and reality) to placate the few who are steeped in magical thinking, no matter how deeply held or genuine their belief.
There is nothing kind in encouraging an anorexic in their deeply held belief that they are overweight is valid and that they should be encouraged to keep dieting and starving themselves due to their inability to accept reality.
There is nothing kind in encouraging someone with body dysmorphia that their deeply held belief that aspects of their face or body are hideous and that they should be encouraged to keep having cosmetic and plastic surgery after surgery due to their inability to accept reality.
There is nothing kind in encouraging someone with schizophrenia that the voices they are hearing in their head are real or that they are actually the Messiah and that they should be encouraged to follow any paranoid thoughts or feelings due to their inability to accept reality.
There is nothing kind in telling someone that yes they can actually change sex with hormones and surgery or that their deeply held desire and beliefs about being the opposite sex means they have an unquestionable right to insert themselves into single sex spaces and claim various resources and services for themselves.
We can show compassion for people who are struggling with reality without encouraging such beliefs and going along with whatever is said. The way to deal with such delusions is to keep stating the truth and focusing on reality. When people are struggling with their perceptions, they need the help of those around them to be reminded to ground themselves in what is real and true.
If those on the gender identity bandwagon are willing to be honest with themselves and the general public that they are immersed in magical thinking and that they believe in gender souls that inhabit all of us, then gender identity ideology should be classed as a religious belief and treated accordingly by society.
You can have your belief in gender souls, but you don't get to impose your magical thinking in schools in attempts to indoctrinate and recruit young recruits. You don't get to impose your magical thinking on public bodies and institutions and demand that laws place your beliefs above everyone else's. And you don't get to scream at those who disagree with you or threaten and intimidate them or assault them, or try to get them fired from their jobs, call organisations hate groups etc.