That’s a very sad story and I hope this unfortunate man can heal his physical and mental trauma.
But what struck me about the article was that men, even-cross dressing men (or possibly particularly cross-dressing men), don’t see women as fully human.
The idea that “escaping” into “Rachel”, was a way of escaping pain; that frilly lingerie is somehow an antidote for grief, is the same tired, old trope about women having it easy while men go out and do hard, manly things.
And teenage girls are not attempting to retain autonomy and safety in the face of sexually predatory men and a society which both sexualises and disparages them, but suffering “body image issues“.
Being a woman is not a bubble bath and frilly knickers, any more than being a man is chest-beating and eating steak.