Urgh, some of the dribbling arseholes on that thread, including one delightful character making much of of their wife being only too happy to stay with their fragrantly feminine self. And one particular line of argument that says "If you want to end the marriage because you're unhappy with a fundamental change to your marriage, go ahead. But you can't stop it, nur, nur!"
These are the kinds of people you're hitching your wagon to, Jess Phillips. For shame.