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British woman found guilty of making up rape claims

308 replies

RoyalCorgi · 30/12/2019 10:12

The war on women continues:

www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2019/dec/30/briton-found-guilty-over-ayia-napa-false-claim-cyprus

The poor, poor woman. Facing a year in jail for being gang-raped.

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Fraggling · 02/01/2020 18:32

And going back with 1 man you're seeing, another 10 or so come in half way through and she says oh yes why not, I'm not surprised or in any way concerned, in fact this couldn't have gone better if I'd planned it!

We are advised this is likely, more likely than they were not interested in whether she was keen or not, having decided between them this was the plan.

Fraggling · 02/01/2020 18:30

Yeah the logistics involved would be a nightmare.

All back to hers? Could be miles away.

Also going against porn tropes again, most men who didn't know each other would be not keen on going off with a load of strangers and 1 girl to (wherever) and then having sex in front of all of them... A lot of men are pretty shy about this stuff despite what we're told, and would not be interested.

House parties when at school maybe? That would be a possibility. Or teams of sportsmen, who do seem to be into this, it's a team bonding thing I suppose. Consent often optional, reading the news.

Agree not sure what this adds to the conversation.

AriadneAufNaxos · 02/01/2020 18:07

I'm really struggling to see what point you are making ferrier. I really don't see it adds anything to this particular case.

bd67th · 02/01/2020 18:04

She regularly finds 12 men on a night out to shag in one go does she? She must spend her nights out like someone herding sheep.

Grin Where does she find these 12 men? Back when I was younger, thinner, and more naive about how much some men hate women, I struggled to find two guys for planned threesomes[1]. I can't imagine anyone finding 12 willing men outwith a sex club, unless of course the men were premeditating a gang rape.

[1] And never more than two. I wanted some chance to fight them off if they turned nasty.

ferrier · 02/01/2020 17:49

And to further reiterate, I believe the girl too.

ferrier · 02/01/2020 17:47

Sometimes a sex club. Sometimes not.
Once again, I remind you that I am not saying this is what happened to this young woman. I am simply saying that to state, as several pp have done, that no woman would agree to sex with 12 men is incorrect.

The fact your friend might consent to this has no bearing on the level of proof needed to prove the case beyond all reasonable doubt in a particular case

Exactly. To be proven beyond reasonable doubt is the key. Not a 'belief' that it could never happen (giving consent in this case). But proven beyond reasonable doubt.

AriadneAufNaxos · 02/01/2020 17:19

pallisers your post at 14.59 is excellent by the way.

pallisers · 02/01/2020 16:07

The world seems to be going backwards with regards to rape cases.

I was thinking this recently. There have always been gangs of men who rape women but in the past they didn't pretend it was anything but rape. the 21st century has given us the same old gang rapes but now they pretend it is consensual. Can't think that is an improvement.

hiphiphoorayback · 02/01/2020 16:00

Glad I have never been to Cyprus and I never will go. Poor girl. I believe you and I hope you get the compensation you deserve for your treatment in Cyprus.

The world seems to be going backwards with regards to rape cases. Who would willingly report a rape atm. So sad.

pallisers · 02/01/2020 14:59

Yes it's possible for a woman to consent to sex with 12 men. I have a friend who does this kind of thing very happily. Couldn't tell you the exact number but I can't imagine 12 would bother her. Just because you personally find something unbelievable, doesn't mean to say it's not true

She regularly finds 12 men on a night out to shag in one go does she? She must spend her nights out like someone herding sheep. Does she make them hold hands while she makes up the dozen so she doesn't lose one? After it happens does she go to a doctor for her injuries?

Didn't think so. You either have a friend who regularly goes to a sex club for sex with many men in a controlled safe consensual environment or you have a friend who is partial to the odd threesome or foursome. Absolutely no relevance to the idea that a woman goes into a hotel bedroom with one man and is perfectly happy to have sex with 11 of his friends who later join them. You might as well say Lots of women want to have sex with Israeli men so it is possible that this woman consented to sex with 12 israeli men.

Fraggling · 02/01/2020 13:20

Yappityyappityyap

Your account is a bit off the mark.
The doctor who treated her injuries made the report.
The 'retraction', was blatantly not written by her. It's not in language that a native English speaker would use. It's clear someone else wrote it. She says she was coerced into signing it.

HarrietThePi · 02/01/2020 13:09

I have been raped before. Didn't report. But one of the scariests moment of my life was during a consensual one night stand and the next morning his friends, about 8 of them back from a stag do, burst into the room we were in and stared at me on the bed naked under the sheets. I shook with fear, the man I was with noticed and told them to leave and they did. So nothing happened. But I have often thought back to that moment and just how defenceless and vulnerable I was.

That poor girl, I believe her without a trace of doubt.

I know that consensual acts like this do take place, but as a pp said: Not in the middle of sex with a holiday fling when his mates come barging in without warning.

YappityYapYap · 02/01/2020 12:43

If she consented to sex with 12 men, the last thing she would do is make a complaint to the police for it to be common knowledge! Surely she would want it kept quiet? Logically, she made that complaint because she didn't consent at all and through the process, she knew the police were not on her side and wanted to put an end to it and go home so withdrew it. Now it's all 'she made it all up'. She didn't. She did what that poor girl from America did (unbelievable on Netflix) except this case is even worse as they've thrown her in jail!

AriadneAufNaxos · 02/01/2020 12:34

Yes it's possible for a woman to consent to sex with 12 men. I have a friend who does this kind of thing very happily

The fact your friend might do this has no bearing on the fact that it is entirely beyond credibility that I, for example, would do this. The court looks at the person in front of them- not your hypothetical friend.

bd67th · 02/01/2020 12:09

Yes it's possible for a woman to consent to sex with 12 men. I have a friend who does this kind of thing very happily.

I bet your friend does this in carefully-planned, safeguarded environments such as swingers' clubs. Not in the middle of sex with a holiday fling when his mates come barging in without warning.

wordsmithsforever · 02/01/2020 11:49

Won't be going to Cypress - ever. I believe her. Those disgusting men should be in prison not her. So angry about this case. As women, we should hit the Cypriot government (and other similar ones that openly trash women's rights) where it hurts - its tourism.

AriadneAufNaxos · 02/01/2020 11:22

For a criminal case there is a burden of proof beyond reasonable doubt, not believability - in the UK. Not sure what the onus is in Cyprus
Yes it's possible for a woman to consent to sex with 12 men. I have a friend who does this kind of thing very happily. Couldn't tell you the exact number but I can't imagine 12 would bother her. Just because you personally find something unbelievable, doesn't mean to say it's not true

The fact your friend might consent to this has no bearing on the level of proof needed to prove the case beyond all reasonable doubt in a particular case.

Tarahumara · 02/01/2020 11:09

This case is shocking - I've donated to the crowdfunder.

alreadytaken · 02/01/2020 09:09

I have ignored the rape apologists, donated to the fundraiser and cancelled plans to head to Cyprus for some winter sun. I shall be putting the #BoycottCyprus message out too.

Googled mumsnet cyprus rape and knew that would show me what I could do to protest about the treatment of this young woman.

Googling fundraiser cyprus rape will find it for those who choose to support financially.

ferrier · 02/01/2020 08:21

Not pertaining particularly to this case where I believe the men are guilty but. ...
For a criminal case there is a burden of proof beyond reasonable doubt, not believability - in the UK. Not sure what the onus is in Cyprus.
Yes it's possible for a woman to consent to sex with 12 men. I have a friend who does this kind of thing very happily. Couldn't tell you the exact number but I can't imagine 12 would bother her. Just because you personally find something unbelievable, doesn't mean to say it's not true.

theflushedzebra · 02/01/2020 03:57

Yes, dartboard - the evidence suggests it was a premeditated gang rape. They should have all got 5-10yrs behind bars - but instead they're quaffing champagne and calling her a whore.

dartboardio22 · 02/01/2020 00:40

They've kept this quiet.

The israeli men, were overheard saying they were all going to have an orgy with her :( a witness made a statement stating this...

They all wanted to have sex with her, they were heard confirming this.. the night she was raped

news.sky. com/story/israelis-planned-orgies-with-british-teen-accused-of-making-cyprus-false-rape-claim-11825401

ArranUpsideDown · 01/01/2020 21:26

Can anybody tell me why Jonathan King's opinions are being given any publicity at all?

Why isn't he being granted complete obscurity?

LucileDuplessis · 01/01/2020 21:11

I've just donated to the crowd funder.

Antibles · 01/01/2020 20:29

This makes me so sick and angry.

The Sarah Vine commentary was very good.