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Transgender man gives birth to non-binary partner's baby with female sperm donor

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TheNameGames · 29/12/2019 10:36

www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/transgender-man-gives-birth-non-21177808

Reuben adds: “I found it frustrating that people didn’t just ask my gender or not use it. I look like a man, have a beard.

Maybe the “giving birth” part rendered it pointless?

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ScrimshawTheSecond · 04/01/2020 21:03

Neo liberalism's logical end point, I suppose. All life commodified and tailored to your individual peccadilloes.

Justhadathought · 04/01/2020 20:51

There is a headline in the Guardian lifestyle today saying The Family in 2050: artificial wombs, robot carers and the rise of the single father by choice

In totally the opposite direction where we need to be going as a planet. We need to begetting closer to nature and respecting its rhythms, not further removed via technology. One of the big contradictions of woke'ism. Being ecologically minded/Green and fantasising about robot futures are in direct contradiction.

Thinkingabout1t · 04/01/2020 14:15

“ Yes well done you are both very special snowflakes 🙄🙄🙄🙄 I mean ffs - woman gives birth to a baby using sperm from a man, everything else is just word salad nonsense.”

Exactly, and I’m sad that the Mirror, a paper i like, has fallen for this nonsense.

Fairenuff · 03/01/2020 15:19

I think that some people use transgenderism as a lifestyle choice to put on and take off when it suits them.

JKScot4 · 31/12/2019 17:15

@SirVixofVixHall
The few I know have had surgery and tbf I think it’s inaccurate to claim to be a man when in fact ‘he’s’ completely biologically a woman, he has the appearance of a man that is all.

SirVixofVixHall · 31/12/2019 16:05

Almost all trans people don’t have surgery, this thing of transitioning having surgery as an end point is no longer true at all, the vast majority of male trans people keep their penises for instance.

pallisers · 31/12/2019 16:04

There is a headline in the Guardian lifestyle today saying The Family in 2050: artificial wombs, robot carers and the rise of the single father by choice

You couldn't make the erasure of women more clear.

JKScot4 · 31/12/2019 15:56

He’s clearly not transitioned if he’s had no surgery and gave birth🙄🙄 He's a woman who lives as a man and the sperm donor is a man who lives as a woman, no transition, no surgery ffs it’s madness.

merrymouse · 31/12/2019 15:50

The freedom to pretend that sexism disappears if you can pretend that sex doesn’t exist.

JellySlice · 31/12/2019 15:43

All you lot who are getting worked up about this, saying that Rube here can't be living as a man because of giving birth etc etc, you've just got to identify out of your confusion and it will all make sense to you.

Your problem is that you're old fuddy-duddies who insist that words have meaning, that they should have the same meanings for everyone. You just don't understand this modern world - this postmodern world - where words mean whatever a person wants them to mean, and persons can identify with, as, into or out of anything they want. Saying that a man can give birth is no different to calling egg-and-chips 'tea' in Yorkshire and 'supper' in London.

Welcome to FREEDOM!

Transgender man gives birth to non-binary partner's baby with female sperm donor
BickerinBrattle · 31/12/2019 14:53

The Mirror knows exactly what it’s doing here

YY, Freda. This is a fantastic article! It’s achieved more than all the WPUK meetings put together — thought that’s not to say those meetings aren’t important.

The tide has well and truly turned. The media’s got the long knives out now. This article makes the movement looks absurd and just flays the narcissism involved: going so far as to call this birth a miracle! A few days after Christmas! That really sticks the shiv in.

Bravo to the Mirror for such subtle slicing and dicing.

ChattyLion · 31/12/2019 14:46

Us blokes gotta stick together fella eh. Happy New year! Football

TheNameGames · 31/12/2019 14:18

SPOT on, not spit on, lol!

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TheNameGames · 31/12/2019 14:17

Spit on Fairenuff

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Aaarrgghhh · 31/12/2019 14:07

ChattyLion That was brilliant. Really made me laugh, love it.

Aaarrgghhh · 31/12/2019 14:04

JanesKettle

Oh goodness no, your comment was fine. I chuckled actually. I used it more as a bridge to my comment but I wasn’t offended at all. I’m made of tougher stuff than that lol

Fairenuff · 31/12/2019 12:35

The person who gave birth seems very confused.

They said that they identified with being male. From all accounts, this is a very difficult, emotionally painful and even life-threatening condition to have. There is so much angst about being stuck with a body which was 'assigned to you at birth' that the only relief and salvation is to live your life as your 'true' self and in the opposite gender.

This is why people say that they need self ID. To avoid prolonged medical and mental health assessments. They say that they know who they are and they totally live their lives as their preferred gender.

Yet how can this person claim to 'live as a man' whilst doing the one thing that only women can do?

If you want to live as a man, do it. But don't try to cherry pick the parts of being female that you want to keep. Men don't live like that. Men don't gestate and give birth.

That's not living like a man. It's the opposite in fact.

ChattyLion · 31/12/2019 09:39

Well by the definition quoted in that article, turns out I’ve been quite wrong after all these years then. Humans do change sex quite naturally and gradually, for example with puberty and with the menopause. My chin and upper lip is proof!

Little did I know but I’ve been transitioning my sex back and forth for years now. I was definitely a girl child but then since puberty I’ve always had a bit of a ‘tache, so as a man I had those miracle babies, that was probably a worlds first (but hey who’s counting there’ve been a lot of those firsts reported Hmm). Then post-kids and what with balancing childcare with the job and whatever, I think my moustache was just too tired to grow back. so I guess I was a proper woman then.

However now with the meno the tache and chin is stronger than ever before so I am fully male. I have to say I didn’t even notice how male I was getting till I got these new glasses!

I’ve press released all this fluctuating between the sexes to a few journalists with some quotes just in case they want to pop round for a quick ‘worlds first’ photoshoot. Not heard back yet but I’ve tidied up the living room just in case.

I haven’t yet told DH and the boys that every time they shave they become female, but I’ll run through that with them affirmingly and hopefully by the time the photographers arrive we can all be in the pics together as one big happy headline-grabbing family. Smile

I know not everyone would involve the media in these things but Christmas doesn’t pay for itself and that massive cheque from the extreme far right seems a bit slow in arriving..

CranberriesChoccy · 31/12/2019 07:23

Do they actually think anyone with a rudimentary understanding of biology will suddenly be convinced that a woman has donated sperm to help a man have a baby?

All it does is confirm that this movement is full of narcissistic fantasists. Poor child.

JanesKettle · 31/12/2019 01:05

I have a condition that makes me hairy, I’m still a woman and because I may have a moustache and somewhat of a beard does not mean I am not a female

I'm so sorry if my flippant comment upset you. I can understand how you feel, and you're right, it's not OK. Women with PCOS are women.

GirlDownUnder · 31/12/2019 00:31

Even Blair White calls this peak 2019 article.

Unrelated, but from that twitter feed - let’s hope 2020 brings back some sense Xmas Smile

Transgender man gives birth to non-binary partner's baby with female sperm donor
Icanflyhigh · 30/12/2019 23:48

And the world shows how well and truly it is fucked up Biscuit

SetYourselfOnFire · 30/12/2019 23:42

Oh, the partner is a woman too. It pains me that lesbians are doing this to themselves and being socially applauded for internalized homophobia.

Gingerkittykat · 30/12/2019 17:11

Even Blair White calls this peak 2019 article.

Gibbonsgibbonsgibbons · 30/12/2019 14:16

Aaarrgghhh Flowers it’s a good illustration how how regressive the gender crap is. everyone is getting pushed further into a box unless they declare themselves —super super special— non binary