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Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to the good women of FWR.

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jamrollyolly · 24/12/2019 15:30

That's it really! I just realised it's almost exactly a year since my teen told me he was trans. He seems to have changed his mind now, but who knows how things would have turned out without the advice and support I got here.

Came for help, stayed for the amazing knowledge and the laughs! Hope you all have some fun tomorrow, maybe I'll get to meet some of you in London on Feb 1st!

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ThePurported · 25/12/2019 12:58

Merry Christmas everyone!
Thank you MNHQ for giving women this space. How about a Christmas pardon for Maryz?

Antibles · 25/12/2019 12:48

Merry Christmas all. What fantastic work this board has done this year fighting for women's rights - and the truth! We shall prevail. Xmas Grin

barearsedangelonhigh · 25/12/2019 12:42

Sling it our way Empress!

Another bauble for the tree at Cuntingdon 🎄

EmpressLesbianInChair · 25/12/2019 12:05

Don't forget our organ bucket when you're gutting your turkeys today!

I know someone who’s just finished with her colostomy bag, Bare!

Would the Thisters like it?

cwg1 · 25/12/2019 10:43

Merry Christmas, everyone. x

Sidhefae · 25/12/2019 10:42

Another mostly-a-lurker wishing all the fabulous vipers and harpies of FWR a joyful Christmas. Thank you all for your wisdom and humour.

LangCleg · 25/12/2019 10:34

MNHQ - please, please let Maryz stay.

TheChampagneGalop · 25/12/2019 09:53

Good to see you Maryz Xmas Smile
May the FWR be with everyone in our real offline lives!!

Clymene · 25/12/2019 09:47

How lovely to see you @MaryzTempName and @MForstater

Love to all the wonderful women here. Thank you so much for all your clever and insightful thoughts as we navigate our way through this new world. I am so grateful to have you by my side on this journey.

Let's hope this is the start of a new decade where our sex-based rights once again are recognised Smile

barearsedangelonhigh · 25/12/2019 09:44

Merry Thristmas! Fanny Fighters!

Don't forget our organ bucket when you're gutting your turkeys today!

Big love and respect for keeping it real in a world gone more batshit crazy than even us! 🥂

Cookieflavoredbiscuit · 25/12/2019 09:43

Love right back at you Maya! Thank you so much for all the hard work you've taken on for all of us. We have to keep pulling!

justanothernomaj · 25/12/2019 09:42

Happy Christmas and Hanukkah one and all!
Mostly lurker, get so much strength and relief from everyone here. Here’s to strength for us all for the year ahead. 🥴🎄😘

MForstater · 25/12/2019 09:33

Merry Christmas to the feminist think tank , the feminist support group, the feminist archive that is FWR. This place is so important (as evidenced by how hard they try to shut it down and shut us up).

I am here in other names, but mainly just lurking at the moment (and reading all my threads!! Grin)

What a week and what a year it has been!

Love to all -- and thanks to MNHQ for not buckling

EmpressLesbianInChair · 25/12/2019 09:17

Merry Christmas wonderful women, & WELCOME BACK MARYZ!

Joisanofthedales · 25/12/2019 09:11

Merry Christmas to all SmileSmileSmile

NonnyMouse1337 · 25/12/2019 09:10

Merry Christmas to all the posters and lurkers of FWR.

I'm grateful for this online space full of articulate, intelligent and bolshy women. I've learned much over the past year on so many different issues.
Over the years I had become quite disillusioned with 'feminism' but now I realise it's because the mainstream version is the libfem type which is completely useless and doesn't seek any genuine change.

I'm glad FWR has women of all ages and backgrounds and political leanings. There are things we agree as well as disagree on and I like that we can have these differences of opinions, even strong ones, but still have a shared understanding and goal of protecting women and children.

I've seen libfem online spaces and groups. They do not come close to the level of intellectual debate here and they focus on everyone being nice and using the correct words and tiptoeing around issues or ignoring them completely. The women here are a great model for what feminist discussion should be like and continue to help me be less apologetic and more confident in my own opinions.

Let's hope 2020 is a better year for women's rights and the safeguarding of children.

Cuntysnark · 25/12/2019 09:10

Love ‘May the FWR be with you’, I saw the film on Sunday and saw parallels too.

MotherForkinShirtBalls · 25/12/2019 08:57

May the FWR be with you Grin Grin

Floisme · 25/12/2019 08:27

Merry Christmas vipers. Good to see you Maryz and hope you can stay. You had left by the time I started posting on here but I've heard your name often.

HandsOffMyRights · 25/12/2019 08:11

Loving the fact so many lurkers, name changers and legendary FWR posters have posted. Gives me heart and strength this Christmas.

Yesterday I took my children to watch Star Wars and there's a line about how the oppressors deliberately make you think there's just one of you fighting all this (or something similar) when actually there are many standing up and fighting back.

May the FWR be with you Xmas Grin

chilling19 · 25/12/2019 08:00

Xmas SmileXmas SmileXmas SmileXmas SmileXmas SmileXmas SmileXmas Smile

Dolorabelle · 25/12/2019 07:56

And welcome back MaryZ. You are an inspiration. I get caught up in academical feminist stuff but you’ve always cut through the waffle.

Dolorabelle · 25/12/2019 07:53

I’m an old second waver academic feminist - a veteran of the BBC women’s hour message board. When a friend there told me that Mumsnet was one of the most feminist places on the internetz I didn’t quite believe her.

But she is right. And I’m addicted.

Merry Christmas to all you harpies and vipers! Grin

Bowednotbroken · 25/12/2019 07:45

Another one who is more of a lurker than a poster here. A very merry Christmas to you all. The wit and wisdom on here is amazing. Thank you all. And cheers to Maryz - who definitely should be allowed back as an important voice.

VinandVigour · 25/12/2019 07:43

Merry Christmas everyone.🎄🍾🍷🎄 For my Christmas present I am going to set up Direct Debits to some of the amazing organisations that now exist to support the cause. I also have a new spade!

I really hope that 2020 is the year when millions of people find the scales fall from their eyes and find they have perfect vision!

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