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JK Rowling - Thread 2

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MoleSmokes · 21/12/2019 02:03

Thread 1 started by @MsMcWibble here:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3772685-JK-Rowling
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twitter.com/jk_rowling/status/1207646162813100033

Dress however you please.
Call yourself whatever you like.
Sleep with any consenting adult who’ll have you.
Live your best life in peace and security.
But force women out of their jobs for stating that sex is real?
#IStandWithMaya #ThisIsNotADrill
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To start off thread 2 - everyone saying the time was right for this to hit the news stands right after the Election was right!

Maya Forstater's Employment Tribunal case is, by virtue of JK Rowling's support, more popular in The Spectator than Boris Johnson by Boris Johnson, The Tories and The Labour Party!

MOST POPULAR in The Spectator

1. In just a few words, JK Rowling has changed the transgender debate (James Kirkup)

  1. Boris Johnson: Perhaps my campaign was ‘clunking’. But sometimes, clunking is what you need (Boris Johnson)
  2. We’ve just had the best decade in human history. Seriously (Matt Ridley)
  3. Keir Starmer looks and sounds middle class precisely because he’s working class (Isabel Hardman)
  4. Let’s make David Lammy Labour’s next leader (Rod Liddle)
  5. A new leader won’t stop the far left’s domination of Labour (Nick Cohen)

www.spectator.co.uk/

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HarrietThePi · 21/12/2019 17:05

I think this was mentioned on the first page, but regarding celebrities and public figures who have stayed silent so far, like Charlie Brooker, I feel like the time for them to say something is kind of overdue... I can see why they aren't and feel their silence on it speaks in its own way..but come on, now's the time surely.

Dangerfloof · 21/12/2019 16:58

Sorry the above is for
@Tocopherol
So not really stay married whatever it was hyperbole from me

EvenSupposing · 21/12/2019 16:57
Grin

How many fingers am I holding up?

Dangerfloof · 21/12/2019 16:56

The new law allows for trans people who are already married to gain gender recognition without having to get divorced, which is extremely welcome and long overdue. However, because there remains a distinction between “same-sex” and “opposite-sex” marriages, the spouse also must consent. The trans person cannot gain gender recognition until either the spouse consents – or they get divorced. That's what campaigners call the "spousal veto"

SlightlyWizened · 21/12/2019 16:50

Just popping on to say I joined twitter yesterday to like JK's tweet and follow a whole bunch of people like her and Ricky.

YourOpinionIsNoted · 21/12/2019 16:37

It's almost as if I can read your mind, even.

I am now identifying as psychic.

EvenSupposing · 21/12/2019 16:27

And do people online spend a lot of time telling adoptive parents 'you're not their real mum/dad'? Yup.

And have I ever had South Yorkshire police investigate that as a hate crime or told anyone to DIAF or threatened to 'kerb stomp' anyone? Well I think you can see how this rhetorical line of questioning is going Grin

Tocopherol · 21/12/2019 16:23

Rules about to change? How would that mean he has to stay married to you? Last time I got into a, ahem, discussion over this the other person was furious that a spouse can 'stop' a transition and use it as a reason to divorce. Or similar.

Sorry, I'm somewhat behind on this. I was pretty on board with the transgender stuff until I saw that clownfish nonsense doing the rounds and started seeing this crap about always centering transwomen in feminism Hmm

YourOpinionIsNoted · 21/12/2019 16:21

Great post, @even.

EvenSupposing · 21/12/2019 16:20

I saw someone likening transwomen to adoptive parents. You would never saw that a parent with an adopted child wasn't their parent. BUT correct me if I am wrong, but isn't adoption a difficult and testing process where there has to be some legal confirmation first after considerable assessment of a person's suitability before they are allowed to be an adopted parent. Which is regularly checked and supervised.
The analogy doesn't work.

Actually it's a brilliant analogy. I am my dd's mum. She knows that. But when I take her to the doctor and the doctor says 'any history of X in the family?' I don't say 'no doctor'. I say, 'actually she is adopted and we are not biologically related so I don't know'.

Is that bloody painful? Being reminded that i am not her birth mother? Yes it is.

Do I shout at the doctor for triggering me? No I don't.

I would give anything to be her birth mother but I am not and can't ever be. I can't change reality because reality upsets me.

It's a great analogy. It just proves the opposite of what they want it to.

theflushedzebra · 21/12/2019 16:19

Oh I agree - you can tell a lot about a person from their treatment of animals.

And children.

Let's take a moment to think about how the trans movement treats children.

fuckitywhy · 21/12/2019 16:08

Hah! Her response was very telling.

SayNotoArtificialLipids · 21/12/2019 16:05

Ricky Gervais....the gift that keeps on giving. I already think he is great due to being an animal lover.

theflushedzebra · 21/12/2019 16:00

I really love Ricky Gervais too - I mean, he just dgaf. No joke is off-limits to him, and so of course he was going to joke about Jenner, Yaniv etc.

But, he then comes out with a serious statement on twitter about how this is affecting women - and I am so pleased to see he really gets it. Not just some crap about "we eed a serious conversation" or "nastiness on both sides" - he totally sees what is being done to women.

JK Rowling - Thread 2
BarbaraStrozzi · 21/12/2019 15:57

Just bought one of the Rowling/Galbraith books for a friend's Christmas. Small gesture, but worth it I feel.

theflushedzebra · 21/12/2019 15:55

I don't think I've seen a more accurate (and less funny) meme as the woman gagged by a trans flag. It's totally how this feels.

BickerinBrattle · 21/12/2019 15:30

Biologists who assert sex is on a spectrum need to ask physicists the meaning of the word “spectrum.”

Waterandlemonjuice · 21/12/2019 15:16

Should we all write to JKR’s agent to show support? I’m so pleased she isn’t backing down. That Titania thread is funny!

Isbutteracarb · 21/12/2019 15:10

Apologies if this has already been shared but this was on BBCScot9 last night: twitter.com/fairplaywomen/status/1208315003432054785?s=21

Dangerfloof · 21/12/2019 15:08

@FlamingoAndJohnmaybe wait till you are having sex and announce half way through you now identify as a man? (Or any of 72+ genders you choose). See if he's as keen then
Also remind him that now you are a man, he is now gay. And as you (I assume) are married and the rules are probably about to change, he has to stay married to you.

YourOpinionIsNoted · 21/12/2019 15:05

Ah, found thread 2! (Been busying myself with Christmassy stuff this morning.)

So glad JK is standing firm.

What did Ricky Gervais tweet? I can't access the archived link near the start of the thread due to settings on my phone.

I'm feeling quite sad and very anxious today. Stuck my head above the parapet on FB yesterday and one of my close friends has today liked a TWAW post. I'm worried I will lose a valued friendship over this. The maddest thing is she's bisexual, you'd think she'd know the difference between male and female bodies pretty well. Also her wife and her had IVF to have their son - now why would they have had need donor sperm, surely one could just have identified as a man?

This shit is so depressing.

NightLion · 21/12/2019 14:51

The witch-hunting of JK Rowling is a disgrace. All she did was defend a woman’s right to express an opinion on transgenderism. It’s so clear now: the trans movement is a menace to reason, liberty and women’s rights. We must oppose it, says Brendan O’Neill

twitter.com/spikedonline/status/1208341395360096256?s=20

Apologies if this has already been posted

KnickersandGnomes · 21/12/2019 14:47

Just popping in to say that I 'liked' JK's tweet too and am horrified by the abuse that is being directed at her!

So much for all the talk of 'shy, delicate, sensitive' female penises blah blah when so many on Twitter have been telling her to suck/choke on their female penis. Such aggression rather proves why they should not be allowed into female only spaces tbh.

Sane transwomen who just want to quietly live and let live must be despairing at how the aggressive, loud minority are behaving just now.

Scarscar · 21/12/2019 14:36

It's exactly the Spanish Inquisition. Different time but same mindset. These types have always been around.

Breakfastat · 21/12/2019 14:30

Marking my place here. Twitter is a very dark place and the abuse is staggering. Please keep sharing the good, supportive, funny stuff.

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