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Did you grow up in 70s/80s?

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WomanBornNotWorn · 17/12/2019 10:44

I was born in 63 so have no memory of the Beatles / hippies etc. But at around ten years old I started to become aware of and adored glam rock, Marc Bolan, Freddie Mercury, the guys from Sweet - long hair, Spandex, tons of makeup, platform heels and all. That morphed into disco - flares, more makeup, more platforms - and punk - leather, short hair, even more makeup - and New Romantics - lace, frilly shirts, still more makeup ... it all went on like fireworks over only about ten years or so.

I feel sorry for kids & teens now, there just doesn't seem to be the flamboyance and fun and freedom to dress up, without a heavy drag and gender identity boxing-up and labelling.

Maybe I'm misreading and it was there all along. But it does seem that there is less freedom, more narrow definitions now.

Anyone here young enough or have kids and able to say if there's anything similar happening, now that isn't all about gender?

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Yorkshirelass444 · 17/12/2019 11:02

i was born in '71, Op, so the new romantics/culture club are what i remember.
i'm happy to see that Marilyn (remember him?) doesn't buy any of the current gender baloney.

Craftycorvid · 17/12/2019 11:00

Hi OP born in the late 1960s and recall things a bit differently from you. Lots of sexism and racism that passed without comment as ‘banter’; it being acceptable for a male boss to pat a female employee on the head and call her a ‘good girl’; being told to go home and change if I wore trousers to work. Would not have any of that back again (though I accept we now have some equally divisive issues to manage). I do recall eighties fashion with some affection though; amid the garish horrors there were some wonderfully individual and creative styles around and you could express who you were without bothering about brands or labels. I was always broke so shopped in jumble sales and charity shops. I think my, erm, ‘eclectic’ style has remained (and I still wear the occasional item of jewellery or clothing from that era too).

thenightsky · 17/12/2019 10:56

Yes. I'm 4 years older than you OP, so can just about remember the Beatles. Remember watching their films on TV at Christmas (Hard Day's Night and Yellow Submarine etc). I was a teenager in the 70s and remember when the lads used to wear platform shoes with high heels, even at school. School had to ban them for both sexes in the end because of so many broken ankles on the stairs Grin Lads also wore eyeliner for discos. I think the sexes were much closer in image back then.

WomanBornNotWorn · 17/12/2019 10:52

So many images out there from such a relatively short time

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