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Jo Swinson taking calls on Radio 5 at 9am

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Madvixen · 09/12/2019 06:06

Jo Swinson will be on Radio 5's Your Call at 9am this morning taking listeners questions.

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colouringinpro · 09/12/2019 21:53

Bravo Anna Grin

(Secretly hoping she's a mumsnetter!)

RedToothBrush · 09/12/2019 21:50

Or simply.

Why do the LDs wish to remove the sex based exceptions from the Equality act which relate to vulnerable women (sexual abuse survivors) or women in vulnerable situations (in hospitals or shelters).

What is your justification for saying these vulnerabilities they are not as important as trans identity?

RedToothBrush · 09/12/2019 21:47

Why do you think males can be women?

Cos only males can be transwomen. Females can not be transwomen. And vice versa with transmen.

If sex is irrelevant then how do you define what a transwomen is and what transphobia is?

If sex isn't irrelevant why are you pretending it isn't as part of your policy making?

There was a suggestion by the Beaumont Society in the 90s that the wives of transsexuals were at high risk of psychological breakdown following them coming out. This was when the numbers coming out was much lower.

As far as I am aware, there hasn't been any meaningful research into the impact on families in this area. There seems, anecdotally, that there is a need to look into this area to help families as a whole. There is a real taboo about the subject which no one is willing to face up to. Families are merely expected to accept it, with no regard as to how this impacts their own identity.

Therefore have you done research into the psychological impact on the close families of trans people, as part of your proposals to 'end the spousal veto'?

What support is there available for transwidows and their children (and the parents / siblings) struggling to deal with the effects of such a change in the family which centres their emotional needs first? Keeping in mind that children's emotional security and needs should be the most important concern in a safeguarding context.

All existing support I am aware of, is centred on the trans persons identity and is centred on that with families only added on to that as an afterthought and with an emphasis on validating the trans identity rather than listening to how others might be struggling.

PencilsInSpace · 09/12/2019 21:39

It's funny how trans activists have this fantasy about 'policing genitals' and being 'asked for a certificate' when going into changing rooms, toilets etc. It's their "gotcha" - except it's based on the delusion that women can't spot a man a mile off. Hearing an allegedly intelligent woman coming out with this batshittery is quite unnerving.

Yes, that struck me too.

This entire house of cards rests on the assumption that women can't see, or that we can at least be persuaded not to.

theflushedzebra · 09/12/2019 21:33

Thanks again for transcription Pencils - always so stark when it's in writing.

Seeing Jo on QT right now, and she's a different person - arguing with passion, v little stuttering, no failure to define simple terms.

Just how deeply she does believe that women can have penises, that sex is not binary, and that the future is gender neutral toilets and so on. Her lack of understanding and coherent argument on these issues is reminiscent of PC Gul.

Did Jo Swinson sell out? And if so, to who? Her donors, the LibDem party activists like Sarah & Zoe & Helen Belcher - or the TRAs, who according to the Denton report, are working hard to get this legislation through on the quiet?

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 09/12/2019 21:32

It's their "gotcha" - except it's based on the delusion that women can't spot a man a mile off.

That's why a. any time women point that out here there's a flurry of indignation and b. comments about a specific transwoman's appearance are targeted and deleted. Because nobody is allowed to say what they see, because the entire edifice depends on pretending that we can't see it.

(And also because egos are fragile things.)

Cuntysnark · 09/12/2019 21:29

I heard it but seeing it (and reading it out to Mr Cunty) just makes me put my head in my hands.

Butterisbest · 09/12/2019 21:26

Pencils thank you for the transcript, it's much appreciated by me and others I'm sure.
Jesus, what a mess, she can't you know herself out of this car crash of an interview.

PencilsInSpace · 09/12/2019 21:26

You know

No I don't know, Jo. Unless you really meant to ride roughshod over women and girls' rights, you really haven't explained it very well.

right?

No, wrong Jo, repeatedly.

Women are a class and we have protections under the EA. Sex is a protected characteristic and it's entirely separate from gender reassignment (or any bullshit unlawful made up protected characteristic like 'gender' or 'gender identity'). We have rights and they extend beyond just not actually being beaten up or raped.

It's unlawful for a service provider, employer bla bla to violate women's dignity or to create an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment for us, based on the PC of sex.

Uncompromisingwoman · 09/12/2019 21:23

Thank you Pencils Written down it's even more awful than it sounded.

It's funny how trans activists have this fantasy about 'policing genitals' and being 'asked for a certificate' when going into changing rooms, toilets etc. It's their "gotcha" - except it's based on the delusion that women can't spot a man a mile off. Hearing an allegedly intelligent woman coming out with this batshittery is quite unnerving.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 09/12/2019 21:20

All that um-ing and ah-ing is a thing people do when they're conscious of the fact that they're lying.

PencilsInSpace · 09/12/2019 21:12

Fucking hell Jo

PencilsInSpace · 09/12/2019 21:11

Rachel Burden
Jo Swinson
Anna in Warwickshire

RB: Let's go to Anna in Warwickshire. Welcome to the show Anna, what would you like to ask?

AiW: Thank you very much, good morning. Jo, my question for you - It's really great that your party promotes women's rights so please can you tell me what a woman is?

JS: [pause] Um, well ... er, I know I'm a woman, and, er ... and I think we do - we - we know - er, what - what we are. And I think all women are important and their rights need to be protected ... whether they are black, asian, white, whether they are gay or straight or bi, whether they have a very privileged upbringing or whether they don't have much money, whether they are cis or trans, whether they have a disability ... we are all important in all of those different ways.

AiW: So how can you tell what a woman is?

JS: [pause] Well, I mean I'm - I'm just sort of ... trying to understand, you know, what you're getting at. I think - I think we know, when we engage with each other - when - you know, we know if we're a woman, right? And we know, you know ...

AiW: Yep.

JS: ... and I can tell you that I am, right? So ... and - and - you know, we're not going to start a scenario where we go and, you know, perform inspections on people, are we?

AiW: No. What if a man wears a dress twice a week, is he a woman?

JS: Um, I ... not necessarily?

AiW: But could he be?

JS: Well, I think ... I think people can understand their own identity and I think it's right to respect people in terms of their gender identity, and that's for them to say.

AiW: If he dressed as a woman twice a week to go to work, do you count - whose gender pay gap? Do you count as a woman for the gender pay or a man?

JS: Well clearly in terms of the gender pay gap, members of staff will identify their gender in, you know, company records to HR typically, and the company will then produce the statistics accordingly.

RB: Anna, can I explain why this has become ...

AiW: Of course, yeah.

RB: ... a talking point within the Liberal Democrat Campaign? It's because you've promised complete reform of the Gender Recognition Act and effectively said you will remove the needs for medical tests and fees, that people - individuals - will be able to self-identify. Now, we ...

JS: I mean, to be honest, we - you know, we largely can currently, and - and I think that this - you know, formalises that, and it - you know, removes what are existing barriers that end up ... um, you know, creating discrimination on a very vulnerable group of people.

RB: And whilst we acknowledge that there is a group of people who are certainly vulnerable, need support and need certain protections, there is a significant body of women who feel that they will be deprived of safe spaces ...

AiW: Yeah, it's ...

RB: ... Would you like to pick up on that point?

AiW: Yeah, obviously we [respect people?] and everyone has the right to express themselves, people's choice of partner, spouse, clothing, should not be affected by their sex in any way. But under self-ID, what's to stop a male sex offender walking into the changing rooms and saying, d'you know what, today I identify a woman - as a woman? Should we be kind and let him?

JS: Um, so - I mean, in a sense - you know, I've gone into gym changing rooms, right? Er ... and I've never been asked for a certificate, right? I've never been asked. And I'm - so that's not what you currently have right now, if somebody ...

AiW: No, of course not.

JS: ... if anybody - if anybody goes into a changing room and is acting in a way that is ... is in any way kind of predatory or - um ... er, you know, antisocial, then the ... the institution, the gym or whatever it is, [you know?] the swimming pool, you know, should - should be able to take action on that basis, but what has happened - what has happened ...

AiW: But it's a safeguard - it's a safeguard, isn't it Jo?

JS: But the ...

AiW: At the moment we have women's spaces that are safeguarded from men, don't we? And the ...

JS: But can I - can I ...

AiW: Yes, go on.

JS: I was just going to say ... so, like ... I - the way in which this - this debate plays out, you know, I heard from people who are - um - women who might be women who look more masculine, women who might dress in a particular way, who have found, over the last months and years, with the way that this debate has been playing out, that they have suddenly, in a way that they haven't before, been challenged just for being in the women's loos. You know? Just for, you know, washing their hands at the sink and been challenged. And so I think we get into very dangerous territory if we start assuming that people ...

AiW: Well exactly. So, if we're leaving it up to women to have to police their own spaces - I mean, that's why it's a difficult issue, isn't it? Conflicting rights. We have women's spaces as a safeguard from men because we know men murder women, men rape women, voyeur upskirting has just become a crime, people put cameras in changing rooms ... that's why we have these women's spaces and the feelings of a small number of people do not in any way reduce the threat of men. So that's why we need to think and discuss and talk openly about this. And that's why I'm asking you. Whereas if we go straight for the reform that you're suggesting, and people like me are given abuse for even talking about this [inaudible] We're not - even if every single trans person in the world has - you know, is fantastic and wonderful and kind and brilliant, that does not reduce the threat from men in any way.

JS: And I suppose - er, the - the argument, if you like, is on what's the best way to provide that protection. Because the cause ...

AiW: Yes, but at the moment we're just making it all women's ...

JS: Well ...

AiW: ... women's toilets into unisex toilets. That's not a solution.

RB: I'm going to let Jo Swinson answer that and then we're going ...

AiW: Sorry.

RB: ... no, don't apologise Anna, I hear the passion in your voice, and then we're going to have to move it on, only to get onto other subjects.

JS: I mean, as I say, at the moment, you know, I - you know, I've never been asked for a certificate to prove - to prove my gender when I've been accessing any women's spaces and I - so it's not as if that is the way that we're going to resolve this issue. It's not as if with the law at the moment, that it's like, well that's fine, every time you go to the loo you have to like, swipe some card that is related to your birth certificate, right? That's not the society we have and frankly that's not one that I think any of us want. So we need to make sure that, you know, there are proper protections in place and, you know, obviously, against - you know, a group - I mean at the moment, you know, if a man, you know, wants to, you know, go into a women's space or a changing room or whatever, I mean we've all seen the 'Male operatives on duty', you know, go in with a bucket and be cleaning the - the, you know, cleaning the loos, right? So you know, if there's people who want to - to - to do - to act in that way, they should absolutely be dealt with. And I just don't buy the idea that we need to, um, you know ...

RB: OK ...

JS: ... further marginalise a group of vulnerable people, that that actually gives us any further protection. I don't think it is the right way to - to deal with the genuine concerns you raise.

RB: Anna, thank you very much ... [on to gender neutral school uniforms vs. faith schools and hijab]

ItsChristmaaaaaaaaas · 09/12/2019 21:01

Being played?

Thelnebriati · 09/12/2019 20:57

Its mostly been female MP's pushing this agenda, and I think that's deliberate.

XXcstatic · 09/12/2019 20:54

There are some pretty heavy LGBTetc groups set up within organisations (to be honest I get the chills when I hear a company has one) and its who is advising and empowering them that is the million $ question (possibly literally).

I have said all along that this madness will only end when gay men wake up to the homophobia of TRAs. It's going to take time, because it's such a volte-face: lots of egg on lots of faces. But, eventually, the inherent contradiction of gay men supporting a movement that denies the existence of same-sex attraction will become inescapable. Only gay men have the influence to undo what has been done.

Michelleoftheresistance · 09/12/2019 20:49

I agree Swinson is in part getting it in the neck because it is somewhat easier to challenge her than the male party leaders, however the LibDems are pushing this, Swinson personally is pushing this, and Swinson is waving an open goal around with her car crash interviews.

On the plus side, as pointed out in today's Spectator article, this is breaking the ground that this can and should be challenged, it can be openly talked about and questioned, it is not taboo to mention it or point out the very, very (very) obvious issues with it for female people.

It will move on from Swinson to others standing behind it. In part this is because of the patient relentless drip drip drip of we are going to talk about it regardless of the DIAF/banning/ MN is a hell hole of women having opinions of women here, on Twitter, in meetings, writing to people, talking to people. #nodebate is over.

Thelnebriati · 09/12/2019 20:15

What concerns me is that, if there's now a rush to throw Swinson under the bus, the people who initiated this will still be out there. Eyes on the real prize

Swinson is ideally placed to say who recruited her, how, and why she agreed to go along with it.

ItsChristmaaaaaaaaas · 09/12/2019 20:05

Doublewoo? That’s funny...

Kit19 · 09/12/2019 20:02

She’s going to be on the under 30s question time special tonight

I expect that she’ll have a more receptive audience there and double down on the woo

Butterisbest · 09/12/2019 19:51

We have a Monster Raving Loony Party standing in our constituency, by the name of Lily the Pink. It was a LD stronghold for years with a fantastic local MP, he worked really hard foe the constituency. But it went back to Tory in 2017, back to LD in a recent by election. LD MP has made it very clear that she hates being in Parliament, hates being an MP and has been very vocal about that.
Brexit party and UKIP picked up a few thousand votes between them last time.
Neither are standing this time. I reckon that the Conservative candidate will win.

TiredofthisBS · 09/12/2019 19:28

To be honest @ItsChristmaaaaaaaaas I'd vote for the Monster Raving looney party if they were still around.

Floisme · 09/12/2019 19:18

To anyone wondering how this could have taken hold I recommend the thread on How Biological Sex was Silenced.

testing987654321 · 09/12/2019 19:12

I’m also stunned that people take this ideology seriously.

I have been saying "when will this madness stop?" for ages now. I keep thinking I can't be shocked by it any more but then something else comes out. At least it's being discussed in public now.

DeeZastris · 09/12/2019 19:03

I’m also stunned that people take this ideology seriously. I mean, it’s just utter horseshit. I thought people just said stuff like this out of politeness or a fear of offending but Swinson seems to genuinely believe it. Baffling.

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