Rain Dove is a US fashion model, 6'2" by the time she was ten, with both a "masculine" face and an impressive figure.
Not surprisingly that's brought a lot of difficult situations, and Rain has developed some amazing people management skills demonstrated over on Instagram with screenshots of online conversations.
They're a masterclass in dealing with aggressive confrontational behaviour, understanding that it often comes from a place of sadness and fear, and I will be taking notes.
However.
I first became aware when friends were sharing one of the conversations as 'beautiful'. So I looked.
A mother had contacted Rain in despair because after reading Rain's Instagram her ten year old daughter was asking for a binder, and she was blaming Rain for influencing her child.
By the end, Rain had convinced her that the child would be using dangerous improvised methods to bind anyway, so she should get her the binder.
I'm conflicted - I'm admiring the communication, self discipline and influencing skills while at the same time appalled how easily they can be used to persuade a mother that she should enable her child to bind - using nothing but the best.
www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-7765539/Gender-fluid-model-Rain-Dove-praised-patient-response-angry-stranger.html
www.independent.co.uk/life-style/fashion/rain-dove-model-defying-gender-norms-fashion-industry-men-women-clothing-firefighter-a7832991.html