Every time there is a thread on here about rape, a lot of posters jump on the victim to report. The posts vary from "strongly encouraging" to victim blaming, shaming ,guilting and pure pressure.
You have to report to keep others safe. Even when OP says she can't handle it. Even when OP says she's been through the process before and it nearly broke her. Even when OP is obviously struggling mentally,physically and dealing with enough guilt and shame.
We see time after time no justice being done. Victims on trial. Panties and sexual habits brought into questions.
Plenty of outrage and sympathy and heartbreak when a victim is torn to pieces, but none of the sensitivity or empathy if she doesn't want to report it.
Entirely fair enough when they are considering it or just need support and a bit of a boost that they are doing the right thing.
Why are we still trying to bully women into reporting when they don't want to?