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The problem with white feminism

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FrackOff · 07/11/2019 09:42

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TheProdigalKittensReturn · 10/11/2019 01:02

When Yaniv wax-my-balls was deliberately targeting minority women due to their religious beliefs and ethnicity, I didn't see any of these holier-than-thou white feminists standing up for these women. Oh no, they were more concerned about anyone misgendering Yaniv.

The lack of support for the women Yaniv targeted was so incredibly telling. Who could possibly be more deserving of the support of anyone who claims to care about women in general and women of color in particular than those women? Yaniv specifically went after Sikhs because Yaniv is virulently racist, and the few women targeted who weren't Sikh were still recent immigrants. Not so much as a whisper of support for any of them from the aggressively woke.

NonnyMouse1337 · 10/11/2019 00:34

Ethnic minorities and Muslims are usually the dahlings of woke, SJW liberal types... The 'let's all wear the hijab in solidarity because it's so empowering' ...

When Yaniv wax-my-balls was deliberately targeting minority women due to their religious beliefs and ethnicity, I didn't see any of these holier-than-thou white feminists standing up for these women. Oh no, they were more concerned about anyone misgendering Yaniv.

As Driechdrizzle says, they also don't seem concerned by the harassment and intimidation being carried out against Linda Bellos and Alison Bailey.

Maybe these white-but-better-than-white feminists could lead by example and practice what they preach instead of lecturing the rest of us (which includes women from all ages and backgrounds) ? Just a thought.

Driechdrizzle · 10/11/2019 00:03

Why are we even having this discussion? Alison Phipps is herself a white feminist, doing very nicely thank you in one of those white supremacist, male supremacist institutions, academia.

She's using black and ethnic minority women as a weapon to attack radical feminists, who are not all white, because we're not toeing the line on trans. She doesn't care about black women or she'd be supporting Linda Bellos and Alison Bailey from attacks by the pro-trans white establishment.

WhiskeyLullaby · 09/11/2019 23:55

your aggressive and divisive we're all ladies here let's pull together.

Yeah....no.

TwatticusFinch · 09/11/2019 23:54

Can someone please point me to the feminst issues which affect black women which don't affect white women, or vice versa? Not issues of scale (this groups is affected twice as much as this group etc) but actual whole issues.

To be fair, I think it's more complicated than this. Sometimes black women are discriminated against in a different way to white women, and so if you only address the way that white women are affected you won't deal with the problem in a way that helps black women.

Someone gave the example on another thread of combatting sexist stereotypes. White women are often portrayed as being weak and we may want to fight that, but black women are often stereotyped as always having to be strong and not feeling allowed to show any weakness, so if you just fight the weakness stereotype you won't be helping black women.

Or you could take the difference in mortality during/after childbirth. If there is a specific problem with midwives not listening to black women when they say they are in pain/something does not feel right etc., then that problem won't be solved by generic campaigns for more research into medical issues which arise during birth, funding for more midwives etc.

Hazardd · 09/11/2019 23:39

You kinda pointed out the issue Anti if BAME women say something disproportionately impacts them white feminism can say that's not the most important issue now because they aren't so impacted. Then if white feminists want to be out and out racist they can pull out the your aggressive and divisive we're all ladies here let's pull together.

The white feminism brand also includes classism. So if a woman on benefits says hey this sucks right now with this Tory gov white feminists can say yes but that's not the most important issue now we must all pull together on this issue I believe is most important.

lang oh dear. My grammar above might be bad knock yourself out Grin

Antibles · 09/11/2019 23:14

I find this issue bizarre and unnecessarily divisive.

Can someone please point me to the feminst issues which affect black women which don't affect white women, or vice versa? Not issues of scale (this groups is affected twice as much as this group etc) but actual whole issues. Which are the issues where white feminists say: "Nah, that just affects black women, we don't deal with that one."

I can only think of FGM and I think the white UK community is dealing with that a fuckton better than the cultures that practise it.

TwatticusFinch · 09/11/2019 22:36

In terms of being less likely to be harassed, not having to worry about his choice of underwear being used against him in a rape trial, not having to hold his career to have children - or worry about the judgement if he doesn’t, being able to walk or drink alone without fear of being raped and many many more.

I know this is how the term "privilege" is used but I don't think it's particularly helpful in the context of these examples. These are really just crap things that happen to women. It's not that we want men to have to worry about these things too, we all want to be free from them. I understand why it's sometimes helpful to get someone who doesn't have to go through these things to think about that, but I don't think that the term "privilege" really works in this context as it sounds like something that should be taken away.

Where I do think that the term "privilege" is useful is when a group gains a unearned and unfair benefit (whether intentionally or not) because another group is being discriminated against. Eg the fact that many employers are less likely to hire young women who might want to have children soon means that men have a greater chance of securing a job than they would do if there was no discrimination. Nobody else seems to make this distinction but it seems sensible to me.

LangCleg · 09/11/2019 22:30

it's cliche

My most hated Americanism. It's a cliche or it's cliched.

Petty but gets my goat.

Hazardd · 09/11/2019 22:17

white feminism is when white women claim to be feminists and then describe the experiences of women who have different life experiences from them as niche subjects.

It's also the moments when sisters need to get together for this thing I'm interested in.....we'll do your thing later and later never comes. And oh my the tantrum if women do not rally in the right way for important white lady thing.

Just your displaying perfect but I have a black friend it's cliche.

Justhadathought · 09/11/2019 21:13

"Dr Clarke believes other factors are at play, including culture and the narrative of the "strong black woman", which prevent some from speaking up about their concerns during pregnancy and birth"
"She says her grandparents' generation keeps quiet about pain and trauma and this affects how some black women are treated - even by women of their own race"

www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/uk-england-47115305

Justhadathought · 09/11/2019 21:11

I think this place would feel a lot less hostile if people didn’t react in certain ways to instances of injustices faced by black people, as I’ve not seen the same level of attitude to other reports and statements affecting other groups

I think you'll find that most women posting here have friends and colleagues of many ethnicities and races, and are well aware of the issues these women face due to specific conditions and pressures within their own communities, and are deeply sympathetic to them.

Have you ever thought you may be perceiving hostility because you are displaying it yourself - in trying to find separate cause, rather than common cause?

I wish all women, regardless of race or ethnicity would seek common cause with other women. What unites us is oppression in a male dominated culture. Race and ethnicity is a factor that sits on top of that, as far as I'm concerned. it does not supersede it. Same with social class.

Justhadathought · 09/11/2019 21:06

Did you know in the UK, Black women are 5x more likely to die in childbirth?

I know that black women are more likely, even given similar socio-economic situations to other women, to suffer from certain health conditions which are problematical during pregnancy. What are the reasons as far as you understand? Do you think any of that might be down to factors operating within the black community itself:

"Dr Clarke believes other factors are at play, including culture and the narrative of the "strong black woman", which prevent some from speaking up about their concerns during pregnancy and birth"
"She says her grandparents' generation keeps quiet about pain and trauma and this affects how some black women are treated - even by women of their own race".

MangoesAreMyFavourite · 09/11/2019 20:18

As an Asian woman, I hate the term 'white feminism' because I have always always only seen it used in a context where white feminists are being told to stfu.

Michelleoftheresistance · 09/11/2019 20:13

Wow Early

I remember the thread where you kindly put me straight about lesbianing all wrong and how I was a homosexual who was homophobic. Now I see I'm womaning and ethnicitying all wrong too. Thank goodness for you.

donquixotedelamancha · 09/11/2019 20:04

I think this place would feel a lot less hostile if people didn’t react in certain ways to instances of injustices faced by black people

What specific instances have people on here disagreed with? I still haven't seen any coherent evidence that UK feminism only follows white women's priorities and should be dismantled (as Alison suggests) in favour of not punishing rapists and supporting self ID.

I think the people getting irritated by the suggestion that feminists like Linda Belos should be less White about things and listen to Alison about what black women want might be motivated by a little more than white fragility.

Inebriati · 09/11/2019 19:18

Its awful that trans activists shouted at Linda Bellos for being a lesbian, and that she was taken to court for saying she would defend herself if threatened.

CeridwenTheWitch · 09/11/2019 19:10

Something else that bothers me about the term 'White Feminism' is that it is always used to describe radical feminism. This implies that radical feminists are all white which is simply not true and in fact, it's usually the opposite. Liberal feminists are mostly wealthy white women.

I've seen a lot of black, Latina and Korean radfems online point this out. It silences their voices in this debate and assumes that any non-white feminist is a liberal feminist, when in fact there are fantastic radical feminist groups in Korea, Spain, parts of South America and no doubt many other non-white countries as well as Black radical feminists in the UK, the US and Canada.

IcedPurple · 09/11/2019 19:09

I think this place would feel a lot less hostile if people didn’t react in certain ways to instances of injustices faced by black people, as I’ve not seen the same level of attitude to other reports and statements affecting other groups.

Ah, so you're passively aggressively accusing us all of racism. Gotcha.

Earlywalker · 09/11/2019 19:06

I think this place would feel a lot less hostile if people didn’t react in certain ways to instances of injustices faced by black people, as I’ve not seen the same level of attitude to other reports and statements affecting other groups.
But alas, it is the term ‘white feminism’ that is of course, the made up issue.
I’m used to it though, it’s all good.

Inebriati · 09/11/2019 19:06

Some levels of current 'feminism' ignore women, is the point I was clumsily making.

IcedPurple · 09/11/2019 19:04

No one said white feminists were to blame

So what is the point of your posts then?

but your reaction is interesting.

More than can be said for your reply.

Cascade220 · 09/11/2019 19:00

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Earlywalker · 09/11/2019 18:58

No one said white feminists were to blame but your reaction is interesting.

IcedPurple · 09/11/2019 18:52

Thanks for that, but it's a report, not an actual study. Also, it doesn't control for socio economic factors, and suggests that medical reasons - apparantly black women are more prone to preeclampsia - are at least partly to blame.

In any case, how are 'white feminists' at fault for any of this?