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Play equipment is a feminist issue

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artisanparsnips · 06/11/2019 08:57

I've posted the message below on chat, but would really like your perspective on this as well. I'm starting to talk to people who might be interested in campaigning on this, so would love feedback.

Quick question, what outdoor play facilities are there in your local area for older children - skate park, graffiti wall, pump track? And how much are they used by girls? And is there anything else that the girls use?

I'm asking because my eyes have been totally opened by the Caroline Criado Perez book, where she points out, almost incidentally, that almost all facilities for older/teenage children are used mostly by boys. I looked at what was on offer in my town and lo, it was all the above, and a football/basketball pitch. And I watched all summer and they were all used by 80% boys at best.

So I really want to know how usual/unusual this is, and any other thoughts that you have.

And yes, I have name changed because anyone who knows me will recognise this issue straight away....

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Ilovetolurk · 06/11/2019 12:08

Hi Grasspigeons I think this is something schools do need to address. There’s no good reason for basketball to be a boys sport or netball girls. Unfortunately there is a lack of funding and support for girls team sports.

UpfieldHatesWomen · 06/11/2019 12:03

It's not just the younger lads dominating the space that's off-putting, but also the pervy older blokes. I remember trying to go jogging with a friend when I was about 14 around the playing fields and getting rude comments from a random bloke calling out at us, I don't think we did it again. As soon as a girl or group of girls are engaged in any kind of physical activity it becomes pornified in the minds of male observers who see it as their place to display dominance and comment on your activity. So dispiriting.

MitziK · 06/11/2019 11:53

A space for a permanent Roller Derby track with a couple of boards up giving clear explanations of the rules - that would also have the effect of enticing existing Derby Squads to go there, and two full squads of fit and active women wearing protective gear plus zebras and benches of supporters/people not playing today should be enough to persuade girls that they'd be safe/it's their space too and dissuade boys from being misogynistic little shites. Perhaps a team would be prepared to offer free/cheap baby derby sessions in exchange for free or reduced rental?

UpfieldHatesWomen · 06/11/2019 11:48

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artisanparsnips · 06/11/2019 11:47

Oh re the male policing of playground space, there has only been, as far as I can tell, one small study, but this concluded that girls are less physically active when boys are present (an effect which does not happen in reverse) and that in play boys regulate activity across both genders and do exclude girls.

full report here

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UpfieldHatesWomen · 06/11/2019 11:44

Outdoor gyms are great, I don't know if girls would use them or not, but the ones I've seen have been used by all ages. Great for anyone who can't afford a gym pass:
www.moneysavingexpert.com/deals/deals-hunter/2017/06/free-outdoor-gyms-save-100s-year-gym-membership/]

Grasspigeons · 06/11/2019 11:35

Hi - you asked why i considered basketball boys and netballs girls. I dont. Its just all the local schools girls play netball and boys dont. So its a sport they have more exposure to. Girls can do all of these sports but they arent so just providing the stuff thats already there isnt working. It might be the netball cort get dominated by the boys too. Who knows

deydododatdodontdeydo · 06/11/2019 11:31

I have only seen them in France at service stations.

They are pretty common. There isn't one in our village, but it's a pretty small village (we just got a skate park though).
I see them around very often.

smemorata · 06/11/2019 11:28

I think you're right although my town doesn't have any play equipment for children over 6 which is also a problem. I would also like to see more equipment for adults too to do exercises. I have only seen them in France at service stations.

ThatsMeInTheSpotlight · 06/11/2019 11:24

In the park across from our old house, there were tennis courts with no nets but chalk marks and fenced. They were used by both sexes for a range of ball games ie tennis, football, dodgeball. There was a small cycle track which was used by both sexes but mainly girls. An adventure park and a small sand park - used by both sexes.

Near our new house, there is a play park - used fairly equally. Outdoor gym equipment - tends to be used by adults rather than DCs and I've seen men and women using it.

Beside DM's, there is a skate park - mainly boys. Tennis courts - both sexes. Play park and benches - mainly girls.

Ilovetolurk · 06/11/2019 11:23

Their could be netball hoops in parks as well as basketball areas. But we all know what will happen, the netball hoops will get damaged cos they are lower down. Damaged by the older boys

Please explain why basketball is relevant to boys and netball to girls

My DS plays both at school and his basketball club has girls and boys teams. The girls reached the U16 playoffs this year

Basketball England do promote the male and female pathways

deydododatdodontdeydo · 06/11/2019 11:20

True, Upfield.
But that's the same for anyone starting out isn't it? The boys endure jeers when they fall off.
So what is it about boys that makes them able to endure the jeers, and girls not.
Socialisation, I guess. There are some girls who skate, are they the ones who brush off the jeering? And why?

artisanparsnips · 06/11/2019 11:20

@ArnoldWhatshisknickers I think you're right there. It is possible to produce smaller scale versions of these in public parks, and they do seem to improve girls' participation. (Google Cowley Teenage Space, it's tiny but does the job)

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UpfieldHatesWomen · 06/11/2019 11:17

I don't think the girls are intimidated, or they wouldn't be there at all.
There's a world of difference between sitting around and being an audience for the lads, and how girls might feel if they tried to join in themselves. Presumably, if they don't normally practice they'd be at a much lower level of ability which would encourage patronising and possibly humiliating comments from the more expert boys. It sets up a vicious cycle, with the girls put in their place as the ones cheering on the boys from the sidelines.

ArnoldWhatshisknickers · 06/11/2019 11:16

Thinking about it the places I have seen teenage girls most involved in using equipment type outdoor activities have been private estates with large scale assault/adventure type courses. Culzean Castle has a good example of the type, but I imagine these are very expensive to set up and that they would be difficult to police in terms of vandalism if they were council run free activities.

MoltoAgitato · 06/11/2019 11:10

Girls round here seem to spend ages coming up with dance routines, sometimes involving pretty impressive gymnastics. Facilities to support those would be good.

Football at our school is heavily controlled precicely because it has such a detrimental effect.

deydododatdodontdeydo · 06/11/2019 11:07

At all the skate parks I've ever seen, the boys do the skating and the girls hang about sitting on benches.
I don't think the girls are intimidated, or they wouldn't be there at all.
I can't think of a similar physical activity which girls do, which would require equipment (no, not netball, who plays netball in their free time?).
Quite a few parks have those outdoor gyms now, and I have seen kids of both sexes messing about on those.

artisanparsnips · 06/11/2019 11:07

@WrathofSIxFootSIxEIfKIop Hey, you know you said about bars. I've just found a space designed by girls in Sweden and look bottom left on the after photo - bars!

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Grasspigeons · 06/11/2019 11:04

We have ball courts,cricket pitches and skate parks. 80% boys. Its actually quite a lot of investment in keeping boys occupied isnt it. I hadnt noticed before. The ball courts are set up for 5 aside football and with basketball height/type goals and markings.
I dont have teen girls but the boys friends seem to do a lot of dance routines so id say dance space with mirrors. And perhaps some ball courts set up with markings for netball...
Id also suggest more female led skate workshops. There are a few each holiday at they are male led. The graffit worksops are let by a man and woman and they have a more mixed attendance.

artisanparsnips · 06/11/2019 10:58

Have a look at that Barcelona video, the bit about playgrounds is exactly about maintaining a balance between football and other activities.

And no, I'm so not lobbying for removing the skate park. But our council is considering renewing it, at a cost of many tens of thousands, so my argument is that if there is money for this, there legally has to be money to make the parks more accessible and welcoming for girls.

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aliasundercover · 06/11/2019 10:55

When my DD was at primary school, the boys would sometimes take up the whole playground with a game of football, while the girls would huddle in the corners, chatting, so they could avoid being hit by a football or a charging boy.
This is an issue in every playground. (Many) Boys (and some girls) want to play football, which is absolutely fair enough ... but it does take up lots of space. This need to be considered when making play spaces - there should always be smaller areas where other activities can take place, divided up by benches, small walls, trees and bushes, play equipment, etc.

Please don't remove the skateparks, though, I love seeing kids skating, and an increasing number of girls are joining in these days. According to my teenage niece boys are generally welcoming and encouraging.

artisanparsnips · 06/11/2019 10:39

@WrathofSIxFootSIxEIfKIop Totally agree about the toilets. Especially when periods become an issue.

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ErrolTheDragon · 06/11/2019 10:32

This is a really interesting set of issues.
As is the 'city designed by women' - someone's started another thread which includes link to bbc item mentioned upthread. They're obviously related subjects but worthy of separate discussion I think.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3736656-A-city-designed-by-women

WrathofSIxFootSIxEIfKIop · 06/11/2019 10:29

There used to be a park ranger in our local park and relatively good loos.

Toilets could be an issue. Young boys know can pee behind a tree.

RoyalCorgi · 06/11/2019 10:26

My memory from the book is that is it also about access points and not having a "gauntlet" effect that teenage girls find intimidating.

This is so very true. When boys take up a space, it becomes very scary for girls to enter it. When my DD was at primary school, the boys would sometimes take up the whole playground with a game of football, while the girls would huddle in the corners, chatting, so they could avoid being hit by a football or a charging boy.

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