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Oh look, it's those guidelines making no sense whatsoever again!

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TheProdigalKittensReturn · 04/11/2019 17:09

So, I got an email about a comment in which I said that I wanted to know why genderists keep comparing trans identified males to black women and lesbians being deleted. I think this is absolutely barmy, and have said so to HQ. I'm also baffled as to how this breaks any guidelines and thought perhaps it was time for us as a group to revisit the guidelines and explain once more to MNHQ why they're not working.

What's actually happening here is the the obsessive trans activists who monitor this site are attempting to pick off posters one by one. We lost Orchid last week, and she was just the most recent of many. I'm not sure in MNHQ realize that's happening and welcome it or if it's somehow escaped their notice, but it's a pretty messed up thing for them to be allowing to happen to their users, in my opinion. Are they going to allow this to continue until the only commenters left in this forum are the TRAs who want the entire site shut down?

I know the people who despise the women here would very much like this to all happen under the radar, and that's exactly why I'm not allowing it to play out that way.

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LangCleg · 08/11/2019 12:03

Thanks for the second holding response, Michael. However, I do note that this is not the first thread to be concerned about the guidelines and consistent, clear application of them by the mod team - there have been several both here on FWR and in Site Stuff. We have yet to get any further than holding responses.

Meanwhile, posts you delete are going viral on other platforms with significantly bigger reputations for censorship on behalf of genderism than this one.

Can we at least look forward to something substantive this time?

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 08/11/2019 11:15

Well, if I suddenly disappear I guess everyone will know why.

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FleetsumNJetsum · 08/11/2019 10:59

ditto

BernardBlacksWineIceLolly · 08/11/2019 10:49

Thanks for the update MichaelMumsnet

Waiting with much interest

MichaelMumsnet · 08/11/2019 10:42

Hi all. We've read the whole thread and and are continuing to discuss the many questions raised. As the topic concerns the Talk guidelines and much of our moderation approach, it's not something that can be resolved quickly. Please bear with us for a while longer.

HandsOffMyRights · 08/11/2019 10:26

@MNHQ
Hoping your delayed response means that you are carefully considering our requests for clarity regarding posting.

TheChampagneGalop · 08/11/2019 09:36

I suspect that the moderator team do not have a united opinion. It's weird that the deletions and bans of FWR posters increased in a seemingly random way after Justine made a statement to defend speech here and said that Upfield/Flora were bowing to pressure from a handful of activists on Twitter.

LangCleg · 08/11/2019 09:24

Pretty sure HQ are hoping this thread will die soon while throwing darts at a board with my name on for starting it tbh.

It appears to be the pattern with this type of thread. A mod post saying We hear you, will discuss it and get back to you - then crickets. One would have thought, if the team has it all clear in their minds and are operating as one, our objections would be relatively simple to rebut.

LangCleg · 08/11/2019 09:22

The rules in fact are applied consistently if you look at it from a male perspective - anything they say is the law.

Astute observation, Louise.

louiseaaa · 08/11/2019 09:08

Another neuro-diverse person who struggles to get thoughts down on paper clearly at the best of times. I compensate for that by being fairly blunt. Can't do that here. Don't post much here - too much added mental load when neuro-diverse people already carry increased load.

Not to mention the additional load of having a neuro-diverse child to manage.

But a lurker who listens here and does a lot of in real life discussions.

I can see that the rulez are being inconsistently applied by moderators who appear to have their feminine socialisation intact. The rules in fact are applied consistently if you look at it from a male perspective - anything they say is the law.

HorseWithNoFucksToGive · 08/11/2019 09:06

Please address this issue Mumsnet.

I am a member here and concerned about this.

MrsSnippyPants · 08/11/2019 09:02

Well @MNHQ must be having a very long chat about providing answers to our questions. Perhaps we have to wait for them to run out of Biscuit before getting back to us.

EmpressLesbianInChair · 08/11/2019 08:14

Well, it’s only at 330 posts. Plenty of room left.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 08/11/2019 07:49

Pretty sure HQ are hoping this thread will die soon while throwing darts at a board with my name on for starting it tbh.

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Creepster · 07/11/2019 18:26

Conservatism: "There must be in-groups whom the law protects but does not bind, alongside out-groups whom the law binds but does not protect.
There is nothing more or else to it, and there never has been, in any place or time."

I think we all know where we fit in the regulatory framework.

Sunkisses · 07/11/2019 12:04

...but also, like everyone, waiting for clarification from @MNHQ that they will not allow their mods to ban decent women after mass reporting by TRAs, and that women must be able to talk about SEX, the protected characteristic in the Equality Act 2010, on a feminist forum without fear or sanction

Sunkisses · 07/11/2019 12:02

Crikey, had to go to parents evening last night and have only just caught up. I had NO IDEA that it was remotely controversial to say that breast binding is self-harm. Of course it bloody well is, and we should be allowed to say that. Loud and clear. It is extremely harmful (one study showed that 97% of the female respondents experienced harm), and it is done by females to themselves. It is self-harm. And it only happens to us - women and girls, the female sex. It needs to be discussed on a feminism board. Anyway I've heard back from @MNHQ now who've said they're happy for me to re-post, but not to make it specifically about one individual (a female presenter on CBBC)

BeyondBreakingPoint · 07/11/2019 11:59
Happityhap · 07/11/2019 11:49

So, are Mumsnet prepared to be the ones who capitulate to the TRAs, or will they stand firm and protect freedom to discuss issues and law changes that affect us?

At the moment, Justine is saying the latter, but the moderators are doing the former.

Yoohoo, MNHQ & Justine.
Any clarification for us on this?

Ereshkigal · 07/11/2019 09:06

I think one sign that a society is misogynistic is that women's speech is constrained in a way that men's isn't. I think that women who have the desire to restrict other women's speech almost always have misogynistic motives for doing so, though they often won't admit that to themselves.

Yes, exactly.

DickKerrLadies · 07/11/2019 07:35

'Negative generalisations' being a cause for deletion will cause a problem on 99% of election threads and will mean they end up looking like swiss cheese.

Oops, silly me, that's not going to happen is it. It's just the feminists that must be policed

Datun · 07/11/2019 02:07

What ever happened to NetMums? Is it still going? They immediately disallowed anything other than positive affirmation of trans stuff. Hence loads of AGPs being on there when I last checked a few years ago.

I have no idea who the CEO is. They never make it into the papers, or indeed the public consciousness. And they ban you for swearing.

Their USP appears, to me, to be banal, copycat jibber jabber.

I'm sure they have good, supportive or funny threads somewhere - but I just wouldn't know 'cos you never hear of them.

Mumsnet, on the other hand, including, or maybe because of, FWR is never out of the news/social media. Because it's content is important, relevant, interesting and informed. Because of the relevant, interesting and informed women who generate it.

Creepster · 07/11/2019 00:16

Is there any point to correcting typos when I will invariably make another? one, not on.

Creepster · 07/11/2019 00:15

I am guessing on of the mods decided they needed some praise, or failing that the women on FWR needed some criticism.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 06/11/2019 23:56

Huh, I wonder how it made it to active, there aren't that many comments.

I hope your partner's medication issue gets sorted soon, Hazardd.

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