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What is being taught in schools regarding transgender ideology?

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AugustL · 23/10/2019 01:57

Hi, is there a thread being kept to record what is being taught in schools in the U.K. Or elsewhere?

I saw this on Twitter. It's in a school in America. For 4th grade which is apparently 9 yrs old.

mobile.twitter.com/teacher2teacher/status/1186749900911869952

I just thought, kids are going to be confused. They are going to make children think they are transgender when they're not. Kids will go home from this lesson wondering and worrying if they are born wrong. That's going to lead to bad mental health. Next week how many will say they're transgender? Some may so joyfully because they've never fitted in, they've been gender non-conforming in some way. But changing to the opposite gender, or sex is not the answer. What does it mean "who you are , how you feel as a person"? Is that based on if I like something- a toy or item of clothing or how i play, if I "cry like a girl" like my dad tells me, or not, if I like glitter, pink, and princesses or not? If I like a flowery scarf but my dad said it was for girls? If I'm a girl but I like to play with the boys because they like playing outside like climbing trees and playing in mud? If I'm a boy but I don't like that? If I boy/girl like cars, dolls, dinosaurs, make up, dresses, dancing, rough play or not? Etc. Etc. And if people tell me "that's for girls!" Or " that's for boys"! Because that's how society conditioned them to think too. If I like some boy stuff and some girl stuff am I neither a boy or girl? What am i? Am I both? This is scary.
STOP THIS SEXIST HARMFUL NONSENSE. BREAK THE CYCLE. BOYS AND GIRLS CAN LIKE WHATEVER THEY WANT. THEY ARE STILL BOY OR GIRL AS THEY WERE BORN. Stop confusing children and leading them to a pathway of anxiety, misery, medication, surgery, sterility, suicide, by making them uncertain of who they are and making them think they were born wrong. You are introducing this stuff to any child you teach this to and confusing them. At school they should be taught to break stereotypes, we could do anything, boy or girl. Transgender or transsexual as we used to call it in UK used to be if someone had gender dysphoria which was severe distress or discomfort with their body being the sex it was, I heard stories of boys wanting to chop their penis off and insisting they were a girl, for reasons unknown or various, treatment was to alleviate this distress or discomfort and if necessary transition - meds/surgery, which if not last resort, was certainly not first resort. ( there was also transvestite or cross dresser who liked to dress up for fun or sexual fetish - I guess they've been amalgamated into "transgender", as have "masculine women", and "feminine men" according to stonewall transgender umbrella) ANYWAYS, What you are doing here is asking children to choose if they are a boy or girl based on how they feel, which can only be based on regressive gender stereotypes which our society attributed and conditioned to their sex. We can change that, by breaking the stereotypes..not by saying they need to change themselves. This is going to make children think they are transgender when they are not. Why can people not see they are causing more problem than solving. It's almost like someone or some company will be benefiting from this? Who stands to benefit or make money? Medical companies? Tech? Where did all this suddenly come from? Why are these philosophical theories being taught as fact to kids? Why this social engineering to keep kids in gender stereotype boxes?

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airedailleurs · 14/01/2020 09:36

I dare say that's the case @Mooncupdotcom but what I want to avoid is giving up other career opportunities in favour of teaching and then finding my job is at risk if I refuse to compromise my integrity on this particular issue.

Mooncupdotcom · 13/01/2020 22:41

@airedailleurs Don’t let that put you off teaching! I truly believe we need strong, critical thinking women in teaching more that ever.

Mooncupdotcom · 13/01/2020 22:40

@OhHolyJesus
Sorry that’s a typo! Yes, Barnardo’s. I asked lots of questions and also followed up by sharing some links to GC groups. They used the abrightin Toolkit and their own Positive Identities resources from their website. Several colleagues have asked questions and said it’s made them think, especially the sport and accommodation aspect, so that’s encouraging.

OhHolyJesus · 13/01/2020 22:00

@mooncupdotcom quick question on the training - is it Barnardos or Barbados? Not taking the p*ss a serious question - I've seen the primary school guidance from Barnardos (awful) and there are loads of the Mermaids type "training" around so wondered if it was a new one I haven't heard of.

Did you get to ask any questions? Did anyone else seem uncomfortable with the approach?

airedailleurs · 13/01/2020 21:55

@Mooncupdotcom right and if it turns out that I would need to go along with that kind of dangerous garbage I would not join the teaching profession so thanks for the heads-up!

rodgmum · 11/01/2020 21:56

Mooncupdotcom My 14 year old DD’s YH (and head of the school’s LGBT club) formally transitioned her at school behind our backs, although he did tell her 17 year old brother. When we found out and complained, he told us we had no say. All on the back of LGBT Youth Scotland guidance which is similar to what you describe.

We made a formal complaint to the Head which was upheld. DD’s therapist thinks the best shot DD has at desisting is by not having the adults around her affirm her desire to be seen as a boy, and there are many medical professionals who would support this view. IMO, schools should work with parents and not just listen to lobby groups who have little experience in child development- affirmation is an experiment with no long term research behind it.

There’s hopefully going to be an upcoming court case in Oxfordshire that in part, looks at this (see @SafeSchools_UK on Twitter)

Mooncupdotcom · 11/01/2020 21:49

I had a thread used recently about upcoming Barbados training for teaching staff in my establishment....

It was outrageous. Gender bread person, cis, how you should be subject to disciplinary for misgendering, how puberty blockers are a harmless and helpfully pause, lots of emotive sharing about homophobic abuse, conflating sex and gender throughout. Questions discouraged. Shocking.

veryboredtoday · 11/01/2020 14:50

I work in a secondary school and tend to keep relatively quiet. luckily the biology books are still based firmly in reality which makes teacher that topic a little easier and I'm fairly knowledgable about confusion around chromosomes and intersex conditions so able to fall back on solid biological evidence if the conversation veers into that conversation. However we have a number of transgender pupils so do keep it respectful (and not just because I have to but because they do deserve respect and have no wish to make a pupil feel uncomfortable in my class).

airedailleurs · 11/01/2020 14:07

I am considering going into Secondary school teaching and am very curious to know what I would and wouldn't be able to say about Transgender issues in a professional capacity/setting to avoid being fired. Many TIA.

ForeverFaithless · 24/10/2019 23:53

A group called handsoffourkids is advocating against the new curriculum but their website is a bit 'hysterical' so I'm not sure I entirely trust the people behind it. Brings to mind pro-life campaigners a bit too much.

ForeverFaithless · 24/10/2019 23:48

Would anybody like to add their thoughts to a review of RSE in Ireland? Closing date the 25th. They are going down the same route of pushing 'trans ideology' apparently.

RSE

Survey

AugustL · 24/10/2019 22:56

I saw a video going through all the books they use and snippets of lesson plans. - sorry, I don't think it actually goes through "all" the books they use. But some.

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AugustL · 24/10/2019 22:50

Yeh it's the way these things are taught, and at what age. People mentions of No Outsiders, I saw a video going through all the books they use and snippets of lesson plans. (I don't agree with everything in this video btw)

m.youtube.com/watch?v=Btt7J6H87c0

They are babyish children's story books, like aimed at young primary school children. There was transgender stuff there and it was "problematic" to take one of the woke words - gender stereotype stuff. Also, ignore homophobic stuff in that video, there may be some truth to some problems that people had with some of the LGB books as some portray being gay as a best friend type relationship, so it was thought young, primary age, kids would be confused whether their relationship with their best friend makes them gay. I don't think that's much if any of a problem though. I'm sure at a certain age they will realise themselves who they are attracted to, you can't "turn someone gay". There are no bad consequences, and no long term consequences, no medication/surgery. Kids want "to marry" lots of people/things who they love. My niece once said she wanted to marry me, lol.

@DuMondeB Wow. I feel sad for your step daughter and others who have been told that. Lucky she has you to be there for her. As we know, there are lots of reasons girls are uncomfortable with their bodies when developing. It was so wrong for the school counsellor to suggest transgender as a reason to her and to encourage her to look it up online, and on YouTube ! How irresponsible. Especially with all the nonsense there is online. What a way to damage her mental health, and introduce her to damaging online cult-like communities. Would they say that to someone with anorexia and self-harm? I'd hope not with all the very dark "pro-ana" and self-harm stuff online that encourage each other to stay unwell. If they had these concerns they should talk to parents/guardians anyway, not dump it on a child like that without their parents/guardians. But yeah, there are lots of girls uncomfortable with their bodies when going through puberty and developing. She is lucky to have you.

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NeurotrashWarrior · 24/10/2019 21:01

Although I'm absolutely completely GC and really don't think Primary schools should be touching this with a barge pole, kids are increasingly aware of this, if not from a child in school then certainly from tv. Cbbc for example.

It's being normalised.

I do believe that schools need to explain as simply and neutrally as possible. Emphasise rarity. And then draw a line. And very firmly tackle gender stereotypes and prejudice, homophobia, acceptance, difference, and many other areas around the EA.

Unfortunately, without proper official guidance, there are going to be schools with especially woke teachers who will make a big thing of it.

Safe School alliance and transgender trend are trying to keep schools from the ott wokeness.

PencilsInSpace · 24/10/2019 20:43

Looks like there's nothing to stop people from outside of Wales responding to that, OldCrone.

OldCrone · 24/10/2019 16:41

If you're in Wales, there's currently a consultation about continuing to allow parents to withdraw their children from RSE lessons.

gov.wales/ensuring-access-full-curriculum

Consultation closes on 28th November.

MonChatEstMagnifique · 24/10/2019 15:46

. Heavily reinforcing sex role stereotypes, because it is impossible to push the narrative of everyone having an innate gender identity without resorting to stereotypes. So, it's all about what real boys and girls do and if you like even just some of the things stereotypically associated with opposite sex, you might be trans.

I'd be naming and shaming any school that was doing this. Have you spoke to the school? Change schools, there's plenty that are not doing this. My kids schools are the total opposite and they're just normal state primary and secondary schools. No mention of trans issues at all, not that I'd mind if it was done well. Both sexes encouraged in all subjects, no stereotype shit at all. I have a son and a daughter. Schools that my friends and family's kids go to are like the schools my kids attend. I've never come across one that's actually doing what you're saying, but I'd complain if I did.

CharlieParley · 24/10/2019 15:29

What is being taught in schools regarding transgender ideology?

Bollocks according to my kids. Got the sex change nonsense going on both at primary and secondary school where we are (from my recollection, secondary started first). Heavily reinforcing sex role stereotypes, because it is impossible to push the narrative of everyone having an innate gender identity without resorting to stereotypes. So, it's all about what real boys and girls do and if you like even just some of the things stereotypically associated with opposite sex, you might be trans.

Teachers are required to tie themselves in knots in delivering this nonsense, because they are also required to teach kids that sex role stereotypes and sex stereotypes are harmful.

This is also having a detrimental impact on other parts of the curriculum - for instance the part which stipulates that children must learn the difference between fact and opinion, and critical thinking skills. Or Religious and Moral Education where they are learning that true respect and tolerance mean to accept others have their own views and beliefs that may not align with yours.

This is of course impossible when you are also indoctrinating them in an ideology that frames dissent as unkindness, literal violence or even criminal as the BBC claimed in its 100 genders piece.

Evenquieterlife33 · 24/10/2019 15:16

Sorry that should say “you” not mood.

Evenquieterlife33 · 24/10/2019 15:14

Also today a friend told me about the school she works in where a child under 8 is using the girls loo. When he wants to though because he believes he is a boy sometimes and a girl sometimes. Some of the girls have mentioned it to the staff- as in -“Miss- x is in the girls toilets and he shouldn’t be.” So right away there we have a group of girls who are being told to go against their instincts. At what point do those girls then get told actually you are entitled to your personal sex based spaces for your privacy and dignity if they don’t learn this right away? And at what point does the boy get told you can’t do that anymore because your now 8 and we must sex segregate mood by law at school? Because If this does pop up as a subject for discussion in his class how on earth should a teacher handle it?

Evenquieterlife33 · 24/10/2019 15:06

“cabbageking
It is about provision for your specific cohort aimed at their understanding.
Year 6 class one year may be very young and not ask searching questions. Another Year 5 class may have questions that need answering.”
This in my opinion is exactly the problem. My children are not part of some homogeneous “cohort” they are individuals. I don’t want them being swept along with ideas around this that I do not agree with. I don’t think schools are qualified to deliver this information.
@AutumnRose1 re the survey parents have to opt out. So a message went out to parents when the first charity came on board saying you can opt out. I didn’t out of nosiness. I’ve decided we should do though.

PencilsInSpace · 24/10/2019 14:38

TrishTeres there is nothing extreme about the B. Along with the L and the G it is benign.

Hmm

As I said in an earlier post:

The problem in the UK at the moment is that this is being framed as a battle between religious parents (especially muslims) and enlightened educators keen to redress the damage of s28.

We need to change this narrative because there are lots of very solid reasons - child safeguarding, women and girls' rights, LGB rights etc. - to resist what's happening in schools. Reasons that have nothing to do with religion, homophobia, right wing bla bla.

HandsOffMyRights · 24/10/2019 11:45

Regarding lobby groups and schools, note Rowdy Woman's informative post from last year:

**The law and guidance:
Most transgender organisations are political pressure groups in that they try to influence public policy in the interest of their particular cause. Schools are constrained by the duty to comply with Sections 406 and 407 of the Education Act 1996 which forbids ‘the promotion of partisan political views…’
There is also a requirement found in the Prevent Duty and Teaching Controversial Issues for Schools which places a duty on schools to “secure that where political issues are brought to the attention of pupils… they are offered a balanced presentation of opposing views”. So groups trying to influence policy about say changing the use of sex segregated spaces in schools, changing school policy, changing language used in schools etc are acting as political pressure groups and if they are working with pupils there MUST be a balance of views.

Trans pressure groups present themselves as dealing with bullying, vulnerability etc but in addition to this, they are politically influencing school policy and practice - and there are laws about this. It's just that nobody has picked up on this as they only 'see' the initial anti bullying advice**

ArnoldWhatshisknickers · 24/10/2019 11:29

What is the obsession with 'Stonewall Champion' status?

Stonewall are, and always have been, a lobby group. There is nothing wrong with lobby groups per se, but the public sector have a remit that requires political neutrality. I'm a public sector worker and we are not allowed to even have a collection tin for the Poppy Appeal as it is seen as political, so why in schools do certain issues have the normal rules thrown out of the window?

TrishTeres · 24/10/2019 11:27

Stonewall! - the word means the opposite of dialogue.

Thanks for putting me onto fairplayforwomen

Well done on your leafletting and outreach DuMondeB

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