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Amber Rudd says 'sexist' Brexiteers are backing Boris Johnson's deal 'because he's a man'

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DoctorAllcome · 15/10/2019 16:55

This is an article on Yahoo News today.
It’s a given we have sexism here in the US (no female president yet), but I thought sexism might be less prevalent in U.K. because you’ve had female PMs and Queens. What do you UK moms think about Amber Rudd’s statement?

uk.news.yahoo.com/amber-rudd-sexist-brexiteers-boris-deal-130112906.html

Here’s a bit of the text:
“Amber Rudd has accused Brexiteers of sexism over their support for Boris Johnson’s Brexit deal.

The former Work and Pensions Secretary, who resigned from the cabinet last month in protest at the Prime Minister’s approach to Brexit, claimed there was a “whiff of sexism” about the way Brexiteers were supporting his deal despite its similarities to Theresa May’s proposals.

BBC Radio 5 Live host Emma Barnett asked why members of the European Research Group of MPs would accept the deal from him and not Mrs May, and suggested it was because “she is a woman and he is a man”.

“It’s difficult not to share that view,” Ms Rudd responded.”

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VolcanionSteamArtillery · 16/10/2019 13:55

Ive been trying to find the EUs response. I haven't seen anything yet. I wouldnt expect it until very last minute friday. If it comes earlier i'll be surprised.

The north sea border is a difficult thing. It was probably always going to get through with Brexiters but not with DUP. It was a big thing for May because she was realiant on the DUP. Boris Johnson has no majority even with the DUP. By removing the whip the way he did he effectively devalued the support of the DUP at the same time.

Its worth noting that Labour currently hold a good number of leave seat, by so obviously electioneering he really is putting the screws on any labour mp in a leave constituency, many of whom abstained On the TM vote. Im thinking Boris us going for the cross party leave vote as opposed to the DUP vote. Regardless it is deeply decisive and likely to leave deep scars all sides of the house

TM fought a clean battle and lost. Boris Johnson is fighting decidedly dirty. Is that to do with Women vs men or just different characters. I dont really know

DoctorAllcome · 16/10/2019 13:52

@VolcanionSteamArtillery
Boris always said he wanted a deal. The WA was always closer to passing than it looked on paper. TM really should get the credit for what she did achieve in the WA. Sadly that probably won't ever get recognised.

Yes. That is my impression too. That it was more personality conflicts than actual negotiation sticking points that derailed things for TM.

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DoctorAllcome · 16/10/2019 13:49

@volcano
Boris has only got it

HAS he got it? I don’t know if the EU have agreed to it- do you have a reference saying the EU have?
I just read on the Independent that he missed the midnight deadline last night and now the EU council are saying it’s too late to have any WA with Brussels before Brexit day. So it’s no deal or extension. But, the Telegraph is saying BJ will be asking for an extension.....”if no WA by this weekend” (which is certain according to EU).

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Jillyhilly · 16/10/2019 13:43

I don’t for a second think it’s about sexism. He’s clearly just better at getting along with people.

Boris has charisma. Theresa May didn’t. It’s largely about relationships, and the ability to charm people helps enormously.

“Allowing May to be PM”. How completely belittling of her. She decided she wanted the job, felt that she was up for it and I guess did it to the best of her abilities. She didn’t have to do it. Do you think she saw herself as a pawn? I doubt it. So why do you?

VolcanionSteamArtillery · 16/10/2019 13:43

Tbh I think that concession was always going to ellude TM while she played nice and asked for extensions etc. Boris has only got it because he ran the clock down and looked to the EU like somehow or other he might just be crazy or cany enough to pull off a no deal brexit (despite the Benn act nearly sabotaging that). Thats partly because Boris is Boris and none is quite sure if he is an idiot or a very clever act. Either feels (and probably is) a lot more dangerous than May. Its only now that EU is started to feel the pressure on them of no deal Brexit.

Boris always said he wanted a deal. The WA was always closer to passing than it looked on paper. TM really should get the credit for what she did achieve in the WA. Sadly that probably won't ever get recognised.

DoctorAllcome · 16/10/2019 13:38

@Volcano
Yes, but I don’t think the EU has agreed to BJs time limit yet (that I know of). I agree if the EU agrees to it, it is a significant concession that was not given to May despite her asking.

I could only find a U.K. Guardian article that is saying Johnson has conceded to the EU demands for NI to stay in the EU customs union and for a Irish Sea border. It says the DUP don’t like this.
“Earlier on Tuesday, Michel Barnier had set Johnson a midnight deadline to concede to EU demands and agree to a customs border in the Irish Sea or be left with nothing to take to the Commons.”
www.theguardian.com/politics/2019/oct/15/boris-johnson-close-to-brexit-deal-after-border-concessions

It says that May rejected these EU demands earlier.

Interesting more sexism....the woman has nonsupport so is actually the tougher negotiator but the man has support so he feels secure enough to concede to the EU and still get a deal through the commons.

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Velveteenfruitbowl · 16/10/2019 13:31

I would imagine that it’s more likely down to desperation than sex. I do think that they would be more willing to do what boris says in general but again I think that’s more down to characteristic difference. May just wasn’t capable of pushing people around the way he does. I think few people could measure up on that particular front. No offence to boris of course.

Goosefoot · 16/10/2019 13:28

I really don't find the glass cliff theory here convincing. I don't think any of them care whether it was a man or women who failed, as long as they didn't fail themselves.

Jaxhog · 16/10/2019 13:27

Absolutely. And while the UK may be a little sexist (especially in politics), some European countries (and the EU negotiators) are a whole lot worse.

VolcanionSteamArtillery · 16/10/2019 13:24

FTA, Johnson has given it an end date of 2yrs after the end of the transition...so 4yrs total. One little pen stroke.

Actually thats a fairly significant concession that wasnt given to May. Had it been given to May i have no doubt the working agreement would have got through Parliment (at least had a much better chance). The rest of the WA was a reasonable compromise but tying the UK to the EU indefinitely if EU decided to play silly buggers was never going to get the support of any MP who want out or any MP that believes in preserving the independence of Parliment.

If there is any sexism in play its on Europe's part for failing to make that concession to May. But i suspect they didnt want to make it unless they felt they had to. They now know they werent going to get the WA through Parliment and Boris seems determined to out suddenly there was more incentive to make that concession.

EBearhug · 16/10/2019 13:18

I always thought allowing May to be PM was a classic glass cliff scenario. After Cameron ran away from dealing with the results of his own incompetence, the next PM was being handed a poisoned chalice and unlikely to succeed, so they were happy to sacrifice a woman to the role. The whole thing is full of sexism, but they'll use Priti Patel and others to prove they are diverse.

Fatshedra · 16/10/2019 13:14

P.S. I do think there is sexism at work, we only get a female PM when we are up the creek and none of the boys want the job.

Fatshedra · 16/10/2019 13:11

When in the home office TM failed in her promise to reduce immigration- I think it was something like 230,000 pa. Had she succeeded we would probably not have had Brexit. She also shafted the police for some reason, maybe she got ticked off by PC Plod for running in the corn field, hence our terrible crime figures. She has no personality or sense of humour, needed to bring others on board, no PM material imv.

Caucho · 16/10/2019 13:03

I’m not claiming Boris is better but it can’t be denied she was bad in terms of being PM like. I think most people recognise she did get a shit hand and her competition at the time will feel they dodged a bullet.

I think the only reason for the increase in enthusiasm for what can only be a marginally a different deal is it’s crunch time and any form of Brexit at all won’t happen at all if we miss the date by the way the wind is blowing. Would have been cancelled ages ago without Corbyns assistance

DoctorAllcome · 16/10/2019 12:48

@downbutnotout2018
I agree with your glass cliff analogy. I feel like May did 90% of the work hammering out a solution but because the boys in ERG wanted some icing on the cake, they pushed her out and put a fellow man in place to put the icing on and pass the entire cake off as his own miracle save.

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borntobequiet · 16/10/2019 12:47

I'm certain it's a part of it.

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DoctorAllcome · 16/10/2019 12:43

Good point @Caucho and @DreadPirateLuna on how the impeding 31 Oct deadline is putting pressure on the U.K. to take it or leave it. (It being the deal). I think May had said that before her final loss & resignation, but now it’s two weeks away instead of five months, so MPs must be feeling the heat.

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DoctorAllcome · 16/10/2019 12:37

@ Fiddlesticks,
Mays deal took everyone in U.K. except NI out of the single market after transition (services so no freedom of movement).
Also that either the U.K. would just stay in customs union only (goods) for a “limited time” past transition until FTA done or that there would be an Irish Sea border between NI and rest of U.K.? BJs deal just inserts “2yrs” where I have written “limited time”

Both deals are technically a hard Brexit as prereferendum many Brexiteers were saying in a soft Brexit, the U.K. would stay in the Customs union and single market but only leave the political union of the EU for reasons of sovreignity.

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DreadPirateLuna · 16/10/2019 09:27

I think it's more the fact that we're so close to the deadline, it's this deal or no deal. Back when May presented her solution, there was still some hope there was time for something better, but Johnson has put us over a barrel by saying the UK is leaving at the end of the month no matter what.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 16/10/2019 09:05

Of course that's why they're going for it. Johnson's deal is actually worse for the UK than May's was, but he's a MAN so gets the applause and the backing.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 16/10/2019 07:58

Is this little outburst of angry manfeels about the "whinging woman" going to continue for a while? Cause if so I'm blocking the thread.

downbutnotout2018 · 16/10/2019 07:51

But is the strong and stable mantra any worse than the get Brexit done crap Boris keeps manically repeating?

Caucho · 16/10/2019 02:57

Plus this set up to fail then swooping in was a terrible plan if it existed. Did they plan to lose their absolute majority in the GE and have to kiss DUP arse due to May leading one of the worse campaigns ever such as being too terrified to have a TV debate with Corbyn and robotically repeating strong and stable?

Caucho · 16/10/2019 02:50

And let’s not pretend she was shit, woman or not. Boris hasn’t had enough time to prove he’s worse