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Sacked by the NSPCC on 12th August,

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mimivanne · 11/10/2019 13:01

I've not seen this reported anywhere till today but good news.
The rubber fetish wanker who filmed himself in the NSPCC loo at work was dismissed on 12th August ,I hope he isn't employed by another charity.

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Fraggling · 11/10/2019 20:11

The thing with this

Is it was the nspcc etc

But in general

How are people esp women to feel when they have meetings with a man with these predictions? If I recall, he was wearing rubber underclothes, and wanked and pissed in them, and was excited about wearing them for the rest of the working day. And had posted this online.

I don't know about you but I'd feel really uncomfortable having a work meeting with a man who I knew was wearing rubber pants full of come and piss due to a fetish.

How is this even a thing to be open about?
Why did his employer back him?
Why is there no consideration whatsoever of the impact on other people working there?

That's even before you get to it being nspcc.

This is not ok in any industry.

Yet the employer, Owen Jones, pink news, others? All backed him. Backed the fact that this man would be going around at work having meetings interacting with colleagues like this, and that they would know.

What is going on exactly.

terfsandwich · 11/10/2019 18:01

That would have been before the sacking I think.

This is great news!

GlitterToast · 11/10/2019 17:52

Didn’t someone post at the time that one of the papers had written a report on this but then decided at the last minute not to publish it? I wonder why...

testing987654321 · 11/10/2019 16:57

held at the V&A Museum of Childhood

Just why? Could they not find a suitably adult venue?

MouthyHarpy · 11/10/2019 16:48

OP Good.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 11/10/2019 15:42

I remember the old days when folx just worked in charities for their OBEs...

HandsOffMyRights · 11/10/2019 15:21

And, regarding the lack of media coverage, the charity has friends in low and high places:

Sacked by the NSPCC on 12th August,
HandsOffMyRights · 11/10/2019 15:20

Excellent news.
The NSPCC needs to get its house in order.

Even prior to Bergdorf and Rubberman, this CHILDREN's charity was tweeting dangerous rubbish like this:

Sacked by the NSPCC on 12th August,
RoyalCorgi · 11/10/2019 15:11

Nspcc said that was bullying and all the bullying tweets should be reported.

It's just unbelievable. I'd really like to see an apology for that. What I want more than anything, though, is for the press to pick up on it. I don't see why they haven't done. The Mirror was the only publication to report on the original story. Something like this ought to be huge.

littlbrowndog · 11/10/2019 14:53

Yeah report people for concerns for a guy wanking at work and posting it online.
Nspcc said that was bullying and all the bullying tweets should be reported.
A children’s charity. WTAF

RoyalCorgi · 11/10/2019 14:00

Oh yes, I see. I read too quickly and thought that you'd received the letter. Didn't see that it was on Twitter. I hope someone has asked OJ for his opinion.

DuMondeB · 11/10/2019 13:55

James Makings recently participated in a ‘queer fashion show’ held at the V&A Museum of Childhood, with the words ‘Self Luv’ written on his bare arse.

What’s that phrase US journalists use about Trump? Oh yes...

‘Bad optics’

OrchidInTheSun · 11/10/2019 13:55

Here's an old thread with loads of links: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3611125-AIBU-to-say-that-if-you-work-in-child-protection-you-shouldnt-post-pictures-of-yourself-wanking-at-work-in-fetish-gear

and the screenshot from the NSPCC saying they won't tolerate bullying of their staff.

Sacked by the NSPCC on 12th August,
mimivanne · 11/10/2019 13:48

RoyalCorgi

Info from Twitter,Jane Harris
The letter from Garry NSPCC is addressed to Jane,so I'm thinking Jane Harris may have been a complainant .....

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RedToothBrush · 11/10/2019 13:47

The PR here is incredible.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 11/10/2019 13:47

Well that was kept quiet. I SAID THAT WAS KEPT QUIET!

Funny there wasn’t a twitter storm of attacks on the NSPCC for ‘kink shaming’ rubber boy. I must’ve missed the stonewall T-shirt ‘some people take their kinks to work and post it on the Internet - get over it’.

RaymondStopThat · 11/10/2019 13:42

That is such good news. And shame on those who defended him. With twitter, it's so fast moving that it's easy to forget a burning issue and move onto the next one. Has anyone heard anything about the YHA review into their single sex accommodation policy? Maybe we could keep asking about that too.

truthisarevolutionaryact · 11/10/2019 13:41

That's reassuring. I did worry that they were arguing that his behaviour represented the best of NSPCC practice. It would be interesting to see what they said to all their staff who reckoned that criticism of this was homophobic - especially those who work directly with children. Hopefully training has been provided for them?

And now they have rediscovered their values, maybe they might be able to have a word with Warwickshire County Council about their practice of promoting felching, fisting and bukkake to 13 year olds and the safeguarding implications of this? Just a thought.

VictoriaSpongeAndTea · 11/10/2019 13:38

I'm hoping this means NSPCC have (belatedly) remembered they are a charity who are supposed to be keeping children safe (note I am not suggesting wanking rubber man was a threat but behaviour was a red flag)

NotBadConsidering · 11/10/2019 13:35

Owen Jones tried to call out the people who reported this.

Guardian in “let’s forget about what we wrote previously” shocker. See also: America’s first legal non binary person.

RoyalCorgi · 11/10/2019 13:33

Good work, OP, and very good news. Have you put this on Twitter at all? I think it deserves a bit more publicity.

Dangerfloof · 11/10/2019 13:30

Oh wow, didnt see that coming 😂

GirlDownUnder · 11/10/2019 13:25

How very curious that this update was kept on the down low after the initial brouhaha.

It's almost as if spin matters more than honesty or transparency.

A oversight I'm sure, and we'll see this is Prick News et al very soon....

Fraggling · 11/10/2019 13:17

That's weird.

I thought they gave him 100% support.

Why did they change their minds.

Why didn't they tell anyone.

SarahTancredi · 11/10/2019 13:16

Funny how he failed to call out the nspcc for being homophobic. Because nspcc clearly think gay men are so incapable of behaving in an appropriate manner that they just have to he allowed to film themselves wanking at work in order to be able to remain employed.

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